how do you stop?
LisforLeo & cancer12 - i don't envy you coz sounds like you're both in a lot of pain. at least you can relate to each other and help one another through this (i guess that's what people come on here for to begin with, to share similar experiences and commiserate).
"...i want his happiness more than anything. And he has true things in his life that make him happy, and although i hate admitting this to myself..she makes him happy too."
Lis, if you truly love this man, and he is happy with her, then you need to let him go. be happy for him and wish him well. that's the best thing that you can do, for yourself and for him. move on and try to find your own happiness. i know it's not easy to move on, but if he is truly meant to be with you, he will find his way to you eventually.
good luck to you both - i hope you both find true happiness
"...i want his happiness more than anything. And he has true things in his life that make him happy, and although i hate admitting this to myself..she makes him happy too."
Lis, if you truly love this man, and he is happy with her, then you need to let him go. be happy for him and wish him well. that's the best thing that you can do, for yourself and for him. move on and try to find your own happiness. i know it's not easy to move on, but if he is truly meant to be with you, he will find his way to you eventually.
good luck to you both - i hope you both find true happiness