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Thats exactly it Denver! its not coming from that place of intent to cause me any harm its his way. now if this was paired with other abusive type behavior or signs then that would be different i would be concerned however it is not. and its very few and far between i mean its been ages since this type of thing has happened and even then was only a couple times its not a natural behavior to handle our disputes its just sometimes i think when he is very hurt or overwhelmed with thought.
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Yeah, kinda like a Pisces Moon just little more logical.
Wow....
Come on... We are way more out of the box thinkers then Gem moons...
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@Perspicacity- no... I've never had any of those issues in my life... I get what you're saying but I've never been through any psychological, mental or attachment issues whatsoever... I started having this dream when I was about twelve and it has continued ever since! It's really a problem and I actually have tried hypnosis to get this dream to stop.... But it just doesn't! Is it possible that it maybe a representation of any future events??
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You're only going away for five weeks. That's not long at all. You say it as if it's forever. Use that time to focus on what you're going away to do (work?) and then come back refreshed and try talking to each other like adults.
All the posts here have offered you excellent feedback. In my opinion, you think you're handling this ok and doing things like an adult but you say the words but your actions do not match and from what I've read here the 'unevolved' Scorpio is an easy label but I think it's age, you're 24.
As a Scorpio you're highly emotional and as I think back ten years to when I was 24 I was probably similar to you. I did things to provoke a reaction from my then boyfriend (a sweet Pisces) so I would feel more secure but it didn't really work. In hindsight, it just annoyed him and I was a pain in the a*se!
It sounds like this 21 year old Taurean has a better grasp on this situation probably because he's not an emotional mess like you. Although the mind games from both of you are getting in the way.
Well done for sending that text to him to let him know you were taking time out and not ignoring him. That shows promise for you. I know that would have been very hard to do as ignoring is so tempting for two reasons, it gives you space but it continues the drama.
The other post is correct in saying you need to grow up or at least take a deep breath, take time to think about what you want to say, write it down so it's clearer, take the next few weeks to relax, if he likes you he isn't going anywhere, then meet up when you're back and you will be in a better position to try and gain the outcome you both want.
All the posts here have offered you excellent feedback. In my opinion, you think you're handling this ok and doing things like an adult but you say the words but your actions do not match and from what I've read here the 'unevolved' Scorpio is an easy label but I think it's age, you're 24.
As a Scorpio you're highly emotional and as I think back ten years to when I was 24 I was probably similar to you. I did things to provoke a reaction from my then boyfriend (a sweet Pisces) so I would feel more secure but it didn't really work. In hindsight, it just annoyed him and I was a pain in the a*se!
It sounds like this 21 year old Taurean has a better grasp on this situation probably because he's not an emotional mess like you. Although the mind games from both of you are getting in the way.
Well done for sending that text to him to let him know you were taking time out and not ignoring him. That shows promise for you. I know that would have been very hard to do as ignoring is so tempting for two reasons, it gives you space but it continues the drama.
The other post is correct in saying you need to grow up or at least take a deep breath, take time to think about what you want to say, write it down so it's clearer, take the next few weeks to relax, if he likes you he isn't going anywhere, then meet up when you're back and you will be in a better position to try and gain the outcome you both want.
Finding the Karmic Story
Any novel worth reading is full of made-up facts that come together to tell us some great truth. Our aim in prising the karmic story out of the nodal structure is very similar. We're not really expecting to unearth specific, verifiable past-life facts: for that, go to a good psychic or experience a hypnotic regression. What surfaces through nodal analysis is a parable that parallels the actual past-life realities. The core point is simply this: the story doesn't have to be ???factual?? for it to be ???true.?? Even without any particular intuition, the technical procedures we explore here can produce powerful, evocative, and psychologically-relevant results.
Maybe a person was actually a pioneer in the American west in a prior lifetime and was killed by beleaguered, desperate Navajo warriors. Maybe in our analysis of the south node, we come up with story describing her as an immigrant crossing the Atlantic on a ship taken by hungry pirates. Our facts are completely incorrect???but the story is still ???true?? psychologically. Emotionally, it boils down to the same dynamics.
