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LeoWithCapAndAnnoyed
I don't understand why people would say that, Again I still love this man, I talk to him at least once a month. We are friends, yes I was mad when I found out about him and yes I did wanted to be vindictive but the common sense side of me made more sense.
Again, if anyone has read what I said, I said that, I told him I removing myself from this equation because of his lack of communicaton, and he accepted it and wanted us to stay friends and I accepted that. I don't hate him I don't live on bad memory of him, I had a lot of good memories with him they over power the bad so when I think about him I think about good stuff and that gives me happy memories.
I sit back and read the comments of the ladies, new and old and I wonder when the HELL are you going to give up, let go, How can people be with someone that makes them emotionally crazy, maybe because I protect my emotions so hard not to get hurt just like a Cap that I can't see pass what you ladies see, and I don't want to can't work that hard to pursue a man. My idea of getting a man is totally different from what most people idea is I believe.
I don't understand why people would say that, Again I still love this man, I talk to him at least once a month. We are friends, yes I was mad when I found out about him and yes I did wanted to be vindictive but the common sense side of me made more sense.
Again, if anyone has read what I said, I said that, I told him I removing myself from this equation because of his lack of communicaton, and he accepted it and wanted us to stay friends and I accepted that. I don't hate him I don't live on bad memory of him, I had a lot of good memories with him they over power the bad so when I think about him I think about good stuff and that gives me happy memories.
I sit back and read the comments of the ladies, new and old and I wonder when the HELL are you going to give up, let go, How can people be with someone that makes them emotionally crazy, maybe because I protect my emotions so hard not to get hurt just like a Cap that I can't see pass what you ladies see, and I don't want to can't work that hard to pursue a man. My idea of getting a man is totally different from what most people idea is I believe.
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i am afraid of loosing him cuz if i ask him anything about his strange behaviour he tells me to stop being insecure .
In his mails ,calls and texts he seemed to be dying to take me in his arms but after engagement , he showed no such signs .I thought may be he is with his family after long and that i should give him space , but didn't he know that promises were made by him .I just wanted that he should have atleast informed about me about his changed schedule or that he wanted to go out with his family , i would not have got hurt but concealing things and then expecting love and trust from me ? I still love him despite all that
Earlier also he stopped talking to me , that too after telling me that he loves me very much .After ten days when i had lo9st every hope of his coming back to me , he again started mailing me and saying sorry and that he was thinking about our relationshaip .He told me that he was not seeing anyone else and i trust him .
My worry is that if he continues his off and on behaviour after marriage what will i do .
In his mails ,calls and texts he seemed to be dying to take me in his arms but after engagement , he showed no such signs .I thought may be he is with his family after long and that i should give him space , but didn't he know that promises were made by him .I just wanted that he should have atleast informed about me about his changed schedule or that he wanted to go out with his family , i would not have got hurt but concealing things and then expecting love and trust from me ? I still love him despite all that
Earlier also he stopped talking to me , that too after telling me that he loves me very much .After ten days when i had lo9st every hope of his coming back to me , he again started mailing me and saying sorry and that he was thinking about our relationshaip .He told me that he was not seeing anyone else and i trust him .
My worry is that if he continues his off and on behaviour after marriage what will i do .
"A few days back we met and got engaged to be married in a few months".
Lovelorn this should be some of the happiest days of your life - you are just engaged, you should be on cloud 9! But what's happening, already after so short a time, you are all cried out! over this guy - not a good start to any relationship
And why oh why, are you getting to engaged to someone after only knowing them 3 months? I know sometimes love can happen fast and furious, but hey, to get to know someone and be ready to marry them, for me anyway, would take a full year or more.
What countries exactly do you come from? Is this an arranged marriage or something? If you met on the net, then probably not. And why can't you be together for the next few months to get to know one another before the big day???? Is this a culture thing?
"Recently i detected some of his lies but didn't show him that i know about his lies" - you know yourself, then and there, you should have confronted this guy and asked him does he practice what he is preaching...and if so, then what's the story with his lies? You missed "a turning-point" moment or opportunity there.
I don't wish to be a "bubble-burster" for you or anyone.....but I am thinking alarm bells should be ringing loudly, sirens blaring and screaching in your head.....it's not a good set-up, the whole scene as you yourself have painted it points to the "danger-zone", in my humble opinion.
What can you do about it?
You meet, talk face to face, heart to heart.
If you are not satisfied 200% with his behaviour, actions and words, then it's time for you to say adios and bail out - an engagement is meant to be just that - to "engage" one another - it's not happening for you in any way.
If you are happy with him after your face-to-face, then fair enough.
