ladydane49...your Cancer's issues sound more like problems in his own personal values than anything to do with being a cancer. We have many faults but taking and not giving back is not one that is characteristic to us. If its astrological, that may be his ascendant sun or moon talking. Cancers are known to give a lot more than we expect back...and a lot of the "neediness" that we get a bad rap for happens when we don't stick to our own kind (pisces, scorpios, sometimes taurus) and we give and give and then want some of that back. If anything a cancer is more likely to be on the short end of the stick of giving in just about any relationship....unless its with another water sign. (This is on average everyone has their own valid experience)