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Feb 15, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 9826 · Topics: 354
I personally had alot of time spend with such people. And surprisingly they were my parents. So I think I had enough on my own share. I don't deal with such situation anymore, because anything they could use against me is already brought by me, so if it's mine, they shut up.
Not like I still deal with that. This is how it was when I was living with him (actually he was living with us), it was temporal solution, but now he's not with us and never will be, so I have no such problems.
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
The line starts to the right ladies. *sparrow settles down to sell tickets*
Didn't you try this a couple of months ago?
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Apr 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 243 · Topics: 32
I know being an Aqua female, that once I set my mind to say "good bye" to someone, I mean it, and will not give a second chance.
It will depend of course on this man's personality and on what this "Misunderstanding" was, but either way I would just expect it to be over and move on.
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Feb 15, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 9826 · Topics: 354
TG
As I stated before on other topics, the personality of human is always ought to turn into his/her moon sign. That's the only way for that person to be content with himself/herself.
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Jul 09, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15279 · Topics: 125
I don't attract many positive people or people with benevolent intentions, etc.
I'm not really sure why this is...but there have been certain people who've proven that they're true, and I think that what initially attracted them to me was my wit and overall optimistic demeanor...genuine smile and personality...just being a nice person in general. But I know not all Leos are like that soooo...
"1. You still hadn't completely finished off you old relationship and led him on without telling him. It is not worthless information and needs to be clearly stated at least after you realise he was really keen on you. Who knows, the old flame could have rekindled and that could've been a messy embarassing situation. After he realised that you cancelled meetings because of this, he probably felt like a pawn piece... lets just say that that's isn't his favourite."
This was something he knew. I told him this up front. I didn't hide it fom him. He decided he still wanted to know me. That choice wasn't forced. All of this happened BEFORE we even met for the first time. It is possible in certain situations that an old flame may rekindle, but this was a very negative situation that he and I both talked about it and I knew I had to remove myself. It wasn't a boyfriend, it was a bad friendship with a male. I didn't mislead him. We were both keen on one another from our first meeting and I made him very aware of it. He decided to continue to bring up amd hold onto the info that he dug for and use it against me after we had put it behind us. If he was trying to be a friend, why would he do that instead of truly being a friend and grow from that and take the time to get to know me before passing judgment?
"2. Come on admit it, you gave out his contact details to your friend because you had your doubts. I know I wouldn't like me contact details to be shared for no real reason. If you didn't fully trust him at the time you should just admit it, no point being reactive and denying it coz it makes you look worse."
I gave out his contact info to my friend because being a single woman that lives alone in state where I have no family, it's the smart thing to do. This is something I hope that MOST single women do when they go on a first date with a person they do not know. At least someone knows who they were with last. Like I told him, for me this is normal procedure and I failed to mention it to him because once we were together, we both were so into each other, that was FAR fetched from my mind. I brought him to my home... you don't do that with a person you don't trust. I did trust him, my friend got his contact info before the first date.
I possibly could've done things differently, but I've never had anyone to respond this way and turn things that can be talked out and worked out into something so major.
My mouth went dry everytime