But as things stand presently, only a "rose-coloured tinted fool" could see a rosy future ahead for you.
Don't be a fool for anyone....take the initiative.....find the power within to do what you have to do and don't let your "madly in love" be "badly in love" for Mr. Libra.
Good luck lovelorn.
Alana x
Lovelorn this should be some of the happiest days of your life - you are just engaged, you should be on cloud 9! But what's happening, already after so short a time, you are all cried out! over this guy - not a good start to any relationship
And why oh why, are you getting to engaged to someone after only knowing them 3 months? I know sometimes love can happen fast and furious, but hey, to get to know someone and be ready to marry them, for me anyway, would take a full year or more.
What countries exactly do you come from? Is this an arranged marriage or something? If you met on the net, then probably not. And why can't you be together for the next few months to get to know one another before the big day???? Is this a culture thing?
"Recently i detected some of his lies but didn't show him that i know about his lies" - you know yourself, then and there, you should have confronted this guy and asked him does he practice what he is preaching...and if so, then what's the story with his lies? You missed "a turning-point" moment or opportunity there.
I don't wish to be a "bubble-burster" for you or anyone.....but I am thinking alarm bells should be ringing loudly, sirens blaring and screaching in your head.....it's not a good set-up, the whole scene as you yourself have painted it points to the "danger-zone", in my humble opinion.
What can you do about it?
You meet, talk face to face, heart to heart.
If you are not satisfied 200% with his behaviour, actions and words, then it's time for you to say adios and bail out - an engagement is meant to be just that - to "engage" one another - it's not happening for you in any way.
If you are happy with him after your face-to-face, then fair enough.
But as things stand presently, only a "rose-coloured tinted fool" could see a rosy future ahead for you.
Don't be a fool for anyone....take the initiative.....find the power within to do what you have to do and don't let your "madly in love" be "badly in love" for Mr. Libra.
Good luck lovelorn.
Alana x
Wow, BabyG, you got to be a guinea pig . . . they are so warm and fuzzy and cuddly, lol
I think he was looking for you to look both directions. To the right when you pulled out a memory about your childhood, that would be truth. Then to the left when you thought about an imaginary place - imaginary is lie, really because it doesn't exist.
That's really cool in a way that your guy was having fun with you. But, I can certainly understand how that would make you feel wierd. He should have told you before hand. Sounds like your relationship with this man is going to be full of surprises.
I think he was looking for you to look both directions. To the right when you pulled out a memory about your childhood, that would be truth. Then to the left when you thought about an imaginary place - imaginary is lie, really because it doesn't exist.
That's really cool in a way that your guy was having fun with you. But, I can certainly understand how that would make you feel wierd. He should have told you before hand. Sounds like your relationship with this man is going to be full of surprises.
You wont' be getting bored, it looks like.
"Its truely the hardest thing to think about it & not act on it but to forgive & grow"
If you think about fun, beautiful stuff all the time, then everything is wonderful and growth isn't needed. Seems like Pisces sometimes struggle with this. They just let themselves sink deeper into imaginary bliss, where work isn't needed. Fortunately for us fishes, we are ALWAYS able to swim to the surface and see the dark clouds above, so we can adjust ourselves appropriately. Not every sign can do that. They can see the errors, but don't have enough depth within theirselves to heal from within.
Just some thoughts.
If you think about fun, beautiful stuff all the time, then everything is wonderful and growth isn't needed. Seems like Pisces sometimes struggle with this. They just let themselves sink deeper into imaginary bliss, where work isn't needed. Fortunately for us fishes, we are ALWAYS able to swim to the surface and see the dark clouds above, so we can adjust ourselves appropriately. Not every sign can do that. They can see the errors, but don't have enough depth within theirselves to heal from within.
Just some thoughts.
sb, maybe it depends on each different person and their own perspective. To Brahn, and most other Virgo's, intellilect is and important quality to have. They would think thinks out thoroughly, hence deeply. Everybody has their own sense of what is deep, like even a woman spending a month trying to match her shoes to a new dress, is still looking at this deeper, for she wants her colors to match.
So, being deep could really mean anything so long as a person doesn't let it just bounce off of them without further thought. I should think that the important thing isn't necessarily WHAT makes a person deep, as much as, that there is something that does make them so - there is something more to them than just a shell of a person.
Does that make sense?
So, being deep could really mean anything so long as a person doesn't let it just bounce off of them without further thought. I should think that the important thing isn't necessarily WHAT makes a person deep, as much as, that there is something that does make them so - there is something more to them than just a shell of a person.
Does that make sense?
