How Virgos feel, bout the Scorpios and Cancers ???
Cancers and Virgos are good for 2 things:
1) Friendship - they will share a deep bond and hours of intellectually stimulating conversation. They are both loyal and general do-gooders in their own way. They will be there for each other
2) Marriage with kids - these are known to be two of the best parents in the zodiac. They do well in financial matters together and best of all they are good at staying together even when times are bad and they can't stand each other. They'll just lean on teh friendship as the bedroom collects dust (and cancer goes and finds someone else to meet that need....eventually virgo too). The family pictures will be beautiful though....the house immaculate (virgo will make sure), and the kids will be well-loved (cancer will make sure) and off to the best schools and produce many grandchildren in very functional homes. This will all be good for the children
Outside of that...it can be very difficult. Virgo will feel that cancer is too mushy and needy and cancer will feel that virgo is cold, tactless, and frigid. From their own perspectives, they will both be right.
Virgo should find a capricorn or taurus and cancer should find a scorpio, pisces, or taurus.....that way neither would have to fake being happy.
1) Friendship - they will share a deep bond and hours of intellectually stimulating conversation. They are both loyal and general do-gooders in their own way. They will be there for each other
2) Marriage with kids - these are known to be two of the best parents in the zodiac. They do well in financial matters together and best of all they are good at staying together even when times are bad and they can't stand each other. They'll just lean on teh friendship as the bedroom collects dust (and cancer goes and finds someone else to meet that need....eventually virgo too). The family pictures will be beautiful though....the house immaculate (virgo will make sure), and the kids will be well-loved (cancer will make sure) and off to the best schools and produce many grandchildren in very functional homes. This will all be good for the children
Outside of that...it can be very difficult. Virgo will feel that cancer is too mushy and needy and cancer will feel that virgo is cold, tactless, and frigid. From their own perspectives, they will both be right.
Virgo should find a capricorn or taurus and cancer should find a scorpio, pisces, or taurus.....that way neither would have to fake being happy.
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after we hung up...
i texted her once and said that i didn't feel very well after that conversation we had, BUT that i wished her well on her trip (she was taking a trip to see her college buddies for the weekend) and i said at the end "sleep well"...because obviously i care about her...enough to have mixed feeling like that...
i think she had a long day, so she was in a pissy mood and when she's tired...nothing matters at that point...
and she's awesome and i love her...
but sometimes i feel like she discounts all the good intentions i have to make things work between us now...after the break up we had.
i really think we can come stronger than ever...and i have offered her options, have opened up about my care for her (which is very hard for a virgo as you know), i have left gifts for her at her door...and have talked to her everytime she calls...
and yeah she calls....but all she does for us....a call...
and i know she's busy, and i know she's tired, and i know for some reason she has to apply most of her time to do things with her friends when she's free now (it didn't use to be always like this)...but the question is...where are we heading now?
sometimes i feel like it could be a temporal thing aquas go through in relationships...to detach....but honestly, i feel like i'm getting tired and i'm running out of hope for us.
after we hung up that night. i really felt like i didn't wanna talk to her for a while...
she has called twice or three times ever since....so maybe your aqua guy may come around too...and call you a day before your b-day or so...
the problem is...i still don't know what she wants.
i have told her what i would like, she knows...and she knows i don't want to be a friend right now...but she still calls...
and my fear is...what if she's only calling bc she doesn't want to have another bad break up with someone (2 of her exes don't talk to her to this day) or what if she just calls bc she wants to be liked....or because she wants to become friends...
why, if she really wants to be with me too, she wouldn't try harder? or is she...is this as hard as she can work?
i dont know.
so i haven't answered any of her call all weekend. i know she will stop calling and i'm sure she's not happy...but i need to some time too (God knows how many times SHE took and how patient i've been) to think what i need as well...
i love this woman, but can she learn to compromise a little...does she really want this?
i texted her once and said that i didn't feel very well after that conversation we had, BUT that i wished her well on her trip (she was taking a trip to see her college buddies for the weekend) and i said at the end "sleep well"...because obviously i care about her...enough to have mixed feeling like that...
i think she had a long day, so she was in a pissy mood and when she's tired...nothing matters at that point...
and she's awesome and i love her...
but sometimes i feel like she discounts all the good intentions i have to make things work between us now...after the break up we had.
i really think we can come stronger than ever...and i have offered her options, have opened up about my care for her (which is very hard for a virgo as you know), i have left gifts for her at her door...and have talked to her everytime she calls...
and yeah she calls....but all she does for us....a call...
and i know she's busy, and i know she's tired, and i know for some reason she has to apply most of her time to do things with her friends when she's free now (it didn't use to be always like this)...but the question is...where are we heading now?
sometimes i feel like it could be a temporal thing aquas go through in relationships...to detach....but honestly, i feel like i'm getting tired and i'm running out of hope for us.
