Controlling Cap!
We've only got a week more together, then he goes off. The only time we'll really have is this weekend. I was thinking of planning a hiking day trip. Then it'll be a good month before we see each other again and go on holiday (one week) together. We plan to sleep, have lots of sex, read a couple of books, and eat good food!
The problem is we're both so busy. And there's also the whole 'commitment' thing... I guess he is a bit concerned about that.
Unfortunately it's also going to turn long distance soon due to my professional commitments. I'm definitely going to be away for at least 4-5 months. We should manage to work out weekend flights though and after that I hope to come back for a month or so before I have to go away again.
The problem is we're both so busy. And there's also the whole 'commitment' thing... I guess he is a bit concerned about that.
Unfortunately it's also going to turn long distance soon due to my professional commitments. I'm definitely going to be away for at least 4-5 months. We should manage to work out weekend flights though and after that I hope to come back for a month or so before I have to go away again.
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Posted by miamivirgo
Not to throw cold water on this but why are you posting this in the Virgo Forum?
Wouldn't there be a better suited forum out there for this discussion?
You are kind of limiting the input you could receive in the Virgo forum only.
Because if you clearly read the title "What I've Learned-LIMM"
This thread needs pictures.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Yep me too, my leo placements make me too lazy, but then my LEO coworker across the building is such a hard worker, maybe she got some other placements.
Probably because the co worker is a Leo sun? and were moons? Idk...I'm probably reaching a little LOL.
Posted by jeannegreyPosted by WaterCupPosted by jeannegreyPosted by WaterCupPosted by jeannegreyPosted by WaterCup
Oh & I think I'm the "runner" in our situation, but I'm not running because I want to...
I am also the runner... WCBut its cause I can't deal. He never leaves me. He's like a rock. LOL. But he also has no sense of discomfort or urgency in the situation--although I have noticed this past year he deeply fears my disappearing acts. They hit him hard I realized recently.
He's married? damn, girl. I am sorry--if mine even got married I would disappear for good. That's rough.
If you don't mind me asking, why cant you two be together in a "normal" relationship if you're both "free"? Stupid question I know since these things seem to have a life of their own, dragging everyone involved along in the process. Ugh.
WC.... because I live in another country---my job keeps me far away, and also I want kids and he doesn't.
Oh ok. Complicated.
But not unresolvable... IDK, the distance I have no issue with---but I also am not going to move across the world to where he is if we have fundamentally different views on having kids. SO? I have to find someone who does want them---but the agony in my heart of having them by someone else...click to expand
I feel for you. Why do these things have to have obstacles? I swear sometimes I think it's the work of the devil lol. It's so damn frustrating.
With my guy we were pregnant once but I lost it. I now have 1 kid by my ex husband but I dont think I'll ever have another baby again. Strange thing though is that while I was with my supposed twin flame, I felt like I wanted to have many kids. He said he wanted 10 like his grandfather but we settled on 4 lol. He still wants to get me pregnant. Cant cum until I say "let's make a baby". Weird.
Our situations are similar yet reversed. Even down to the duration of the "relationship". Interesting.
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Lol! These are awesome!
Posted by jeannegreyPosted by WaterCupPosted by IAmMystified
@water and @jeannegrey
You guys are going through what I feel. I am the "runner" in this case. I am failing at it though. Trying to seperate myself and trying to distance myself becuase my emotions can't take it anymore. I'm not sleeping well, he's in my thoughts half the time and I have no real desire to date anyone though I should, I have to move on with myself. I can date but it wouldn't be fair to the "new guy" it wouldn't authentic and true.
I wish he would just tell me to fuck off or something but that would require me telling him my thoughts.
UGH.
You dont have to date anyone else if you feel like you'd be lying to yourself & the other person. Besides, there's more to life than having a man. Love him from afar if you feel like that's the best way to handle things. It works for me. If it was meant to be then it will be, so there's no need to stick around with the stress if what you have may or may not be. Time will tell.
WC that's all well and good but why should I "love him from afar?" alone and sad---childless and career obsessed?
Also ---time will tell? Its been forever and a day and I'm not getting any younger. I mean, you have a child (right?) I don't... I want that--I don't think I should have to give that up. Not for him not for ANYTHING.click to expand
No, that wasnt for you, hon, I was talking to misty. Besides, it was just a suggestion. I cant possibly tell anyone what to do, I can only suggest. Life is difficult on itself as it is.
Posted by Impulsv
http://sasstrology.com/2010/05/your-ultimate-other-romance-and-the-twelfth-house.html
Makes perfect sense when Taurus 12 house is in sag n gf has 5 sag planets. No wonder he dropped all his criteria.
I only had 2 planet. She's the ultimate mate to touch the real him.
Well since my 12 house is in Sag as well I'm looking for anyone with five planets in sag lol. That must be mind blowing.
I have 5 planets in saggie
Moon, Venus, Mars, Neptune an Jupiter Fun times!!
Posted by starloverPosted by AVGPosted by starlover
I knocked all my addictions on the head that were harmful to me.....booze, nicotine, weed, sex, coffee etc and started over again
my interests now are family, music, dancing, meditation, laughing and living a healthier life. i found once i gave up the sex addiction thing, all else followed...i didn't realize how dependent i was upon a lover, until i decided to break the *habit*
. Sex addiction? Really!!
Hahaa,,,,not as in sleeping around AVG, that was never my style ...just whoever i was with in a relationship, it became toooo much of a big deal for me
Insatiable appetite ~ most men's dream, then ultimatley a nightmare
lolclick to expand
I wasn't saying that you slept around,but that I don't think it's a such thing as sex addiction..some of us just love it more then others! But addiction...nahhh..
Posted by starlover
..i have healed it now though!!! feels so much healthier!
You haven't healed loving sex...you're just not having it you said...haha..
