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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
I don't have a problem if they take the time out to tell me the reason for cancelling (depending on the reason) but to just disappear having arranged, thats outrageous and I wouldn't stand for it.
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
LOL @ "afterall scorps are supposed to posess extra-ordianry-mental-wavelength detectors"
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Jul 02, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 5508 · Topics: 93
What makes you say(write) that?
elly I think you may be right. This is the second time he has been unavailable. The first time he went to Las Vegas with his sons but forgot to mention to me that he was going. Naturally after 13 days without a word, I was a bit frantic but when he returned he was completely engaged with me as if nothing was wrong. Well since I have received his reply from my email that he does still want to see me but he has been busy with work, and that he would get in touch that day later, I have not heard from him again. I had sent him an email just to thank him and not to worry about getting in touch till his work problems were resolved, well he has not even read that email so he wouldnt even know that I have said not to worry. Ahhh, I am probably better off finding someone else to date. I just know if he comes around I will be glad.
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Jan 15, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 124 · Topics: 15
The guy(Sun:Scorpio, Moon:Leo)I'm started to see and I(Sun:Sagittariusm, Moon:Taurus)have it out sometimes. We are both stubborn (he is more of it) and we both wish to dominate each other . I personally dont mind giving a little to get a little but only if he does also. When we cool, we COOL! When we stubborn we are STUBBORN! Everything is in extremes . How should I handle him without being spiteful but still get my way or get him to at least give more?
"the scorp i was with, i felt, played a lot of minor mind games with me that i didn't appreciate. pouting and leaving the room when i wasn't giving her enough attnetion, etc. "
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As a scorp woman I can relate to that unfortunately, and I admit I unconsciously go for that type of behavior when I really like someone and feel threatened by them having some sort of power over me. The description of scorps that they are all about power is true, and realizing that about someone who's a scorp can be helpful. The taurus in question during the first time we met all of the sudden went off to take care of something in the middle of our conversation. I didn't say anything and didn't show it but I was pretty irritated. That was my knee jerk reaction. Now if I had used my logical side the way I see acquarians do I would have waited until I talked with him to find out what was going on before taking it personally. Because after enough knocks of this sort I have observed the pattern that I take things too personally at times. But I can still go for the pure avoidance behavior when caught off guard. So what I am trying to say is with a scorp you kind of have to read between the lines at times. And the fact you've found a scorp that's open, that's cool but believe me if "he" was interested in you he wouldn't have been so gracious. I am super gracious and controlled 95% of the time, but with the ones I care about - uhm not so easy.
I found your comment about trying really hard to think of interesting things to say very intriguing! Because for a scorp while it is important to have intelligent conversations, that is certainly not the most important thing (the way it seems for sag). Sure I have my interests, would like to share thoughts with a man, but deep down inside it is All about passion for me (one that doesn't run against my ethical beliefs). One can read a book and be inspired, but a book is not going to give love or hugs.
This has gotten long, but can you share some insight into what type of continuous communication would make you feel secure emotionally with the person? Do you trust your sixth sense about people you are attracted to, or do you need proof from them over time about their true intentions?