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Aug 01, 2013Comments: 212 · Posts: 1202 · Topics: 67
Well Thank You SCORPS!
So here is an update!
This lovely boss of mine came in last Thursday (when we were suippose to discuss further)
And said absolutely nothing to me about Mondays discussion.
In fact, we laughed talked, and I was on a roll with getting everything I needed from her. She was punctual with the work I requested for the VP. She was extreamely friendly!!
Friday came and she was JUST as friendly. STILL no discussion about the probation talk. The way the company works is, I actually have to sign papers to confirm these proceedings.
SO Friday after a 2 hour meeting, she comes in and says" HEY SO WHAT ARE WE HAVING FOR LUNCH IM STARVING"
She talks about her son...blah blah. Monday morning now, she has a 7:45 am conference call. 7:30am I sent her a screen shot of it just as a reminder, later that day she says that was great (she forgot) and thank you very much for that...
Im worried because this is soo bizarre!
Change of heart?
Did someone tell her she was too harsh?
Impulsive moment?
I am trying very hard...can she see this?
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Aug 01, 2013Comments: 212 · Posts: 1202 · Topics: 67
My closest friend is a CAP and her Ex is a Virgo. They are both 29 and have known eachother since high school and dated that long up until 3 years ago. This was my friends 1st. But this Virgo man, just doesnt seem to understand what he wants. On a daily basis they text eachother and sees one another here and there. But when confronted with what is this will it go further Virgo said no.
Now this year, going on 4 years of NOT being together...He got upset with how she was dancing at a party and told her to never speak to him again. 2 months later he returns as if nothing happened, requesting to see her, and leave the past in the past. They are soo made for eachother, but something is preventing the both of their stubborn asses to take the leap....
Virgo men are in a league of their own, they are still also hard to read as well...
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Dec 07, 2011Comments: 33 · Posts: 13769 · Topics: 154
He sounds selfish. Wants you both.
It's not his choice though, it's yours.
Do you want to be treated this way?
Walk.
OK, here's a quick story, if that's what you want. He pursued me, I fell for him fast and immediate, he took off. Nothing happened to end it, he just wanted to be alone again. Idk. I gave it everything.
Hey, thanks for the input...
I don't know her charts or mine ... :p
When we first met (last year), we were both dating... Me with my now ex-GF... She with her now ex-BF...
She started acting differently earlier this year (when were still committed to other people; that's why I never flirted back)...
Her full-on interest started showing around April, after she told me that she was thinking about leaving her BF??_
My GF broke up with me late-May...
I think she ended her relationship wit her BF (at least I started noticing that her ring was missing) around mid-June, when everything was normal... This is when I came over to her parent's house with some gifts. Again, while I was over there she was very talkative, wanted to be left alone with me and would start random topics to make me stay. Talked about the future. She started showing off her hand to me, as in wanting me to notice that her ring was missing. I tried to come very close to her, but she told me to back off and giggled. When I was leaving, I kissed her forehead and she giggled again.
We were never in a relationship... we became very close friends, but never got romantically involved, because we were committed to other people??_ Again, I would rather kill myself than betray my partner??_
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Jan 22, 2014Comments: 75 · Posts: 5976 · Topics: 662
Comes down to these factors:
- wants & needs being met.
- gains & losses acquired due to the relationship
- Things that provide a bond and stability for it to endure hardship.
Know all of these and you can tell when it won't work a mile away.