I know, ignorance can be bliss once in a while. And seeing that I'm a sadistic evil btch, I have to find my fun SOMEWHERE. And you Aries think you're the only ones to have fun, lol.
Now, I'm getting worked up, again. Watching games in bedroom . . . hmmmmmmmmmm
Fishes have no sexual boundaries, perhaps we shouldn't be talking about this. I'll have to pull out my whip.
Now, I'm getting worked up, again. Watching games in bedroom . . . hmmmmmmmmmm
Fishes have no sexual boundaries, perhaps we shouldn't be talking about this. I'll have to pull out my whip.
Back to topic, I don't necessarily think that people get offended by Aries in particular. People get irritated and offended by most everybody else, if the mood serves them. Hell, I see people get offended all the time, for no reason at all, like just the smell of someone's perfume standing in line. It's really just the other person's mood at the time. What offends this time, may not next time. You know what I mean.
I'm a Tigress!!! Which bedroom babe are you?
There's a lingerie sale at your local mall. You:
A. Pop in and stock up on dozens of hot new numbers.
B. Check it out, but know at the back of your mind that the best gear never makes it to the sale rack.
C. Let it pass. You hate shopping for intimate items amid dozens of other women.
D. Make a mental note to drop by, but forget.
What colour dominates in your underwear drawer?
A. Red.
B. Black and white.
C. Pale pinks, light blues and baby yellows.
D. You have a total mix of colours.
When you look at lingerie adverts, you think:
A. "I'd look fantastic in that."
B. "What a waste of money!"
C. "The matching sets are the nicest."
D. "Boring!"
You find porn movies:
A. An inspiration.
B. Abhorrent.
C. Frightening.
D. A harmless diversion.
When you buy new underwear, you:
A. Can't wait to show it off.
B. Feel satisfied.
C. Feel ecstatic.
D. Regret the money spent, but it was about time you replaced your fraying granny bloomers.
First-time sex with a partner should be:
A. An out-of-this world, acrobatic experience. And you often keep the horny beast waiting, just to up the excitement.
B. Worthwhile.
C. Sensual and special ? you hope to make a connection.
D. Natural. You try not to load it with unwarranted sentiments.
If you were limited to one sex position for the rest of your life, it would be:
A. A doggy-froggy combination.
B. Missionary.
C. Woman on top.
D. The spoon (or any position suitable for prolonged, Tantric sex).
If you could own only one style of panties, you'd choose:
A. A sexy thong.
B. Full panties. So what if you look like your gogo ? at least you won't be living with a permanent wedgie up your bum.
C. Something pink and pretty.
D. Hipsters.
The first time you get down and dirty with a man, you discover he's wearing a tattered pair of briefs. You think:
A. "He could at least have made an effort to look appealing."
B. "Who cares? I want the goods, not the wrapping!"
C. "I wonder if he's clean?"
D. You never notice. You're too busy staring intently into his eyes.
Your man flies you to a dreamy, secluded island. What do you pack to wear to bed?
A. A special little outfit for role-playing, complete with matching blindfold and a whip.
B. A simple, but stylish white cotton neglig?e.
C. A lacy, pale blue neglig?e with a sweetheart neckline.
D. His boxer shorts and a T-shirt.
There's a lingerie sale at your local mall. You:
A. Pop in and stock up on dozens of hot new numbers.
B. Check it out, but know at the back of your mind that the best gear never makes it to the sale rack.
C. Let it pass. You hate shopping for intimate items amid dozens of other women.
D. Make a mental note to drop by, but forget.
What colour dominates in your underwear drawer?
A. Red.
B. Black and white.
C. Pale pinks, light blues and baby yellows.
D. You have a total mix of colours.
When you look at lingerie adverts, you think:
A. "I'd look fantastic in that."
B. "What a waste of money!"
C. "The matching sets are the nicest."
D. "Boring!"
You find porn movies:
A. An inspiration.
B. Abhorrent.
C. Frightening.
D. A harmless diversion.
When you buy new underwear, you:
A. Can't wait to show it off.
B. Feel satisfied.
C. Feel ecstatic.
D. Regret the money spent, but it was about time you replaced your fraying granny bloomers.
First-time sex with a partner should be:
A. An out-of-this world, acrobatic experience. And you often keep the horny beast waiting, just to up the excitement.
B. Worthwhile.
C. Sensual and special ? you hope to make a connection.
D. Natural. You try not to load it with unwarranted sentiments.
If you were limited to one sex position for the rest of your life, it would be:
A. A doggy-froggy combination.
B. Missionary.
C. Woman on top.
D. The spoon (or any position suitable for prolonged, Tantric sex).
If you could own only one style of panties, you'd choose:
A. A sexy thong.
B. Full panties. So what if you look like your gogo ? at least you won't be living with a permanent wedgie up your bum.
C. Something pink and pretty.
D. Hipsters.
The first time you get down and dirty with a man, you discover he's wearing a tattered pair of briefs. You think:
A. "He could at least have made an effort to look appealing."
B. "Who cares? I want the goods, not the wrapping!"
C. "I wonder if he's clean?"
D. You never notice. You're too busy staring intently into his eyes.
Your man flies you to a dreamy, secluded island. What do you pack to wear to bed?
