Virgos & Aquas
ginzette - let us know how it goes tonight and happy birthday!
VLL -
thanks!
you are right about the communication factor with virgos and aquas
i feel like i am giving him room to say anything he wants to me but he is shy and reserved and i think probably feels uncomfortable being direct about us which is ok, its still too early to even have any sort of serious discussion. he can barely answer a yes or no question....but i am working on it!
thank you for the advice....
have you called your aqua girl?
if she only has 30 min. to talk i don't know if i would bring up any serious issues (with any sun sign really...lol) because you need more time to discuss all of these things, and i know it's better in person and you would probably prefer it that way but you don't know when you will see her....
i wouldn't take her unsureness as a sign, she is most likely stepping back to see the whole picture and evaulating it on top of all the other stuff she has going on.
i think you should tell her that you want to see her, you shouldnt compromise to an extent where she makes all the decisions and your feelings are constantly hurt, its not fair to you. i think you should tell her that you want to see her and if she says she is not ready to, then leave it at that, but if she says "maybe" or "i'm so tired" try to ask her to set a date aside for you.
i will tell you this: i have noticed this in myself and in other aquas - we are completely flabergasted when you accuse us of something (even if we know that we do whatever it is we are being accused of) and completely get on the defensive, its terrible really and i have tried to work on it but everytime i react the same way nonetheless (which kind of ties in with the whole slow to change fixed personality) . this sort of ties in with how we can't handle rejection and have no idea what to do when it does happen.
i can't answer whether or not its clear that she doesnt want anything or does...about giving her more time....don't bring it up with her because i think that once she has made up her mind she will tell you, but do keep trying to push (lightly) the idea of getting together with her, once you see her you will know a lot more b/c of body language etc. and you can start to slowly bring up one issue at a time, the most important i guess being the state of your relationship and what she wants.
i know its hard to keep in touch with her everyday when you have no idea wahts going on....and its
VLL -
thanks!
you are right about the communication factor with virgos and aquas
i feel like i am giving him room to say anything he wants to me but he is shy and reserved and i think probably feels uncomfortable being direct about us which is ok, its still too early to even have any sort of serious discussion. he can barely answer a yes or no question....but i am working on it!
thank you for the advice....
have you called your aqua girl?
if she only has 30 min. to talk i don't know if i would bring up any serious issues (with any sun sign really...lol) because you need more time to discuss all of these things, and i know it's better in person and you would probably prefer it that way but you don't know when you will see her....
i wouldn't take her unsureness as a sign, she is most likely stepping back to see the whole picture and evaulating it on top of all the other stuff she has going on.
i think you should tell her that you want to see her, you shouldnt compromise to an extent where she makes all the decisions and your feelings are constantly hurt, its not fair to you. i think you should tell her that you want to see her and if she says she is not ready to, then leave it at that, but if she says "maybe" or "i'm so tired" try to ask her to set a date aside for you.
i will tell you this: i have noticed this in myself and in other aquas - we are completely flabergasted when you accuse us of something (even if we know that we do whatever it is we are being accused of) and completely get on the defensive, its terrible really and i have tried to work on it but everytime i react the same way nonetheless (which kind of ties in with the whole slow to change fixed personality) . this sort of ties in with how we can't handle rejection and have no idea what to do when it does happen.
i can't answer whether or not its clear that she doesnt want anything or does...about giving her more time....don't bring it up with her because i think that once she has made up her mind she will tell you, but do keep trying to push (lightly) the idea of getting together with her, once you see her you will know a lot more b/c of body language etc. and you can start to slowly bring up one issue at a time, the most important i guess being the state of your relationship and what she wants.
i know its hard to keep in touch with her everyday when you have no idea wahts going on....and its
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