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Warren G. Harding
29th U.S. President
Born: November 2, 1865
Scorpio
29th U.S. President
Born: November 2, 1865
Scorpio
I understand what your saying twinks...
I??ll give someone a fair warning let ???em know how it went down and what this person was about, and it??s up to them to take what ever risk they want.
Either it will work out or it wont, but let it not be my place to deprive them from a potential learning experiences.
I??ll give someone a fair warning let ???em know how it went down and what this person was about, and it??s up to them to take what ever risk they want.
Either it will work out or it wont, but let it not be my place to deprive them from a potential learning experiences.
+1 DMV
@I love him and care about him but I'm tired of waiting on him. We've been through a lot and I have taken a lot from him, him cheating on me and lying to me, dropping me for another girl.
When you love him more than you love yourself you are sending a man the wrong message and put yourself in a vulnerable position to be used and taken for granted.
When you take so little from a man and yet still give him more and more you set up a standard that is low and that low standard will be maintained through out the entire duration of the relationship.
Why should change and suddenly stop being a jerk when you've stuck around and stuck it out all the while he's being a jerk and you're still there giving him your all. No incentive to change when he can dole out the cheating and the lying and dropping you for another woman and you'll still be there.
@I love him and care about him but I'm tired of waiting on him. We've been through a lot and I have taken a lot from him, him cheating on me and lying to me, dropping me for another girl.
When you love him more than you love yourself you are sending a man the wrong message and put yourself in a vulnerable position to be used and taken for granted.
When you take so little from a man and yet still give him more and more you set up a standard that is low and that low standard will be maintained through out the entire duration of the relationship.
Why should change and suddenly stop being a jerk when you've stuck around and stuck it out all the while he's being a jerk and you're still there giving him your all. No incentive to change when he can dole out the cheating and the lying and dropping you for another woman and you'll still be there.
Posted by SirHornsPosted by CluelessCancerPosted by MoonArtist
I don't poke or prod, people just open up and spill the goods. ~shrugs~
Another very true statement, people seem to love to tell me everything, wtf, but the one's i do want to share, never share.
I'm gonna say the power of your boobs make them feel safe enough to do that.click to expand
rofl....Maybe. Women do it just as much as men, though, so are they all secretly boob lovers?
I went out to dinner with her and her cancer bf (they have been together for 4 years). They were arguing because she told him that he had enough wine. The entree's hadn't been served yet. He told her that she is always arguing in public, then she says well you never want to eat at these places so you need to watch how much you running up the check. That wasn't the end of it. They argued at the dinner table the entire time. She told him to stop eating all the bread sticks because she wanted to get her money's worth because he sure in hell wasnt going to pay for extra. I told her, the bread sticks are complimentary and limitless. Trying to give her a hint that I am uncomfortable. So the checks come, I paid mine. I am ready to leave, I got my dessert to go. Because I am so embarrassed.
Then, they started arguing over the tip and how much each other should pay. WTH! He paid for the dinner and he asked her to go half on the tip. She (Libra) wants to leave $ 2 for a $ 45.00 dinner. I was like what! So I left the waitress a generous tip on my card ( my dinner was $ 15) and I left.
Thats not the end. I stop by the store to get some ice cream and cash for the paper man tomorrow. Who do I find in the store yelling at her cancer man. Telling everyone that he is a bad lover ("he only last 8 minutes"), he is not a real man, etc etc. I did a u turn and left.
I should have stayed at home and stuff my face with pizza and mozzarella sticks! And watched the damn game.
Then, they started arguing over the tip and how much each other should pay. WTH! He paid for the dinner and he asked her to go half on the tip. She (Libra) wants to leave $ 2 for a $ 45.00 dinner. I was like what! So I left the waitress a generous tip on my card ( my dinner was $ 15) and I left.
Thats not the end. I stop by the store to get some ice cream and cash for the paper man tomorrow. Who do I find in the store yelling at her cancer man. Telling everyone that he is a bad lover ("he only last 8 minutes"), he is not a real man, etc etc. I did a u turn and left.
I should have stayed at home and stuff my face with pizza and mozzarella sticks! And watched the damn game.
Posted by tiki33
Why should change and suddenly stop being a jerk when you've stuck around and stuck it out all the while he's being a jerk and you're still there giving him your all. No incentive to change when he can dole out the cheating and the lying and dropping you for another woman and you'll still be there.
deserved repeating. Get a back bone cancer.
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My friend has always been classy. Not this bitchy tyrant making embarassing public displays like this.
Posted by DMV
Yes, sag men do know what they want. Better than any other sign imo. He has chosen you to play a certain role in his life.
if you dont like the role, kick him to the curb. When your sick and tired lf being sick and tired, youll go find yourself a sweet scorpio.
+1
@OP, what I'm about to tell you to help you heal and grow. It is true. Sag men, more than any other sign, know what we want. The Sag you're involved with, wants his freedom and demonstrates that repeatedly. To come and go as he pleases. It appears he's committed to the other woman, but that's not true. Otherwise, he wouldn't be coming to you. There are plenty of us that want a relationship, others simply want their freedom. The ones who want their freedom, live complicated lives. Constantly struggling with the reality of people who want to keep them and wanting to roam...to live. At the heart of that struggle, is the ultimate decision of loving the world and bring faithful to one. Remember, Jupiter is our ruler, and he is about generosity and expansion.
But, you must accept responsibility for your choice to allow him in your life. Blame, if you want to call it that, lies solely with you as people are who they are. I understand wanting to love in the hope that they will change and see your effort and accept that gift. But you have to be real about and ask the hard question. Why am I loving him. Is it for his sake, or yours? I'm not saying your selfish, I'm saying that ultimately you should love without the expectation of it being returned. A hard concept to grasp and even harder to follow. That implies realism. You have to find someone that reciprocates that love unselfishly. He's not willing to do that and you can waste that strength for a lifetime waiting for him to do it. Find someone who not only knows what they want, but the both of you want the same thing. Its that simple.