The best lover I ever had was a Cancer (but so was the worst) Cancers like to take their time and they are not selfish,very passionate and tender until they decide they want to make you lose your mind, in which case something might get broken (renter's insurance anyone?) It is very hard to resist a Cancer b/c we (they) are very seductive (for us that's half the act). Cancers like to touch and get close enough for the skin to barely touch and then take you, unmercifully! To be honest, I believe that this and the romantic,vulnerable, sensuous side of Cancer male is why women end up falling for them and then getting hurt when he doesn't want to commit. Better off sticking w/ a Scorpio who can make your toes curl and still let you know he just a playa so you don't get attached. And from my experience and my friends', I think the word "persistent" is attached to Cancers for a reason...won't see them buying Viagra!