I don't really care to be married but I do want children. I'd rather ''just be'' with my partner.
Aries Sun/Sag Moon.
Aries Sun/Sag Moon.
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Posted by wateryramPosted by kitkatleenPosted by wateryram
Yes! You are both right. My reaction was to run and move on when I realized things weren't moving at a pace I was familiar with AND he wasn't communicating his feelings. I'm not sure if that hiccup will make or break us but I think we need to talk more about what we want. I'm very up front about my feelings but he only really opens up when I get so frustrated that I want to walk away.
Yes virgo drives us crazy. I knew exactly that i HAVE to run because i am not happy with the pace but i was stuck... Virgo can be so bad at communicating feelings and they are very secretive. I feel like there is no right or wrong but it depends on what we want. If you want more and he's this way, it wouldn't work out as it might cause resentment in you. I am very upfront about my feelings and confessed my feelings to him. I think they do appreciate but they don't express it at all and it also frustrate me to the point of leaving. But like what you said, he's been really active with his communication by talking to you daily. They show love in a different way and if you feel like you can't handle it, i think it;s time to talk to him.
I know what are your worries and we aries can be really impulsive at times. But again they say virgo is the one of the most faithful sign and they will be worth it in the end... if you can tolerate their shits haha!
Interestingly enough, he told me about not wanting to settle down and be serious unprompted. I thought he was just calling to say goodnight. He said he still wants to see me but he's afraid that if someone else wants his attention, he'll give it to them. That's enough for me to be walk away feeling ok about things.click to expand
Omg that is just plain bullshit. "He's afraid if someone else wants his attention.he'll give it to them". I'll be soooooo furious and go off on this guy. Haha and you can walk away feeling ok. I'm not a bunny boiler but i will definitely give him a good scolding and then say good bye. But i guess sometimes aries can be soft hearted too.. I tend to forget my anger in a few minutes. You deserve so much more girl, 9 months is way too long not to commit. My advice is to follow your heart.
Posted by hellome
Hello ladies and gents,
I have had a short term flirtation with a guy who is a Virgo with Scorpio rising. During a conversation I suggested that it'd be better to meet face to face more, and he somehow thought (and told me) felt that as if he wasn't enough for me. I tried talking to him twice and he responds back, but he doesn't do anything to keep conversation going or he is not initiating any conversation. However, at the same time he keep clicking on the "Going" button for most of the events I state attending. In most of these event we see each other, but we pretend we haven't and we don't talk. Just two days ago I was at a small conference, and he happened to be there. He tried to stay in my field of view, and checked me out many times, but still no move.
In addition, we have many mutual friends, and he doesn't come to any of those small dinner/house parties even though they are his friends, too. Plus, couple of my friends caught him stalking me on Facebook. He is confusing...
PS. Btw, I am a cancer with gemini rising.
Cheers.
I also have scorpio rising and my best advice it to approach him and initiate conversation. If you are really interested in him, find out what he likes or is passionate about. I assure you he will have no issues carrying on a conversation about his interests, especially if you can find a common ground. Try not to be critical of him or things he enjoys, we are very quiet and reserved but will attack with sarcasm if we are offended and we are very sensitive. The "stalking" behavior is him "admiring you from a far", he just does not have the confidence to approach you
Posted by GreyWizPosted by CompactDisk
haiiiz, I'm new here o/
*insert joyful noises here*
stop. back up.
walk out and try again.
no squealing and pmsing.
i have faith in you.click to expand
Frrrak Duncan broke picture scirpts!!!
Anywayyyyysss-- YOU Shall NOT Pass
http://imgur.com/voSUUwH
I have met what seems like one of the most wonderful men, and he calls me all these endearing words (which I love). He seems to be so attentive, but he's in Afghanistan, and he'll be returning in three months for good. We have never met face to face but have been exchanging emails for months now, and he's so handsome built like a brick house.
I have problems with trust and now that I've read so much about Sagittarius men, I'm not sure I'd be able to trust him.
Realizing before anyone writes the trust issue is my problem I realize this ok, it's why I'm seeing a therapist. I am currently in a semi-relationship with someone who's a lot older than I am, and I wanted to get married two years ago when gay marriage was made legal. The person here that I'm in this semi-relationship with promised if the supreme court handed down a ruling allowing gay marriage we could get married. Now, he's like what will people think (he's a cancer) and I don't care what people would think.
Long story short the cancer worries constantly about what people think, and I could care less. I'm not a bad person, and I have great manners etc. but as far as being gay if someone has a problem with it. Well, it's exactly what I wrote " if someone has a problem with it" he/she is the one with the problem not me.
Anyway, I've told the cancer that I was trying to meet someone else, and he says he can't blame me, but we own a lot of investments together + a business.
Realizing it seems like I'm already getting ready to walk down the aisle with the Sagittarius, I'm just nervous. How am I going to handle meeting him and what if he does care for me like he writes in his emails.
