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Astrology report for PillowFortBuilder
Person One V birthday : Aug 2rd 1982 / no birth time listed
Person Two: A Birthday : Feb 10th 1984/ no birth time listed
Chart Patterns / Seesaw and a Yod
Seesaw
You have the planetary pattern called the 'seesaw' type. With your planets divided into two distinct groups, you are very balanced in your outlook, always being aware of both sides of an issue, always able to compromise between opposing points of view. In this way you are quite similar to a Libra personality.
Yod, focal planet Chiron
Chiron in the composite chart reveals the area of your shared experience where you will encounter patterns of wounds and deep connection and where eventual healing and empathy will occur.
You have a Yod planetary aspect pattern in your chart, also known as the 'finger of God'. This pattern consists of two different planets forming inconjunct aspects of 150` to a third, or focal, point. Usually there will be a marked emphasis on the area of life represented by this focal point, which may be one planet, or two or more in conjunction. You may have physical or psychological problems associated with the expression of the energies of the focal planet or planets, creating a subtle form of tension in your life. The key is adjustment. Your lesson is to transform the expression of these energies along more positive lines.
Chiron in the First House (or sign) indicates a relationship that provides an opportunity for the two of you to face and heal deeply held wounds with regard to your vital force to be and to initiate within the relationship. With this placement of Chiron, your very sense of the relationship may be threatened by disturbing realizations and painful memories.
Together, you may work through pain that arose from feeling belittled and put down, rather than encouraged, by the significant adult figures around you in your formative years.
Within this relationship you may encounter and overcome obstacles that prevent yourselves from reaching your full potential. You may find that in this relationship, you operate more from a fear of failing than from the expectation of success that would breed confidence for further achievement.
You may find yourselves sacrificing your own goals to the goals of the other, or to those around you, because they seem somehow more important or at least deserving of priority treatment.
Either one of you may feel a keen lack of achievement in your own life, and compensate by trying too hard to help others, putting yourself in the background. As long as these relationship patterns operate more or less unconsciously, they are difficult to overcome, so the first step in surmounting them is to become more conscious of what's going on inside.
Become aware of your own pain. Acknowledge and discover more about what exactly went on in past relationships to make you both feel so resigned with your present abilities in this one. At that point you can begin to come out from behind your painful experiences and really show yourselves to each other and to the world around you. With a more conscious understanding of your own dynamics, you can begin to help others in how they deal with similar issues, transforming your false sense of vicarious achievement into a strong center of true friendship.
Composite Chiron in Taurus (or the Second House) indicates a relationship that provides an opportunity for you to face deeply held wounds with regard to your ability to attain sustenance and maintain possessions. With this placement of Chiron, physical resources challenge your relationship. One or both of you may have seen everything taken away at one time or another, or you may have risen above challenging circumstances materially, demonstrate a painful attitude toward material well being.
Perhaps you must face fears that possessions dominate the life of the relationship. Where others are able to count on their resources and trust that they will have what they need, either materially, or physically, or within their own psyches, you may find yourselves suspicious that what you have will not last. Even if it is more than adequate by some standards, it seems somehow not enough to satisfy you.
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These feelings may also spill over into deep issues regarding the relationship's core values, or that which defines it in terms of what you both choose to support and give credence to. You may feel at sea in this area, rather than on stable ground, not sure about what you do and don't find attractive.
These ambivalent feelings toward material possessions and values may find their roots in early childhood relationships, in which one or both of you perhaps experienced pain getting what you wanted for yourselves, independent of those who had authority over you.
Sometimes these issues are so painful that it is easier not to deal with them directly. Getting in touch with these deep and partially repressed feelings is of ultimate importance for the success of the relationship.
When you can confront the parts of yourselves and your relationship that are painful and scary, and begin to integrate the feelings that you have buried away, you will become more in charge of your relationship and the course that you each take through life as well.