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Jul 09, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15279 · Topics: 125
I don't attract many positive people or people with benevolent intentions, etc.
I'm not really sure why this is...but there have been certain people who've proven that they're true, and I think that what initially attracted them to me was my wit and overall optimistic demeanor...genuine smile and personality...just being a nice person in general. But I know not all Leos are like that soooo...
"1. You still hadn't completely finished off you old relationship and led him on without telling him. It is not worthless information and needs to be clearly stated at least after you realise he was really keen on you. Who knows, the old flame could have rekindled and that could've been a messy embarassing situation. After he realised that you cancelled meetings because of this, he probably felt like a pawn piece... lets just say that that's isn't his favourite."
This was something he knew. I told him this up front. I didn't hide it fom him. He decided he still wanted to know me. That choice wasn't forced. All of this happened BEFORE we even met for the first time. It is possible in certain situations that an old flame may rekindle, but this was a very negative situation that he and I both talked about it and I knew I had to remove myself. It wasn't a boyfriend, it was a bad friendship with a male. I didn't mislead him. We were both keen on one another from our first meeting and I made him very aware of it. He decided to continue to bring up amd hold onto the info that he dug for and use it against me after we had put it behind us. If he was trying to be a friend, why would he do that instead of truly being a friend and grow from that and take the time to get to know me before passing judgment?
"2. Come on admit it, you gave out his contact details to your friend because you had your doubts. I know I wouldn't like me contact details to be shared for no real reason. If you didn't fully trust him at the time you should just admit it, no point being reactive and denying it coz it makes you look worse."
I gave out his contact info to my friend because being a single woman that lives alone in state where I have no family, it's the smart thing to do. This is something I hope that MOST single women do when they go on a first date with a person they do not know. At least someone knows who they were with last. Like I told him, for me this is normal procedure and I failed to mention it to him because once we were together, we both were so into each other, that was FAR fetched from my mind. I brought him to my home... you don't do that with a person you don't trust. I did trust him, my friend got his contact info before the first date.
I possibly could've done things differently, but I've never had anyone to respond this way and turn things that can be talked out and worked out into something so major.
My mouth went dry everytime
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Mar 15, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 371 · Topics: 13
You didn't do anything wrong, so I wouldn't let his behavior have you questioning yourself. He sounds like an insecure Scorpio who is still unsure of himself. If he was secure with himself, he would have no problem with you trying to sort out your past so that you can clear a new path to be with him. You did the right thing by ending it now before his insecurities got out of hand.
Just a little advice: I would reiterate to your friend what true "emergencies" are. It's understood she meant well but, geez! She got you busted out there!
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May 18, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6936 · Topics: 267
walk away from him...cut off ties..he's married and you don't want to get involved with the drama of being the "other woman". you don't need advice on Aquas; you need advice on how to get involved with a SINGLE man; not one who isn't going to leave his wife for you.
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Feb 28, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 250 · Topics: 47
Hey guys,this is what I have figured out about my feelings......its really strange for me also but I think my feelings are changing for this guy.We are really good friends now,coz we spent more and more time together(in our friend group)and I found out that he is very sweet,charming,down to earth but at the same time,he does not take lead in anything,He is not so funny,is really verrrry sensitive,is not smart and bold....I love him madly,I still find him attractive but I dont know,its so confusing....I always back him in any topic and he tells me that he is really happy GOD has given him me as a friend...I dont know,I have a soft corner for this guy or what..he is really a puppylike guy.I adore him.But is this turning into pure friendship from love?I dont know.Being a leo girl,I like little bold men I think,I am not very experienced with men yet but I think so.Can u ppl say something about this?what do you think?please tell me.its confusing...