A. A special little outfit for role-playing, complete with matching blindfold and a whip.
B. A simple, but stylish white cotton neglig?e.
C. A lacy, pale blue neglig?e with a sweetheart neckline.
D. His boxer shorts and a T-shirt.
The verdict
Mostly As: THE TIGRESS
When it comes to sexy underwear, you'll stop at nothing to find something that will knock the socks (and more!) off your man. You aim to be his sex queen, the one lover who'll go where no other has dared to go before. Being a Tigress, you get bored easily and like to experiment in bed to keep the action X-rated. You're determined to pile up a hoard of sizzling memories to warm up your bones in your old age, and believe half the glory of sex is its preamble. The down-side to the Tigress' sexual exploits is that she's so hooked on bells, mirrors, whistles and special effects that she sometimes forgets about real satisfaction. Ask yourself why you're obsessed with pushing boundaries. Then slow down and let the stew boil without nuking it.
Mostly Bs: THE COMFORT QUEEN
While you love good sex and value your partner's concern, you're too practical and straightforward to bother with the window-dressing. You also have a deep mistrust of gadgets and gizmos, and believe the bedroom is a place for real, unadorned communication. You need your underwear to be functional and fitting. You go for simple, comfortable panties like boy-legs, which are easy to wear and unaffected. The down-side to your style is that while you're a sensitive, compassionate partner, you're a little lacking in imagination. Try taking a risk now and then: remember, a bit of pepper adds relish to the pot, and your man will appreciate you ringing the changes.
Mostly Cs: THE BARBIE DOLL
You love pretty, lacy underwear that makes you look as sweet as pie. When planning a romantic night, you're anxious to package yourself immaculately, complete with bows, perfume and perfectly coiffed hair, and you prefer underwear that's ultra-feminine. You far prefer to follow his lead in bed, because you believe a man should initiate and guide the action. New positions and locales for sex may upset you, because you feel insecure and afraid you might be making a fool of yourself. But you're a big girl now, and are 50% responsible for the state of your relationship. Get out of your doll's house and stop obsessing about tying up strings neatly. Life and love aren't like that ? nor should they be!
Mostly As: THE TIGRESS
When it comes to sexy underwear, you'll stop at nothing to find something that will knock the socks (and more!) off your man. You aim to be his sex queen, the one lover who'll go where no other has dared to go before. Being a Tigress, you get bored easily and like to experiment in bed to keep the action X-rated. You're determined to pile up a hoard of sizzling memories to warm up your bones in your old age, and believe half the glory of sex is its preamble. The down-side to the Tigress' sexual exploits is that she's so hooked on bells, mirrors, whistles and special effects that she sometimes forgets about real satisfaction. Ask yourself why you're obsessed with pushing boundaries. Then slow down and let the stew boil without nuking it.
Mostly Bs: THE COMFORT QUEEN
While you love good sex and value your partner's concern, you're too practical and straightforward to bother with the window-dressing. You also have a deep mistrust of gadgets and gizmos, and believe the bedroom is a place for real, unadorned communication. You need your underwear to be functional and fitting. You go for simple, comfortable panties like boy-legs, which are easy to wear and unaffected. The down-side to your style is that while you're a sensitive, compassionate partner, you're a little lacking in imagination. Try taking a risk now and then: remember, a bit of pepper adds relish to the pot, and your man will appreciate you ringing the changes.
Mostly Cs: THE BARBIE DOLL
You love pretty, lacy underwear that makes you look as sweet as pie. When planning a romantic night, you're anxious to package yourself immaculately, complete with bows, perfume and perfectly coiffed hair, and you prefer underwear that's ultra-feminine. You far prefer to follow his lead in bed, because you believe a man should initiate and guide the action. New positions and locales for sex may upset you, because you feel insecure and afraid you might be making a fool of yourself. But you're a big girl now, and are 50% responsible for the state of your relationship. Get out of your doll's house and stop obsessing about tying up strings neatly. Life and love aren't like that ? nor should they be!