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Linking the south node's sign and house, as we just saw, begins to narrow the field in which the karmic story will unfold, but it is still unsatisfyingly vague. There are 144 possible combinations of sign and house, but there are a lot more than 144 possible human stories.
Link: http://www.ncgr-turkey.com/astrology_and_reincarnation.htm
What sign and house is your south node in? Any aspects to it?
Any novel worth reading is full of made-up facts that come together to tell us some great truth. Our aim in prising the karmic story out of the nodal structure is very similar. We're not really expecting to unearth specific, verifiable past-life facts: for that, go to a good psychic or experience a hypnotic regression. What surfaces through nodal analysis is a parable that parallels the actual past-life realities. The core point is simply this: the story doesn't have to be ???factual?? for it to be ???true.?? Even without any particular intuition, the technical procedures we explore here can produce powerful, evocative, and psychologically-relevant results.
Maybe a person was actually a pioneer in the American west in a prior lifetime and was killed by beleaguered, desperate Navajo warriors. Maybe in our analysis of the south node, we come up with story describing her as an immigrant crossing the Atlantic on a ship taken by hungry pirates. Our facts are completely incorrect???but the story is still ???true?? psychologically. Emotionally, it boils down to the same dynamics.
...
Linking the south node's sign and house, as we just saw, begins to narrow the field in which the karmic story will unfold, but it is still unsatisfyingly vague. There are 144 possible combinations of sign and house, but there are a lot more than 144 possible human stories.
Link: http://www.ncgr-turkey.com/astrology_and_reincarnation.htm
What sign and house is your south node in? Any aspects to it?
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Aquarius man broke up with me because I had an insane jealous attack. Instead of calmly telling him I did not like what I saw I said something ridiculous. I told him he wanted to jump down this girls pants. He looked very excited to be talking to her. I was angry and did not expect him to cut me off suddenly. He gave me a chance to stop attacking him but I pushed a little too much. His exact words were he had no interest being with someone who acts like me. He ended the text by saying I wish you the best and hope you find the relationship your looking for. It was very abrupt. I don??t think he was expecting to do it himself and I felt like he did it more because he was insulted about how I felt about him and not because he wanted to. Lets say there is a good possibility i was right because of intuition.
This is the first time in almost two years of knowing him I lashed out like that. It was pent up frustration from not being able to open myself up with him for various reasons. My head is to fogged up to think straight.
Its been almost two months and I haven??t tried to contact him because im trying to calm down emotionally. I know anything that comes out of this state will permanently destroy anything thats left. But I wonder if there is anything I can say to him to explain to him that it was a mistake. That whatever the case is i really did not mean what i said and should have explained to him calmly that it looked like he is getting emotionally attached to someone he is around at least once a week.
When he sees me out he hides or runs off now. He seems very distraught and agitated. But I have not seen him in three weeks so he may not be distraught anymore. If I said something out of logic would he be at least willing to talk to me or has he made up his mind for good?
I am definitely a passionate and emotional person but never controlling and just need a little reassurance.
This is the first time in almost two years of knowing him I lashed out like that. It was pent up frustration from not being able to open myself up with him for various reasons. My head is to fogged up to think straight.
Its been almost two months and I haven??t tried to contact him because im trying to calm down emotionally. I know anything that comes out of this state will permanently destroy anything thats left. But I wonder if there is anything I can say to him to explain to him that it was a mistake. That whatever the case is i really did not mean what i said and should have explained to him calmly that it looked like he is getting emotionally attached to someone he is around at least once a week.
When he sees me out he hides or runs off now. He seems very distraught and agitated. But I have not seen him in three weeks so he may not be distraught anymore. If I said something out of logic would he be at least willing to talk to me or has he made up his mind for good?
I am definitely a passionate and emotional person but never controlling and just need a little reassurance.
"And I'm not raging,"
Yeah, ok... lol. And goodbye once again.
Yeah, ok... lol. And goodbye once again.