I read Sagittarius men don't give up easily, and neither do cancers so here I sit in a Delima of my own doing.
However, I really am interested in the Sagittarius man because he talks to me like I love for a man to talk to me, and he always makes a point to ask how I am in every email.
He says when he returns from Afghanistan I'll have no worries of anyone looking after me because he'll protect me. Well, I am a man and don't really need someone to fight my battles, but it sure feels good to hear someone say they'd help.
The cancer has 'NEVER' taken my side on any issue in the fifteen years we've been together...he'll always ask "are you sure it's exactly the way you see it." People need to feel loved not liked, and a partner/husband/wife are supposed to take your side. It's something I grew up with my dad always took the side of my mom and me. It didn't matter to him how wrong I might be about something he'd still stand up for me. Dad is a Leo though, and they do tend to be quite protective of people they love.
I'm just wondering if a relationship between a Scorpio and Sagittarius will work in the first place, and how will we deal with our differences. Scorpios are very private and Sagittarius men are very open.
I guess I'm asking several questions or at least someone's opinion. Thanks
I have problems with trust and now that I've read so much about Sagittarius men, I'm not sure I'd be able to trust him.
Realizing before anyone writes the trust issue is my problem I realize this ok, it's why I'm seeing a therapist. I am currently in a semi-relationship with someone who's a lot older than I am, and I wanted to get married two years ago when gay marriage was made legal. The person here that I'm in this semi-relationship with promised if the supreme court handed down a ruling allowing gay marriage we could get married. Now, he's like what will people think (he's a cancer) and I don't care what people would think.
Long story short the cancer worries constantly about what people think, and I could care less. I'm not a bad person, and I have great manners etc. but as far as being gay if someone has a problem with it. Well, it's exactly what I wrote " if someone has a problem with it" he/she is the one with the problem not me.
Anyway, I've told the cancer that I was trying to meet someone else, and he says he can't blame me, but we own a lot of investments together + a business.
Realizing it seems like I'm already getting ready to walk down the aisle with the Sagittarius, I'm just nervous. How am I going to handle meeting him and what if he does care for me like he writes in his emails.
I read Sagittarius men don't give up easily, and neither do cancers so here I sit in a Delima of my own doing.
However, I really am interested in the Sagittarius man because he talks to me like I love for a man to talk to me, and he always makes a point to ask how I am in every email.
He says when he returns from Afghanistan I'll have no worries of anyone looking after me because he'll protect me. Well, I am a man and don't really need someone to fight my battles, but it sure feels good to hear someone say they'd help.
The cancer has 'NEVER' taken my side on any issue in the fifteen years we've been together...he'll always ask "are you sure it's exactly the way you see it." People need to feel loved not liked, and a partner/husband/wife are supposed to take your side. It's something I grew up with my dad always took the side of my mom and me. It didn't matter to him how wrong I might be about something he'd still stand up for me. Dad is a Leo though, and they do tend to be quite protective of people they love.
I'm just wondering if a relationship between a Scorpio and Sagittarius will work in the first place, and how will we deal with our differences. Scorpios are very private and Sagittarius men are very open.
I guess I'm asking several questions or at least someone's opinion. Thanks
Posted by GreyWiz
justagirl? what happened? my notification said you were scared and hid your quote
Scared of a big pusscat leo? pppfffffft naw
Thank you kitkatleen. I completely agree. I just don't have the energy to argue. I'd rather move on to happiness.
@watergem this October we will be 10 months. engaged for like 4 months and no sex from both our side. I can't hate him I'm actually more in love with him for being honest and transparent. I feel like I'm his best friend as he never opens up but with me he gets deep. He's still scared right now because he expected an I knew it attitude but I just gave him a thank you for being honest with me. I told him we need to know each other maybe we don't want to be married. We just want each other in one's life because we get along so well.
Our placements mine / his:
Sun: Scorpio / Gemini
Moon:Aquarius / Virgo
Venus: Libra / Leo
Our placements mine / his:
Sun: Scorpio / Gemini
Moon:Aquarius / Virgo
Venus: Libra / Leo
@undine now I know. anything can happen.
@Mega yep always go with the gut. I will never ever disregard it again.
lesson learnt
@Mega yep always go with the gut. I will never ever disregard it again.
lesson learnt
Posted by fullwaterpisces
M smells like emotional manipulation!!! don't let him go away with it... if he accomplish his goal he will use it every time it becomes handy... (this is not a cancer specific trait, lot of people regardless their sign does it all the time)
Yes. His behavior is not acceptable. He disrespected me and he failed.
Scorpio in general prioritize *Respect* more than love.
I can give compassion to a beggar by giving them a spare of what I've earned and respect them. How much more a lover.
When we love someone we give respect.. Respect shows love.
Love without respect is impossible.