Am I an idiot?
ok he'll call - "how you doing"
"good - how r things on ur end" ME - then i'll asked bout his day or whats new but now that i think bout it - i think it's usually him askin questions - like what i did that day or where i am and what am i doing at that moment- like he's checkng up on me
"good - how r things on ur end" ME - then i'll asked bout his day or whats new but now that i think bout it - i think it's usually him askin questions - like what i did that day or where i am and what am i doing at that moment- like he's checkng up on me
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Whether he is tall, dark, and handsome or short, blond, and chubby, a Scorpio man is idealistic, passionate, and loyal. He will mesmerise you with his candid, purposeful stare and capture your heart with his magnetic charm. He may be as cuddly as Sinbad, or as sexy as Leonardo DiCaprio; wear a white collar, a blue collar, or no collar at all; but here is the man who is impossible to resist. Think you've hit the jackpot? Think again, sweetheart.
Loving a male Scorpion is like falling for King Kong. Oh, he's sexy and, underneath that aloof exterior, surprisingly sensitive. Of course, that titbit of knowledge may not help when you are handed divorce papers because you said his best friend was a low-life slob. Other guys might sit down to discuss their feelings. Mr Intense will sit down and rip yours to shreds.
He is selfish. Never mind that you are married to him or in a serious relationship. The Scorpion's idea of commitment is showing up for dinner most of the time. His emotion switch is set at sub-zero, and he won't hesitate to be unfaithful until he's dead. However, contrary to popular belief, he is not sex-crazed. That trait belongs to cousin Aries. Scorpio is terrified of deep emotional dependence on just one person, so, in his usual ass-backward way, he screws around precisely to avoid intimacy.
A male Scorpion has two reasons for living. The first is power. The second is control. He would control fate if he could - and some try. He will usually be a good provider because his desire for power and control drives him to become successful in his chosen profession. But money is rarely his primary motivation. Financial gain is only a by-product of becoming Mr Big. His moods change faster than a Pisces flipping the remote, and he will test your love by demanding the devotion of a religious fanatic at a revival meeting. He's so jealous, possessive, and sarcastic that you will be tempted to poison his oatmeal. There's no handling a Scorpion. You either put up with him or run like hell.
Deliberately awaken this man's green-eyed monster, and you better have a shovel handy. You are going to need it to either defend yourself or dig your own grave. Remember this before you are foolish enough to plunge into an affair, or worse, a legally-binding relationship.
The worst thing you can do to a Scorpio man is to not react to his emotional intimidation tactics. If he demands to be alone, applaud. Curb his sarcasm with a yawn. If he says he wants an op
Loving a male Scorpion is like falling for King Kong. Oh, he's sexy and, underneath that aloof exterior, surprisingly sensitive. Of course, that titbit of knowledge may not help when you are handed divorce papers because you said his best friend was a low-life slob. Other guys might sit down to discuss their feelings. Mr Intense will sit down and rip yours to shreds.
He is selfish. Never mind that you are married to him or in a serious relationship. The Scorpion's idea of commitment is showing up for dinner most of the time. His emotion switch is set at sub-zero, and he won't hesitate to be unfaithful until he's dead. However, contrary to popular belief, he is not sex-crazed. That trait belongs to cousin Aries. Scorpio is terrified of deep emotional dependence on just one person, so, in his usual ass-backward way, he screws around precisely to avoid intimacy.
A male Scorpion has two reasons for living. The first is power. The second is control. He would control fate if he could - and some try. He will usually be a good provider because his desire for power and control drives him to become successful in his chosen profession. But money is rarely his primary motivation. Financial gain is only a by-product of becoming Mr Big. His moods change faster than a Pisces flipping the remote, and he will test your love by demanding the devotion of a religious fanatic at a revival meeting. He's so jealous, possessive, and sarcastic that you will be tempted to poison his oatmeal. There's no handling a Scorpion. You either put up with him or run like hell.
Deliberately awaken this man's green-eyed monster, and you better have a shovel handy. You are going to need it to either defend yourself or dig your own grave. Remember this before you are foolish enough to plunge into an affair, or worse, a legally-binding relationship.
