Virgo needs SPACE but is RUDE!
Thanks Bear, thats so encouraging. Low and behold I got two calls last night after I wrote my last post and one day today wanting to know if I was home, he as in my area. I'm thinking where is all this coming from?? I think it might be because even though we werent speaking and he was ignoring me last week I still sent him a birthday card, when i wrote to see if he received it, he finally called. Do you think that kind of soften him up. The thought that I cared enjoy to send a card even though we technically weren't speaking??? I dont know whether to meet him half way or wait and see if he keeps coming towards me. It seems every time we have an issue, he'll stop calling or communicating, a week or a few days will go by, I'll break down and write then he'll start back calling, like he's waiting on me.. I was wondering if he was too insecure to make the first move back in my direction and thats why he always comes back only after I have initiated contact. I'd think by now he should know I like him.. Or is it just ego/pride that he doesnt want to look like a punk for coming back first??
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One, I know that I put my friends before ALOT of things. I shouldn't sometimes, but still do.
I don't know what to say about the age difference between he and the group he leads.
It's creepy when older "people" seem to only hang out with those who are significantly younger than them. 20-18 isn't a big difference though. It seems like he plays more of the role of a brother than a preditor in this group he leads though, hahah. If he's as passionate about this organization as it seems to me, he probably gets A LOT of satifaction from it! (Duh)
-Mellow, that's what's funny. If he does something that bothers me, I tell him directly! "Hey, that hurts/makes me feel awful, could you stop that?" (much more detailed though) I HATE playing guessing games. If I'm upset with him. I tell him. When he's upset at me, I'm supposed to read his mind and figure why. But anyway, he'll just yes me to death.. and do it again. It hurts even more the next time he does it, because I've already told him FLAT OUT that it HURTS.
Here's an example.
I don't need or even really want to speak to him everyday.
But he would NEVER call. I'd be the one to have to do it, every three days or so.
It bothered me because it seemed like I was the one putting the effort into it.
And you sorta feel unwanted or like you're bothering the person when communications aren't, yeah, mutual.
It seems petty. But I don't know.
I told him a few times
"It hurts that you never call."
"I'm sorry blahblah, I'll start."
Four days.. I break and call.
"You STILL don't call."
"I'm sorry.. blahblah.."
I'll wait a week.
"WHAT THE F---."
"I didn't know it bothered you so much."
"But I've told you it did!"
I have no idea why he does that. Oh! After that last one he actually started calling.. now he calls too much.. which is every night.. I feel bad, because it's the summer (.. hell.. even during school) and I'm out every night until 4-5am at a party or throwing one.. So when he calls I'll tell him as much but he'll still chew my ear off for half an hour.. Normally after that I start passing the phone around to my friends.
I feel awful about it also because he was ALOT like me, in the fact we went out everynight, to a party or threw one. But he's moved so far away, that aspect of his life is completely different now and now he's home most nights.
I don't know what to say about the age difference between he and the group he leads.
It's creepy when older "people" seem to only hang out with those who are significantly younger than them. 20-18 isn't a big difference though. It seems like he plays more of the role of a brother than a preditor in this group he leads though, hahah. If he's as passionate about this organization as it seems to me, he probably gets A LOT of satifaction from it! (Duh)
-Mellow, that's what's funny. If he does something that bothers me, I tell him directly! "Hey, that hurts/makes me feel awful, could you stop that?" (much more detailed though) I HATE playing guessing games. If I'm upset with him. I tell him. When he's upset at me, I'm supposed to read his mind and figure why. But anyway, he'll just yes me to death.. and do it again. It hurts even more the next time he does it, because I've already told him FLAT OUT that it HURTS.
Here's an example.
I don't need or even really want to speak to him everyday.
But he would NEVER call. I'd be the one to have to do it, every three days or so.
It bothered me because it seemed like I was the one putting the effort into it.
And you sorta feel unwanted or like you're bothering the person when communications aren't, yeah, mutual.
It seems petty. But I don't know.
I told him a few times
"It hurts that you never call."
"I'm sorry blahblah, I'll start."
Four days.. I break and call.
"You STILL don't call."
"I'm sorry.. blahblah.."
I'll wait a week.
"WHAT THE F---."
"I didn't know it bothered you so much."
"But I've told you it did!"
I have no idea why he does that. Oh! After that last one he actually started calling.. now he calls too much.. which is every night.. I feel bad, because it's the summer (.. hell.. even during school) and I'm out every night until 4-5am at a party or throwing one.. So when he calls I'll tell him as much but he'll still chew my ear off for half an hour.. Normally after that I start passing the phone around to my friends.
I feel awful about it also because he was ALOT like me, in the fact we went out everynight, to a party or threw one. But he's moved so far away, that aspect of his life is completely different now and now he's home most nights.
Passion for what you do for a living, also awesome.
Just so long as it's something I can find interesting or respectable.
Example: I could admire a prosecutor.
I'd have more trouble admiring a coporate lawer.
Same profession.. But not.
Just so long as it's something I can find interesting or respectable.
Example: I could admire a prosecutor.
I'd have more trouble admiring a coporate lawer.
Same profession.. But not.
"Right!!!! "
Right.
Just another random riddle-what's the connection between the letter E and London?
"To answer yours : Cats and dogs?
"
No, give up?
Right.
Just another random riddle-what's the connection between the letter E and London?
"To answer yours : Cats and dogs?
"No, give up?
Correct.
I kind of hinted it at my last post.
I kind of hinted it at my last post.
HEEEEEY, who the f*ck let f*ckin "F*ck it" out??? That was the best part of my writing MORON (and also the beginning, whatever)!!!!
What do cows listen to?
Now, for a very hard one-Of which concept shared by Jungian psychology and Northrop Frye's literary theory are pirates especially fond?
Now, for a very hard one-Of which concept shared by Jungian psychology and Northrop Frye's literary theory are pirates especially fond?
.. Wow.. it sounds like something is really wrong with you.
If you "barely notice" when you go days without eating.. How did you keep track of two weeks without noticing? That seems more like a conscience choice than a "oh, it slipped my mind.. for fourteen days." Certainly you were around other people who were eating?
You should probably see a dietitian and make a conscience effort to eat if this problem is that severe. Because before you know it, you'll be loosing your hair and your organs will most definitely give out.
I'm not saying it's any better to stuff your face every five minutes either.
But personally, I'd rather not live like a holocaust victim.
If you "barely notice" when you go days without eating.. How did you keep track of two weeks without noticing? That seems more like a conscience choice than a "oh, it slipped my mind.. for fourteen days." Certainly you were around other people who were eating?
You should probably see a dietitian and make a conscience effort to eat if this problem is that severe. Because before you know it, you'll be loosing your hair and your organs will most definitely give out.
I'm not saying it's any better to stuff your face every five minutes either.
But personally, I'd rather not live like a holocaust victim.
ARRRchetype.
What's a pirate's favorite alliance-creating diplomatic agreement from the Second World War?(you people should know this one)
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Ambition
Substance
Humor
Height
Personality
Easy going...
to be continued
Substance
Humor
Height
Personality
Easy going...
to be continued
Once again...I dont have a big jaw area