Was I used by this cappy guy?
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I met this cappy on a dating site. He was so full on at first, telling me he hadn't been with anyone for 7 months. We were talking everyday and he sent me pictures of his child and his things. He is very much into his labels and designers and I'm the complete opposite. I explained we were totally different people but he said he didn't mind at all!
He was so full on telling me I was his and that he wanted me. We met and he ended up sleeping with me but txt me a couple of hours later saying he had a lovely time. He travelled for an hour and a half to see me.
We carried on talking for a couple of weeks but he wasn't as full on and so I told him I liked him and he said he liked me back.
He would randomly txt me saying he wanted me and would get annoyed if I didn't txt him.
We arranged another meet but this time I got some drink in. He got huffy I didn't txt him all day so didn't turn up at the time we had arranged, he turned up 2 hours later and was very patronising and negative and everything I said was wrong. We kissed and got merry, then he said he had to go get something from his car and never came back!!! I txt him asking where he was and he said he was now coming but never did. He is now ignoring me and has blocked me on whatsapp after I called him an idiot (and I blocked him first) I am
so upset. I'm a libra so I tried to keep him happy but he wasn't having any of it. Have I blown it now?
I met this cappy on a dating site. He was so full on at first, telling me he hadn't been with anyone for 7 months. We were talking everyday and he sent me pictures of his child and his things. He is very much into his labels and designers and I'm the complete opposite. I explained we were totally different people but he said he didn't mind at all!
He was so full on telling me I was his and that he wanted me. We met and he ended up sleeping with me but txt me a couple of hours later saying he had a lovely time. He travelled for an hour and a half to see me.
We carried on talking for a couple of weeks but he wasn't as full on and so I told him I liked him and he said he liked me back.
He would randomly txt me saying he wanted me and would get annoyed if I didn't txt him.
We arranged another meet but this time I got some drink in. He got huffy I didn't txt him all day so didn't turn up at the time we had arranged, he turned up 2 hours later and was very patronising and negative and everything I said was wrong. We kissed and got merry, then he said he had to go get something from his car and never came back!!! I txt him asking where he was and he said he was now coming but never did. He is now ignoring me and has blocked me on whatsapp after I called him an idiot (and I blocked him first) I am
so upset. I'm a libra so I tried to keep him happy but he wasn't having any of it. Have I blown it now?
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Yeah I remember last year I ordered some Chinese delivery for someone in Australia and her two friends, easily ran into the hundreds. A one person dish was 30 AUSD
let's just say I hope not too many people on my list reside in Australia for now or the giveaway isn't getting them very far out the house
McDonald's date for Australian subs.
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-- to be honest, you dont need these types of links and essays to understand what a satisfies a couple. But alot of people need these kinds of essays online though. It all depends on the both of you. But astrologically, yes, the level of attraction you feel for your mate is always important. Not just physically, but mentally, emotionally, as if everything about them is so kissable.
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Posted by tiziani
It's best to know your personality and know what kind of relationship you like, because one person's nightmare synastry is another person's cup of tea.
on the whole I'm not a massive believer in synastry.
Pretty much. I'm weird, so I want to hang out with people no matter ow good or bad the synasty we have. Makes it easier to note how aspects play out everyday and what it's like to be on the giving/receiving end of some aspects.
...Also I found out all my friends have Moon-Pluto aspects going on.
Not really but conversely it speaks volumes of how a very simple statement can be taken in that light. For one assuming all manipulation is negative. Second, knowing the recipient may not always see it in that light. The most plausible explanation is you do indeed view all forms of manipulation as bad.
If we take out your said understanding and apply basic human interaction what's to say you can even see manipulation coming your way if it's accurate to its definition of manipulate?
Also if you truly believe all Moon-Pluto are out to manipulate then that is your understanding and your interactions. But who's to say I'm not playing my trick right now?
If we take out your said understanding and apply basic human interaction what's to say you can even see manipulation coming your way if it's accurate to its definition of manipulate?
Also if you truly believe all Moon-Pluto are out to manipulate then that is your understanding and your interactions. But who's to say I'm not playing my trick right now?
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Posted by starloverPosted by truecapPosted by starlover
truecap ~ do you have children? i am guessing not
I have two. One is grown, the other is a teen.
Oh nice
I was just wondering how the three times a day sex was combined with being a mum.
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I didn't say I had it three times a day. I just said I would vote for it and wouldn't mind it.
My ex was a gemini. And yes, we are divorced, but sex wasn't our issue. Our issues ran deeper than that - we had too many core differences and we had a lot of other problems we couldn't work out.
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Posted by KVZZMIR11Posted by aquasnoz
Then we're speaking quite vaguely because any action of a person can be viewed as manipulation whether the intent was there or not.
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Do not play mind games or emotional chess with us.
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a dinner for two, about 70-80 euros, including a couple of drinks. The dinner entree is usually around 30 euros per plate, depending. varying from 25- 35 euros. If we order dessert, it's a little more. The drinks if you order wine or beer is very expensive. A glass of wine is decently 5 to 6 euros just for house wine. A special wine is much more pricey. I try not to drink much at restaurants, because we can have a bottle of wine at home. My husband buys special beers, and he's very particular. He's not a wine drinker, I am though.
Cheaper dinners are usually chinese-indian restaurants, where you can buy take out. It's better to cook your own dishes though. Inexpensive, but with restaurants, you dont have to do dishes. *shrug*
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Posted by Aquacrabgem
IDK We haven't had sex in two weeks. He hasn't even initiated sex with me. I am a hornball right now and I am confused as shit! Sexually I feel neglected. Emotionally I feel worn out. I think I am going to focus my attention on dating other people and giving him some space.
He feels judged.