Yes, No, Maybe So? What Is He Feeling?!
that maybe this information might speak into his level of interest in me? I didn't mean for it or him to sound superficial, he does well for himself but he's far from materialistic. I have a feeling he's simply this way with friends and family he cares for. For example, he is incredibly giving towards his dog sitter. She's been the caregiver for his four-legged baby since she was a pup. He pays her a very generous babysitting fee when he goes on his business trips. I won't say how much he pays the gal, but he's absolutely happy to do so because she's like family to him.
Also, my gut is telling me that he's not the kind of guy to invest his time and money into just anything or anyone. He has mentioned on numerous occasions, "I'm decisive. I'm action-oriented. I know what I want." But geeze, Taureans, you guys sure know how to put on a poker face! You have your eyes on the prize but the prize has NO CLUE you're eyeing it at all! That's the real problem, isn't it?
ScorpiosHarmony,
I know you mean well and I thank you for it, but that advice actually makes me nervous. haha He's such an independent, confident, and self-assured soul, I can't imagine him receiving demands too well, especially so early on in the stage. And in all honesty, I wouldn't feel comfortable either because ultimatums aren't my thing. I don't like when people place limits on me so I prefer not to do it to others. I understand if he's guarded and he needs time to deliberate, I'm willing to invest time and energy to get to know him better because I know that if we got together we'd seriously be a power couple--he is such an AMAZING guy, it'll be worth it. He's currently responsive and consistent and I'm going with the flow. But obviously, I'm not going to let it drag on forever. I have a mental timeframe and will bring it up when the time feels right. No harm, no foul in seeing where it might lead to; and if it works, I think I might have found the man of my dreams! haha Wish me luck?
Busyeyes88,
Oh, I am DEFINITELY reminding myself everyday to, "focus on his actions." I literally wake up every morning recanting this. haha Luckily for me, I'm really really sensible and logical. Both my Moon and Venus are in Taurus, so I totally understand the whole, "I need to observe before I make a decision," behavior. Haha I also think that's why I have always been so drawn to earth and water guys. They know how to make me feel safe and grounded--I can't get enough of that! But, I'd be l
Also, my gut is telling me that he's not the kind of guy to invest his time and money into just anything or anyone. He has mentioned on numerous occasions, "I'm decisive. I'm action-oriented. I know what I want." But geeze, Taureans, you guys sure know how to put on a poker face! You have your eyes on the prize but the prize has NO CLUE you're eyeing it at all! That's the real problem, isn't it?
ScorpiosHarmony,
I know you mean well and I thank you for it, but that advice actually makes me nervous. haha He's such an independent, confident, and self-assured soul, I can't imagine him receiving demands too well, especially so early on in the stage. And in all honesty, I wouldn't feel comfortable either because ultimatums aren't my thing. I don't like when people place limits on me so I prefer not to do it to others. I understand if he's guarded and he needs time to deliberate, I'm willing to invest time and energy to get to know him better because I know that if we got together we'd seriously be a power couple--he is such an AMAZING guy, it'll be worth it. He's currently responsive and consistent and I'm going with the flow. But obviously, I'm not going to let it drag on forever. I have a mental timeframe and will bring it up when the time feels right. No harm, no foul in seeing where it might lead to; and if it works, I think I might have found the man of my dreams! haha Wish me luck?
Busyeyes88,
Oh, I am DEFINITELY reminding myself everyday to, "focus on his actions." I literally wake up every morning recanting this. haha Luckily for me, I'm really really sensible and logical. Both my Moon and Venus are in Taurus, so I totally understand the whole, "I need to observe before I make a decision," behavior. Haha I also think that's why I have always been so drawn to earth and water guys. They know how to make me feel safe and grounded--I can't get enough of that! But, I'd be l