Gemini Ex BF and I had a huge fight - He made a mountain out of a molehill
At first I was thinking ...... what fucking dickhead.
And when you said "he doesn't want to deal with me anymore because he finds me threatening. He thinks every time I raise something to him, he considers it as a threat." ..... you had your viewing audience believing that he was acting guilty.
Until you let this paramount information slip ....
Posted by fkpkr
I don't just get mad, I get even. No I don't get even I can do something worse. His family never knew about the fact that he went to travel with just one girl and it will be chaos if they found out. I know because he reacted by saying "don't you dare even involve my family here". Wrong answer, now I know what to do.
Then everything become crystal clear.
You do try and intimidate him, the situation ..... and how he is treating you, is how you taught him to treat you, by threats, just as he stated.
Considering the term of the relationship, and that you haven't earned respect and trust .... and you're still there, playing along in this game .. only to go whining about it to a forum of random people - shows you have no intentions of actually developing an honest relationship, rather you just want to be validated for being a fuck up.
It is his bad that he most likely cheated on you .... but, the Universe comes calling on people. It's just a matter of when/how.
Instead of picking of the pieces and moving away from this ..... you choose to be vindictive, and so continue in the game.
And that's your bad ... own it !!!