Posted by jeannegrey
its OK!!!! to have emotionsaquarius09 LOL. u silly ....
LOL! That's exactly how an Aquarius feels when they feel emotions. We feel like we have a fever and we wonder when we're gonna get better. Lol
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Posted by PhoenixRising
I'm not sure what power has to do with any of the stuff you mentioned.
I also don't know if power is constant or defined by self, especially if we use your equation:
"Power = Money, Happiness, Loyalty and Respect"
Loyalty and respect are very much determined by others. Someone else chooses to be committed and loyal to you. As well, you may do things you find respectable, but ultimately respect is given by the onlookers watching your actions. They choose to show respect, or not. Sure one can have respect for self, but I don't think that is what you mean.
#ImOverthinkingThingsAgainCarryOn
In the sense of constant, as in not fluctuating in value (I should of been more clear my fault)
I say power is defined by self of in the way that you obtain it, for instance power isn't created through petty dealings of someone weaker than you.
You can have the power to gain loyalty form others as in how you can portray your power to assist, relate and help others - or to appeal in an Notorious way. Respect, gaining and losing, is in the way you handle your self humbly or crude from an obtained power.
Sorry, was this more helpful?
I smell a drama queen....
Ahhhh Ok I read up to page 3 and Mystical as a fellow Scorp that in a different place dealt with the same things you do, I am telling you that if you want to be in that position...... you're probably going to have to go somewhere else. Anywhere else. It can most definitely be a better place than where you're at now.
You have showed yourself that you can become really good at a job if given the time and the opportunity. You have dedication and you have will. It doesn't matter that the others might take 2 hour breaks, or not be as efficient as you. There is a possibility that they are keeping you where you're at for personal reasons and its ugly, I know, but unless you can take a very aggressive stance and name reasons why they will not be alright without you taking the position you want, then they aren't going to pay you much more mind than they already are.
I left the place that wasn't appreciating me for my skill set because it became OBVIOUS that they did not want me taking a leadership position. I am much younger than most managers and to have people referring to me as the manager, bothered the managers in position simply because they enjoyed slacking a little and I do not. The easy going people and the people will egotistical issues that are trying to keep you where you're at without giving your potential a chance are the ones that are worried that you will do better than them. As a Scorpio, do this for yourself: Don't block the power that you have. Your choices are to either appreciate the boring job that you've become exceptionally good at, to make moving a challenge and get your asss up there, or to leave and start your own thing up doing something that is.... less corrupt than politics.
Tell me you have some other interests where you can put your great, reliable, and savvy skill set. Look at it in the big picture because this might be the best option for you. Working under a management that stifles you is not a fun feeling. It is a sign that you are better than what you're working for.
You have showed yourself that you can become really good at a job if given the time and the opportunity. You have dedication and you have will. It doesn't matter that the others might take 2 hour breaks, or not be as efficient as you. There is a possibility that they are keeping you where you're at for personal reasons and its ugly, I know, but unless you can take a very aggressive stance and name reasons why they will not be alright without you taking the position you want, then they aren't going to pay you much more mind than they already are.
I left the place that wasn't appreciating me for my skill set because it became OBVIOUS that they did not want me taking a leadership position. I am much younger than most managers and to have people referring to me as the manager, bothered the managers in position simply because they enjoyed slacking a little and I do not. The easy going people and the people will egotistical issues that are trying to keep you where you're at without giving your potential a chance are the ones that are worried that you will do better than them. As a Scorpio, do this for yourself: Don't block the power that you have. Your choices are to either appreciate the boring job that you've become exceptionally good at, to make moving a challenge and get your asss up there, or to leave and start your own thing up doing something that is.... less corrupt than politics.
Tell me you have some other interests where you can put your great, reliable, and savvy skill set. Look at it in the big picture because this might be the best option for you. Working under a management that stifles you is not a fun feeling. It is a sign that you are better than what you're working for.
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Posted by Scorpio1288Posted by PhoenixRising
I'm not sure what power has to do with any of the stuff you mentioned.
I also don't know if power is constant or defined by self, especially if we use your equation:
"Power = Money, Happiness, Loyalty and Respect"
Loyalty and respect are very much determined by others. Someone else chooses to be committed and loyal to you. As well, you may do things you find respectable, but ultimately respect is given by the onlookers watching your actions. They choose to show respect, or not. Sure one can have respect for self, but I don't think that is what you mean.
#ImOverthinkingThingsAgainCarryOn
In the sense of constant, as in not fluctuating in value (I should of been more clear my fault)
I say power is defined by self of in the way that you obtain it, for instance power isn't created through petty dealings of someone weaker than you.
You can have the power to gain loyalty form others as in how you can portray your power to assist, relate and help others - or to appeal in an Notorious way. Respect, gaining and losing, is in the way you handle your self humbly or crude from an obtained power.
Sorry, was this more helpful?click to expand
Understood.
#ImStillOverthinkingThingsThough
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Posted by MissLouiseMPosted by aquarius09
I see you're new on here. Welcome to dxp. You won't have people reading something that longgggg on here.
I read up until the part where he called you after the gig was done and over with leading to the hiking plan.
The problem is of communication it seems. You aren't telling him things that are happening in your life. You are doing things like not going to the gig right after being miffed about where his is bro is staying situation. I'm not saying you're wrong about being pissed off there, but this guy doesn't know what's happening in your world like your dad's surgery. I would think you're being petty as well if all I know is that you're pissed off about my bro coming to stay with us in our room and suddenly you're saying "you're not going". It sounds like you're not going all because of bro situation. You need to articulate yourself before you do things. You can't expect a guy to know what's goin on in your head or world.
He wouldn't jump to conclusions if you tell him te reasons behind your action.
No If i had not given my ticket his brother would not have been able to go. He had no ticket for the gig nor any ticket for the train. I gave him mine because I thought they would enjoy it more. I would have put up with the brother in the room. But I was paying for all of this the room the tickets etc. O I thought it was a bit off for him to ask his bro to stay in the room. But I would have done it.
I had told him about my Dad's surgery before the weekend that it was going on (this was a totally separate weekend from the gig. He knew. I had told him that week.click to expand
Pardon me for misunderstanding the post. Ok so now that you've clarified, I still have to wonder why you're being self-sacrificial in this relationship and even if you were, you should explicitly say things so people know what's happening in your head. When you gave the tickets to his bro, you should've said to him "well I'm not going because .... But giving the ticket to your bro just so you can have an amazing time".
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