Foxglove - I also think the "You gave it up too easily" is really stupid. I'm glad you understood where I'm coming from. Anyway, he's French so I believe they're more open minded and understands women sexuality.
Answer to your question, he did try to pleasure me while I gave him BJ. He didn't ask me to leave after BJ. He told he I shouldn't stay the night because he's dick and when he's sick he feels uncomfortable sleeping with someone. So I felt I was wrong to press the issue.
He also wanted me to stay and go out the next morning together. He told me so before he got sick...