What the fuck has happened .....
Posted by scorchedearthPosted by Feistypisces777
@scorchedearth ... I can relate to you. But for different reasons. I just know that one day, I will have to let someone in because I don't want to get to 40 and not have the cookie cutter life I've always dreamed about. I want to settle down one day. I know you would too... When you find that one person they'll have the patience to break down those walls and they won't care if you push away. Because love fights for who they love, even if its against the person you love
i honestly feel like i've gotten my big love for my lifetime. so no one else really seems necessary. i don't want to feel like i could marry someone again. i don't want to love like that again. i don't want to let someone in like that again. my issue is that i let girls with terrible boundaries get me to thinking things might be different. a normal healthy person should want to have nothing to do with me. damaged goods to say the least. i am always upfront about what i have to offer. and all i really want is a friend that i can have feelings for that will never lead to a relationship.
no one should have to fight me the way they'd need to to make things work with me. i am not safe to date. at all. and i am okay with that. i just need to stop associating with troublesome women i could have deep feelings for. fighting in that way isn't love. it's having terrible boundaries. which is something i fall for every time. but that just means we're no good for each other.
i respect that you eventually want to settle down though. if you open yourself up to love you'll find that love eventually. it's just a matter of being patient.click to expand
I doesn't seem to me like your damaged goods. You know who you are, most people don't even know that. With just that alone I think that you could have a very successful relationship.
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Don't give someone all your attention,they arent willing to do the same for you. That's with any person
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Maybe he uses the 12 month guideline.
What the hell is that, Tiz?
You get to know one another for a year so that you can decide if you want to move onto a further commitment. Although obviously if you decide after that period to continue or not, you should clearly communicate that with each other.click to expand
Alright, I heard about the 6 months "trial"
.It depends how often they've seen each other, though.
Well eventually you'll have to initiate cintact if things go further. Just see if his new behavior last for more than a couple of days. If he it does, than he might mean business. You doing good so far ok. Let him know, you are to be valued, loved, & respected
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So the topic today was that con of Virgo men are "stubborn, jealous, like their ego stroked, insecure, possessive, territorial and petty"! Lol any thoughts or opinions?
I've only experienced the petty and stubbornness. Oh and a tad but of territorial,
Add hot & cold behavior and bad communicator to the list.
^ This... so much... Can be the most adorable men ever.. but this is a killer if you are in love with one.... :/
Couldn't agree more...click to expand
*Sigh* when it's true, it's true and it just is.... I'm finding Caps have many of the same qualities without the complex issues.... :/
I didn't mean to give a deadline )': it's just that, if it's not working, I'd like to end it rather than drag it. It hurts even more. I like black and white, not grey things. How about those signs the gave? Am I thinking too much?
I don't understand why it's so hard to make a decision though.. The question was, "do you still want this?" He said he doesn't know. How can you not know after having 1+ months to think? Sighh
I don't understand why it's so hard to make a decision though.. The question was, "do you still want this?" He said he doesn't know. How can you not know after having 1+ months to think? Sighh
Happy Birthday CC. My grandmother's birthday was today. Now that I think about it, you act very much like her.
She would say whatever she wanted to whomever she wanted whenever she wanted.
Enjoy your day Babygirl. Have fun at the concert.
She would say whatever she wanted to whomever she wanted whenever she wanted.
Enjoy your day Babygirl. Have fun at the concert.
Thank you so much for all your feedback...will keep this post updated
~ follow your heart but take your brain with you ~
Dear pisces,
I am back again to share, confirm and perhaps receive any valuable input.
I have posted 3 weeks ago story about pisces guy that I met and felt amazing connection etc and even the drama he created with me going on holiday.
Anyhow 3 weeks holiday passed and we kept in regular contact, he kept telling me how much he misses me and to hurry back, to which I always replied equally and with affection. Upon my return we spent amazing evening/night together (or so I thought). I felt re-connected and happy that we managed to preserve the feelings between us.
However he has not contacted me since that night, I sent 2 shorts sweet sms in next few days to which he always replied immediately but few words only. No response from last night, which is first time ever. I am aware that you guys sometimes need your time alone which I am fine with even it is little surprising after the intensity while apart.
Main questions is though and what made me nervous is that he is still very active on web where we met and he chats to other girls. I do not want to make mistake by reading too much into it but in the same time I dont want to be fool who blindly trust man's word about wanting to be bf/gf while he might be a player.
I was thinking when he will contact me and ask to meet that I will ask him what is he looking for (relationship, exclusivity). From his reply I should see if we are on same page and can go forward.
Feel free to give me your pisces opinion.
Thank you
I am back again to share, confirm and perhaps receive any valuable input.
I have posted 3 weeks ago story about pisces guy that I met and felt amazing connection etc and even the drama he created with me going on holiday.
Anyhow 3 weeks holiday passed and we kept in regular contact, he kept telling me how much he misses me and to hurry back, to which I always replied equally and with affection. Upon my return we spent amazing evening/night together (or so I thought). I felt re-connected and happy that we managed to preserve the feelings between us.
However he has not contacted me since that night, I sent 2 shorts sweet sms in next few days to which he always replied immediately but few words only. No response from last night, which is first time ever. I am aware that you guys sometimes need your time alone which I am fine with even it is little surprising after the intensity while apart.
Main questions is though and what made me nervous is that he is still very active on web where we met and he chats to other girls. I do not want to make mistake by reading too much into it but in the same time I dont want to be fool who blindly trust man's word about wanting to be bf/gf while he might be a player.
I was thinking when he will contact me and ask to meet that I will ask him what is he looking for (relationship, exclusivity). From his reply I should see if we are on same page and can go forward.
Feel free to give me your pisces opinion.
Thank you
Happy Birthday CC! I hope it's been great so far!