after we hung up that night. i really felt like i didn't wanna talk to her for a while...
she has called twice or three times ever since....so maybe your aqua guy may come around too...and call you a day before your b-day or so...
the problem is...i still don't know what she wants.
i have told her what i would like, she knows...and she knows i don't want to be a friend right now...but she still calls...
and my fear is...what if she's only calling bc she doesn't want to have another bad break up with someone (2 of her exes don't talk to her to this day) or what if she just calls bc she wants to be liked....or because she wants to become friends...
why, if she really wants to be with me too, she wouldn't try harder? or is she...is this as hard as she can work?
i dont know.
so i haven't answered any of her call all weekend. i know she will stop calling and i'm sure she's not happy...but i need to some time too (God knows how many times SHE took and how patient i've been) to think what i need as well...
i love this woman, but can she learn to compromise a little...does she really want this?
Good morning....what turns a pisces male on? Anyone got any ideas that can help me attract a pisces male who has caught my eye?
Appreciate any advice I receive.
Appreciate any advice I receive.
I'm a scorpio woman and I know that if I ever get to the point where I am arguing and name calling with someone, it is pretty much over for me. Time and the sincerest of apologies is the only thing that will bring you out of this one. Don't push the issue, but IF you get an opportunity, use your time to let him know that you regret all of the nasty things you said. Then try to get him started talking to you. Tell him you realize that the relationship is probably over, but it would mean a great deal to you if he would forgive you. Be soft and tender, but maintain strength and dignity. He wants to be forgiving, but he can not loose face while doing so. Good luck.
No, but the way i see it, teenage girls with a boyfriend that sleeps around like to tell themselves they are special. So he's just "having sex" with the others, but he's "making love" to me. One of many possible explanations.
No Aquarius men for me. It didn't take me long to get the hint of my Aqua Ex-Lover. I was trying to keep it light but show i was a good friend all along. I overwhelmed him with my kindness he couldn't handle that and still proceeded to act like a jack ass so I dropped him like the asshole he is. I don't have time for games. Let the kids play them.
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and ultimately...
do "i" want this and need this?
...
so ginzette as much as you love your aqua guy...think about what makes YOU happy too...and what do YOU need to.
because ultimately, even if our aquas come back and say "oooookay, whatever, let's get back together"...and we do...are things going to change? are you willing to keep on dealing with the same old thing? and if not, what can he/she give to make this time work better? what can he/she not?
sometimes, i feel like we, virgos, don't like giving up something...because we are so stubborn too...but we need to stop and think about what matters to us too...we get so trapped and confused with the people we love or care for...and try so hard to make it work...but truly...love should be something two people work on...is a growing experience to get us somewhere with somebody who is willing to walk with us...don't you think?
maybe things will work with your aqua...maybe things won't...but right now, since you can't control what his thinking or doing...worry about YOU and your needs and your wants...and then things may make more sense...
take the time YOU also need to figure out things...take advantage of the freedom YOU also have right now to make a choice
don't let one choose for you...you are the only one who can take care of your heart and make choices for it....
i'll be here if you need encouragement. i'll let you know how things go for me too...
much peace and joy!
VLL
do "i" want this and need this?
...
so ginzette as much as you love your aqua guy...think about what makes YOU happy too...and what do YOU need to.
because ultimately, even if our aquas come back and say "oooookay, whatever, let's get back together"...and we do...are things going to change? are you willing to keep on dealing with the same old thing? and if not, what can he/she give to make this time work better? what can he/she not?
sometimes, i feel like we, virgos, don't like giving up something...because we are so stubborn too...but we need to stop and think about what matters to us too...we get so trapped and confused with the people we love or care for...and try so hard to make it work...but truly...love should be something two people work on...is a growing experience to get us somewhere with somebody who is willing to walk with us...don't you think?
maybe things will work with your aqua...maybe things won't...but right now, since you can't control what his thinking or doing...worry about YOU and your needs and your wants...and then things may make more sense...
take the time YOU also need to figure out things...take advantage of the freedom YOU also have right now to make a choice
don't let one choose for you...you are the only one who can take care of your heart and make choices for it....i'll be here if you need encouragement. i'll let you know how things go for me too...
much peace and joy!
VLL
I thot u loved me SL!!!! 
Changing your sun sign.
Ok girls, I'll summon up all my courage and will talk to him. This is delicate because we left it (before I traveled in July) as friends and I?m not sure how to approach him without sounding out of place, arg? Well, at least it?ll clear up things, and I?ll know where he stands. Any suggestions on how to approach him?
FC,
Did you ask her outright why the resistance? If you're astride a guy then I would think this would be an "open key" policy no? May be she's wants you to be more forceful?
Did you ask her outright why the resistance? If you're astride a guy then I would think this would be an "open key" policy no? May be she's wants you to be more forceful?