The worst thing you can do to a Scorpio man is to not react to his emotional intimidation tactics. If he demands to be alone, applaud. Curb his sarcasm with a yawn. If he says he wants an op
If he demands to be alone, applaud. Curb his sarcasm with a yawn. If he says he wants an open marriage, tell him you thought you already had one. When he announces he's going out without you, tell him to have a good time, then smile as if you know something he doesn't. He'll pretend to leave, park around the block, and sneak back to lurk in the bushes, convinced that you are cheating on him. He's as obtuse as Taurus when he thinks he's right and will stand in a rainstorm all night, muttering to himself, while you are cosy by the fireplace.
He communicates by threat. The foremost one is that he's leaving you. He also lies. The only thing harder to rid yourself of than a Scorpio man is a Cancer woman. A male Scorpion frequently looks like he just ate a cactus. That's because he spends half his life getting even for some real, or imagined, slight and the other half causing all his own troubles.
Yours will be so secretive that he would rather have his fingernails pulled out than tell you what he had for lunch. He's morbidly afraid that if he dares to share any serious facts, or fears, you may get the upper hand. That's why he's so good at small talk. He can blather for hours about every piece of minutiae in the world, but ask him a direct question, and he will clam up and rush outside to mow the lawn.
Your home will be either near water or hidden in a cul-de-sac behind a tall fence. He would live in a place that's accessible only by helicopter, except that it would screw up his Thursday-night dates with the cocktail waitress at the local bar. If you do catch him between the wrong pair of sheets, he will put on such a display of grovelling, whining, and begging, that you might think he has suffered a breakdown. Don't be fooled. He thrives on intensity and is as much masochist as manipulator. He will do anything it takes at that moment to gain your forgiveness, except change. Scorpio is fixed water. He exists in a bottomless well of churning emotional excess and is so embroiled in trying to figure out his own emotions that he will never understand yours. Being sucked into the vortex of his charm is akin to getting lost in the Bermuda Triangle. You may or may not survive the trip.
He communicates by threat. The foremost one is that he's leaving you. He also lies. The only thing harder to rid yourself of than a Scorpio man is a Cancer woman. A male Scorpion frequently looks like he just ate a cactus. That's because he spends half his life getting even for some real, or imagined, slight and the other half causing all his own troubles.
Yours will be so secretive that he would rather have his fingernails pulled out than tell you what he had for lunch. He's morbidly afraid that if he dares to share any serious facts, or fears, you may get the upper hand. That's why he's so good at small talk. He can blather for hours about every piece of minutiae in the world, but ask him a direct question, and he will clam up and rush outside to mow the lawn.
Your home will be either near water or hidden in a cul-de-sac behind a tall fence. He would live in a place that's accessible only by helicopter, except that it would screw up his Thursday-night dates with the cocktail waitress at the local bar. If you do catch him between the wrong pair of sheets, he will put on such a display of grovelling, whining, and begging, that you might think he has suffered a breakdown. Don't be fooled. He thrives on intensity and is as much masochist as manipulator. He will do anything it takes at that moment to gain your forgiveness, except change. Scorpio is fixed water. He exists in a bottomless well of churning emotional excess and is so embroiled in trying to figure out his own emotions that he will never understand yours. Being sucked into the vortex of his charm is akin to getting lost in the Bermuda Triangle. You may or may not survive the trip.
Is this your own experience?!! I have honestly never tried to tie him down..that sort of crap doesnt interest me, he's his own man after all. I just hate people being inconsiderate, its so selfish and immature. He'll be sorry when he realises he misses me!!
You can't see what discipline is because behind your false sense of "right is might" you don't know how to watch someone control their unruly child. You thought this Virgo FRENEMY was somehow not worthy like you o-the-great-flake so you considered it abuse. Want me to prove it? 1. You didn't report this, did you flake? 2. You KNOW it was discipline, don't you flake? 3. Righteousness is a virtue. I know what discipline is and what abuse is....you obviously don't. And if you did, you were too much of a coward to step up.
-All the reasons why: Virgos are losers...I am not talking about discipline, I'm talking about psychological abuse for the THIRD time. I am the parent whose house all the kids hang out at so I'm straight as far as childrearing goes. My kids are gifts from God and I feel so blessed that God allowed me to be the vessel that borne them. I respect them as people, period and I watch my mouth when I speak to them. I think that's the least ALL parents can do. Its only cowardice that makes people do things to kids that they wouldn't dare try to do to adults (like beat them) so sit down and shut up.
