He's conservative by nature ... you spent a night with him too soon. He lost interest.
Truth is I want this to work; I'm old school and hate the idea of divorce etc. I'm hoping taking a couple months off will heal a bit so I can at the very least re-open a calmer and cooler channel of communication.
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Oct 08, 2009Comments: 1 · Posts: 6313 · Topics: 313
Everyone needs to stop making it about themselves, if she wants to be alone then leave her, don't send a friend over to cheer her up because that will make you feel better because you're reassured not necessarily her, she will end up depressed miserable and having to entertain a friend when she's not in the right frame of mind for company, there are days when I get visitors at the wrong time and when I'd rather be in bed for the day o have to be out sitting with them and talking and making them tea when I'm dying inside lol.
Depression is a big deal but do t let it scare you or make you worry about your partner, be concerned and there for her when she needs you and respect her alone time and don't put pressure on her to be well when u want her to be.
Sorry if I co e off as a dick but it's something I would tell myself if I was in your shoes
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here is our conversation, need more expert to advise;
Aquarius : Who is this ?
Aries : OW
Aquarius : Please stop finding me.
Aries : why
Aquarius BLOCK ARIES... no longer can be in touch with her anymore
im Aries, should i give up? What is in her mind? hate me or ...... she being nice or ... ...
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You might want it to work but it doesn't sound like she does.
Us Scorps tend to hold on long after a situation has become bad and intolerable.
Really, where do you think it can go now?
This is the person you married. She's unlikely to change and she doesn't seem open to talking or compromising.
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