Guess her Rising Sign

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by rockyroadicecream
These guys tend to jump in fast, and move on as equally as fast.
When someone is in love with the idea of love, they get a little too excited when someone new comes along, get all gung ho about it, and then after they have you, they start to question whether you truly are the one. Then they distance themselves, reconsidering everything. It's why they "suddenly" take off and friend zone you when they decide that you aren't the one.
It sucks because the other person's feelings are never considered in the matter. You're suffering from the actions of an inherently self centered, immature individual.
Consider them as someone who constantly suffers "buyers remorse" when dating.
The really immature ones are notorious for this behavior.
Good luck with talking to him. He gets a gold star if he's actually honest with you and gives you the real reasons as to why he's backing out. They tend to sugar coat to the point of a thick glaze when it comes to this type of stuff.
Btw, when a guy uses that "scared" bullshit line as an excuse not to get close, they're full of shit. If a guy truly is into you, "scared" isn't going to keep him away from you. And if they really are supposedly "scared" they shouldn't be dating and should be focusing on solving their issues before they date.

True story! That's how immature Libras usually function. You really need to find that one in a million mature libra man who wouldn't do things like that.
I also totally agree with Rocky on the scared part, but that applies to everyone, especially air signs. We feel scared and take flight when we aren't into someone.
He didn't just stop having feelings for you. There's two things that either happened:
1) you did something really bad or you both have been fighting for a while (this sounds like a pure one sided story); or
2) he found someone else who he considers better than you. The emergence of this new person has provided him with a source of comparison. Hence, second guessing or change of mind.

3)Or he just realized this isn't what he wanted and has decided to re-prioritize her/the situation. It happens, especially when people

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Posted by slonce5
We just talked on the phone. He said that he is confused and flaky. I did nothing wrong. He enjoyed spending time with me and he would love to stay friends. He feels bad that he put me through it.

Posted by jeannegrey
Finish that sentence for me
You are at the airport (or in a train, boat, bus or automobile...)
Money is no object-----Nor is time.
Where would you go? How would you get there... For how long would you stay, what would you do when you got there
...and WHY?

Posted by TMV
Do you think there are any aspects that make a person more predisposed to violent behavior? Or synastry aspects that could lead to two people clashing hard enough to become violent?

Posted by Fenyx215

Posted by aquarius09
a) they cry and whine you (the innocent bystander) to death about whatever or whoever hurt them;
b) they immerse themselves into really reckless/life threatening behavior like doing drugs, car racing/ careless driving, pointless/empty sex just to feel loved or fill a void left by their ex and or attempt suicide;
c) silent calls to the person who is responsible for their heartbreak; or if they aren't silent on the phone, then they're begging the person to take them back;
d) they start buying the person who hurt them things to emotionally manipulate them

In the past, I've isolated myself, but I'm acting out more so like the one bolded. Especially, this year.
I know I have a psycho stalker side in me, too. So, I need to keep my emotions in check. Otherwise, I'll be a totally different person than who I even thought I was.

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