Second: I'm so not a snitch. I don't believe in the child protective system and I would not have them taken out of their home, put in foster care so they could end up on Ritalin, molested and being passed from house to house. Kids who go into foster care have horrible rates of success in life and I don't consider it helping to do that to a child. If anything I would and often do, invite the kid to spend a week or two with me to give their parents time to cool off and let them have some peace for a minute while I talk to people in their family.
Third: The Virgo frenemy was the topic of conversation this weekend because she advised one of our friends to break up with her husband and then tried to set him up using a girl the Virgo works with as a decoy. He didn't fall for it, our Aquarius friend told him what's up and the husband has banned this b-word from coming anywhere around them!!! I love it. My favorite part was he was so mad, he was calling all her friends (us) b-words and h-words and saying he doesn't want us calling or coming over but I talked to him. he realized that I'm supercool, I never encourage a gilr to leave her man and I'm not a b-word, a c-word, an h-word or anything else and he gave me a big hug and listened to my advice. Its too bad that I can't see her face when the Aquarius tells her what he said and that he's not mad at ME!
-All the reasons why: Virgos are losers...I am not talking about discipline, I'm talking about psychological abuse for the THIRD time. I am the parent whose house all the kids hang out at so I'm straight as far as childrearing goes. My kids are gifts from God and I feel so blessed that God allowed me to be the vessel that borne them. I respect them as people, period and I watch my mouth when I speak to them. I think that's the least ALL parents can do. Its only cowardice that makes people do things to kids that they wouldn't dare try to do to adults (like beat them) so sit down and shut up.
Second: I'm so not a snitch. I don't believe in the child protective system and I would not have them taken out of their home, put in foster care so they could end up on Ritalin, molested and being passed from house to house. Kids who go into foster care have horrible rates of success in life and I don't consider it helping to do that to a child. If anything I would and often do, invite the kid to spend a week or two with me to give their parents time to cool off and let them have some peace for a minute while I talk to people in their family.
Third: The Virgo frenemy was the topic of conversation this weekend because she advised one of our friends to break up with her husband and then tried to set him up using a girl the Virgo works with as a decoy. He didn't fall for it, our Aquarius friend told him what's up and the husband has banned this b-word from coming anywhere around them!!! I love it. My favorite part was he was so mad, he was calling all her friends (us) b-words and h-words and saying he doesn't want us calling or coming over but I talked to him. he realized that I'm supercool, I never encourage a gilr to leave her man and I'm not a b-word, a c-word, an h-word or anything else and he gave me a big hug and listened to my advice. Its too bad that I can't see her face when the Aquarius tells her what he said and that he's not mad at ME!
okay you guys. i want COMPLETE honesty now. have any of you ever been accused of being this way from your woman?
Check out any other male star sign from this website entitled "blame his star sign" and she won't have anything positive to say about any of them..so that means no man is good enough!..
Thank you juwanapla,
I think you're totally right. However, I don?t know if I can have the sex without getting emotionally involved with him. I guess I just have to see what happens. But yes, I?m not going to jump on him at all. I?ll need some time on my own. Just wanted to know if you guys thought that he would eventually come around from what I described. If he doesn?t, well, it?s his problem. I surely don?t have the strength, nor is it my style , to chase him.
Thank you so much ?
By the way, I?m a Gemini, I fall in and out of love very quickly, so if he doesn?t come around, I?ll loose interest, which is a shame? oh well.
I think you're totally right. However, I don?t know if I can have the sex without getting emotionally involved with him. I guess I just have to see what happens. But yes, I?m not going to jump on him at all. I?ll need some time on my own. Just wanted to know if you guys thought that he would eventually come around from what I described. If he doesn?t, well, it?s his problem. I surely don?t have the strength, nor is it my style , to chase him.
Thank you so much ?
By the way, I?m a Gemini, I fall in and out of love very quickly, so if he doesn?t come around, I?ll loose interest, which is a shame? oh well.
juwanapla,
The interrogation mark on the last message was supposed to be an exclamation mark! :/
The interrogation mark on the last message was supposed to be an exclamation mark! :/
yeah, i give you that...but this stuff is just BAD!!!
come on guys. tell me its not true!!
come on guys. tell me its not true!!