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Mar 20, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2764 · Topics: 36
"He's playing a game. It's a game of how long you will put up with his crap."
-lmao...that is too funny, and yet so true, unfortunately!
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Feb 15, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 9826 · Topics: 354
Some people aren't honest to people. And aren't honest to themselves either. Those people usually commit suicide.
People who are honest both to people and themselves, usually cannot get material wellfare too.
This is what my uncle said to me. I don't know personally wether a honest person really can have both material and emotional contency with it's honesty. I personally disagree with that. However, I also see this as a fact. People who are honest, really cannot get material wellfare.
I don't know why, but I this is how it is. I think there is a way to be honest and wealthy but I have to experience it myself in the first place, otherwise I cannot explain it.
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
'is because generally tops are attracted to bottoms. butches to lipsticks. but not so much tops to tops, butches to butches.'
tis true...so why dont bottoms date butches and tops date lipsticks...
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Mar 20, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2764 · Topics: 36
but the question is...does he value you more or less if you do continue to put up with his crap? i think aqua men do play the game in order to test your love for them. i think the longer you put up with their crap and act like it doesn't phase you, or don't let it get to you...the more your love for them is validated. it's a sick way of thinking, but it's true.
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May 04, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 1078 · Topics: 68
It's never easy to understand one's reasoning for taking their own life; or why they would feel that that was the only solution to their problems. There was someone I went to High School with who excelled at most things; He was one of the best runners on our Cross Country Team, very smart, good looking, popular, etc. and then one day, after crashing his father's truck and breaking up with his girlfriend at the time (which he would have probably forgot about a year later), he went upstairs at his parent's house and shot himself. It was so sad; A short while before this happened, we had read this poem in our English/Poetry class.
Richard Cory - by Edwin Arlington Robinson
Whenever Richard Cory went down town,
We people on the pavement looked at him:
He was a gentleman from sole to crown,
Clean favored, and imperially slim.
And he was always quietly arrayed,
And he was always human when he talked;
But still he fluttered pulses when he said,
"Good-morning," and he glittered when he walked.
And he was rich - yes, richer than a king -
And admirably schooled in every grace;
In fine we thought that he was everything
To make us wish that we were in his place.
So on we worked, and waited for the light,
And went without the meat, and cursed the bread;
And Richard Cory, one calm summer night,
Went home and put a bullet through his head.
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May 18, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6936 · Topics: 267
True, but in this case, it was hardly love. We'd only dated a month. But for some reason, he wants to hold onto me. I haven't talked to him in about a week, but he did call me a few nights ago and I haven't called him back....I will, I've just been busy with other friends of mine - a Cap and an Aries.
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and can sum1 tell me what it all means?
Thanks
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Jun 27, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 502 · Topics: 52
hey guys,
the zen priests meant that physically, the male is the thunderbolt and the female is the void
whereas emotionally the female is the thunderbolt and the male is the void
it's a belief system of dualities like that, meaning both thunderbolt and void have their own energies separate from gender.
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Jul 09, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 370 · Topics: 36
thanks alot for ur input -
here's an update: about 2 nights ago out of frustration i called his cell n left a msg - saying i was tired of playin his games and told him to jus delete me phone number and jus to stop calling me. i regretted it a few days later.
yesterday he was online - i msg him - he said i shouldn't be talkin to him because i told him to leave me alone - i explained that i was extremely pissed n that's y i left the msg - anyway we argued a little - he said i wasn't interested - i told him i wouldn't be tryin to talk to him if i was - he said i was kickin him outta my life -(which i wasn't since i was still tryin to talk to him) -so i told him to jus let me know right now if i should move on - cus when i make up my mind to move on i don't look back. anyway he said he can't handle me n i piss him off - so to make things short - we said our goodbyes - i told him that i hope he would have a good life and that was it.
so right now i'm goin to try my best to jus move on n do what's best for me - if i only hold on then i'll end up hurting myself - i don't want to be in the middle of him and his ex's drama - i need a free man - anymore advice would help - i like to hear ppl's opinions
-cancer12