HOW TO TELL IF AN AQUA MAN IN INTERESTED?????
I have know this aqua man for a few years now I would say we were aquaintances..not friends..well within the last few weeks we have ran into each other alot at diffrent functions, he invited me to a small party his friend was having so I gave him my number and told him to call me with directions..I went to the get together and the next day he called me and we talked for about an hour he started calling me daily sometimes twice a day or more, when we talk its mainly about everyday things going on in our lifes..at first i wasnt to interested in him but as we talk more I am finding myself more and more attracted to him..we have hung out one time at his house and just kinda watched t.v. and talked a little bit when i was leaving he gave me a hug and it almost seemed like he wanted to kiss me but I pulled away and left.when we do talk its never about us..or anything regarding getting together "hooking" up its more on a freinds level..he has a ton of friends and is very sociable..I just cant tell if he is interested in me at all..I mean with him calling so much and us staying on the phone for long periods of time it just seems like he might be..do aqua men like to be friends first before then make a move?..or should I bring it up when he calls me again?...I dont want to scare him off..I guess I am looking for some good advice.
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onefineaquarius, i think you rock and i'd appreciate some advice from you.
i'm so upset over my aqua guy that hasnt spoken to me in almost a month now. i screwed things up and lost his trust when i sent him some inappropriate text messages on a drunken night, and i want him back in my life. i've gone 2 weeks or so without contacting him, but i texted him saying i missed him a couple weeks ago, and i got nothing back. i'm worried it could be over for good, but i really dont want it to be. how can i fix this?
i'm so upset over my aqua guy that hasnt spoken to me in almost a month now. i screwed things up and lost his trust when i sent him some inappropriate text messages on a drunken night, and i want him back in my life. i've gone 2 weeks or so without contacting him, but i texted him saying i missed him a couple weeks ago, and i got nothing back. i'm worried it could be over for good, but i really dont want it to be. how can i fix this?
hmmm flirting...... i flirt alot but when im single or when my guy's not around coz jeeez i always date( dunno why but i attract super jealous and possesive guys... so dont want them to get all mad ya know
.... my date flirting with another girl right in front of me and never introduced me to her-
OK NOW i would HATE that...now thats mean
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I think Pluto hit the nail on the head..he was originally supposed to be someone I talked to..none of this..then he came on full on...really strong..I guess I was like woah..is he for real!..lol..and the fact that he was attractive..
I wanted to know whether its normal for them guys to come on soooo strong..and was it just for sex..if so, then I am not interested as I don't throw my body around that..
So I answered my own question..
I wanted to know whether its normal for them guys to come on soooo strong..and was it just for sex..if so, then I am not interested as I don't throw my body around that..
So I answered my own question..
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Hi Kavindra 
...she thinks that crying or telling someone that she needs help is a sign of weakness...
This is me to a T. Sometimes I feel that if I show someone what's going on inside of me or that I need help I have given up some of my power to someone else. Because some WILL mistaken it as a weakness at a later date and try to use it when they are upset about something. It happens. And it feels like they didn't understand as much as I thought they did. If I can get through it myself, I don't owe anyone. Pride.
Did you fight a lot growing up?
Knowing that someone can be there without judgement and/or personal opinions might help. Offer only an ear and let her hear herself speak. Making her feel like she was the one who figured things out for herself might also help. It sounds like this is something you already do, and it's all you CAN do really. If she is loaded with leo in her chart then any advice may fall on deaf ears.
Do you know where her Mercury is? Keeping things to yourself is also a water trait and it might be possible she has Cancer in her chart as well. I have Mercury in Cancer and sometimes things need to be pried out of me.
...she thinks that crying or telling someone that she needs help is a sign of weakness...
This is me to a T. Sometimes I feel that if I show someone what's going on inside of me or that I need help I have given up some of my power to someone else. Because some WILL mistaken it as a weakness at a later date and try to use it when they are upset about something. It happens. And it feels like they didn't understand as much as I thought they did. If I can get through it myself, I don't owe anyone. Pride.
Did you fight a lot growing up?
Knowing that someone can be there without judgement and/or personal opinions might help. Offer only an ear and let her hear herself speak. Making her feel like she was the one who figured things out for herself might also help. It sounds like this is something you already do, and it's all you CAN do really. If she is loaded with leo in her chart then any advice may fall on deaf ears.
Do you know where her Mercury is? Keeping things to yourself is also a water trait and it might be possible she has Cancer in her chart as well. I have Mercury in Cancer and sometimes things need to be pried out of me.
Ex's?
**NO CONTACT WHATSOEVER** Your bf or gf friends with an ex? That's insane, makes no sense to me at all. If ex's are still 'friends', there's something there, whatever "SOMETHING" may be doesn't matter... it's there.
It may be a lingering attraction, interest or full blown relationship of some sort... fukk buddies perhaps? That fun, naughty thing on the side... it's there.
It's not about trust... it's a judgment thing. It may be an old toy, but it's there, you can't trust the kid (even IF he lost interest in it) to nEvEr EvEr play with it again if he keeps it in his toy box... after all, he knows how it works. And who's to say he doesn't have a reason for not throwing it away... hmmmm
**NO CONTACT WHATSOEVER** Your bf or gf friends with an ex? That's insane, makes no sense to me at all. If ex's are still 'friends', there's something there, whatever "SOMETHING" may be doesn't matter... it's there.
It may be a lingering attraction, interest or full blown relationship of some sort... fukk buddies perhaps? That fun, naughty thing on the side... it's there.
It's not about trust... it's a judgment thing. It may be an old toy, but it's there, you can't trust the kid (even IF he lost interest in it) to nEvEr EvEr play with it again if he keeps it in his toy box... after all, he knows how it works. And who's to say he doesn't have a reason for not throwing it away... hmmmm
Scorps and Aquas don't mix...
plain BS... they can and they do..its a great match....u people who think it cant work reminds me of that song : 'you're still the one'...
Looks like we made it
Look how far we've come my baby
We mighta took the long way
We knew we'd get there someday
They said, "I bet they'll never make it"
But just look at us holding on
We're still together still going strong
Ain't nothin' better
We beat the odds together
I'm glad we didn't listen
Look at what we would be missin'
Roz.. do whats best for ya... just dont listen to what people say... it can work if u guys are willing to make the effort...
good luck girl
plain BS... they can and they do..its a great match....u people who think it cant work reminds me of that song : 'you're still the one'...
Looks like we made it
Look how far we've come my baby
We mighta took the long way
We knew we'd get there someday
They said, "I bet they'll never make it"
But just look at us holding on
We're still together still going strong
Ain't nothin' better
We beat the odds together
I'm glad we didn't listen
Look at what we would be missin'
Roz.. do whats best for ya... just dont listen to what people say... it can work if u guys are willing to make the effort...
good luck girl