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Aug 01, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 1322 · Topics: 35
Oh, SagAngel, he likely just freaked himself out with the great night and intensity and couldn't do another day/evening of it so soon. You've been on and then off and now on again with him over how many years time? A few years? Just trying to recall the time span.
You really can't go with those words... I'm sure he meant them, but then he gets feeling scared, claustrophobic, and like he will be locked down and tied down if he gets into a routine? Just give him space, don't act pissed off or chase him. You really should set it up in your mind that you will not hear from him for like 1-2 weeks following an intense, night together. That's just my and others experience sometimes. I know- it's not normal, and whether you want to accept it and put up with it, is your own decision.
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
'Branh maybe the other unemployed guy had the qualities she ( this girl u dated) wanted in a guy....'
Maybe the sex was really really good...thats usually why
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Mar 18, 2006Comments: 2 · Posts: 23862 · Topics: 499
Hey sagangel,
I've been where you are and believe me I know the feeling. Last October, that cancer guy came to visit out of the blue -- previously we had a very confusing arguement (later he told me that the argument was prevoked by him because we were getting too CLOSE (???).
I hadn't saw him in one and a half, so natural I was more then alittle shocked we he drops by my place. I brainlessly hugged the cancer along with "making up" with him. He promised that things were going to be different and that he wanted to change his life around. He asked for my caring heart in order to support his "fragile" one :::OH GIVE ME A BREAK :::
To make along story short, he broke all those *wondeful* promises in favor of other women. I REFUSED TO BE ANOTHER NOTCH IN HIS BELT ... so I let go of my emotions and took MANY steps back.
It was hard only because I grew to care for him BUT BUT BUT, I didn't feel for him enough to live a lie.
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Mar 15, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 5038 · Topics: 65
'...Some women think they can change guys.....'
sooo true... but they r dissappointed coz hey no one is ever going to change for ya... maybe for a while YES but they go back to their old ways....