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Sep 23, 2013Comments: 3 · Posts: 314 · Topics: 46
It started off when he was switched to my department and after 2 weeks...he treated me like a princess with no strings attached for no reason just because of his feels for me, both of us single. Stared at me, got all protective over me around guys and wanted to talk to me all the time. Also, his harem dried up in a few days too.
Hes respectable, confident and a level-headed gentleman but around me he'd become my attention-seeking pup it was cute. I liked it except i made it clear to him that i dont feel the same way, i told him that to his face after 2 weeks (harsh, i kno). He was hurt, disappeared for 3 days. I did it because i had no interest in him and i felt like by keeping him around, i'd be abusing his kindness since hes not going to get anything in return. I'd rather be told the cold-harsh truth than live in an illusion of false hope. if i dont have any interest in you im going to let you know no matter what, no need to waste mine/your precious time on me. He came back after 3 days, chased me persistantly for a year.
Then for about ten months i was away from him, i had to move back to my hometown. During the 10 months gap, i realized i had feelings for him....i missed him every single day. But i couldnt contact him....i was a little ashamed. When i came back he was still pursuing me, i felt guilty i couldnt look him in the eye. What do i do?
Double standards?
Can dish it but cannot take it?
Insecure?
IDK
snap into a slim jim
what is this harem that dried up?
I understand absence makes the heart grow fonder, but that's only true if you liked someone. it seems like you didn't see him in a romantic way until he was out of your life. why is that?
did you truly miss him or did you miss the attention from him?
I was just wondering if you Aquarians are more open with your emotions/feelings when you have had a few bevies?
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Happy Birthday!
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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 287 · Posts: 30828 · Topics: 650
Childish, immature babies when they get upset, lose, or dont get what they want?
I thought you guys were the enlightened ones of the zodiac...