Cap Men?
Everyone I know is so beat around the bush! Don't mean this in a bad way but they never like talk about sex, i've noticed lol. It's like they will physically show me they might want it but don't really bring it up as topic of discussion and their flirting style is very ever so often and it's just like a wink face. LOL why?
All other signs of men I see do this. Not them lol.
All other signs of men I see do this. Not them lol.
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Posted by TaureanGoddess
This is what I'm struggling with right now... I've been dating a very earthy Gem for about a year now, lots of the time she's totally into me and wanting to hang out, smothering me with kisses, saying she feels intense emotions for me (which I had no idea because she rarely communicates things like that). But then it's literally like a switch flips, with no warning or anything, and like OP says, she's distant, aloof, and responding out of obligation instead of with passion. I reach out and her responses are so cold and indifferent it hurts. I'm totally fine with giving her space, but the way she just suddenly and randomly shuts off is so hard for me to understand. I don't know what to do.
What are her placements? I am a Gem with some Earth placements and I am very affectionate/loving/expressive until I start to feel like I'm being too vulnerable and it isn't reciprocated...normally I will vocalize this, and if nothing is done to calm my spirit, I will usually pull back, become aloof/cold/unresponsive. At this point, ideally my partner would be giving me lots of reassurance, even if they aren't getting much softness out of me in return, just persevere and I will be back in your arms in no time with a more profound sense of purpose in the relationship.
Posted by gemguyaz34Posted by aj123Posted by littlemegabyte
I'm not a gem male, but I am a gem female with sun, mercury, venus and jupiter gemalso dating a gem man as well! What are his other placements? Because mine has moon scorpio and cancer venus, so he is clingy and emotional (even though he denies it lol, so cute). We haven't gone a single day without talking... ever. I really and truly believe that if a gem guy genuinely likes you, it would be totally clear and you wouldn't have to ask or wonder. Gems play games but not with the ones they really like/love. These guys like to impress, there will be gifts AND ACTION behind their words. Not just empty words. Empty words are for gems who are playing games.
I was also in a serious relationship (5 years) with a gem sun/cancer moon and he was loving too.
This is just my own experience with my 2 gems, but neither have needed or wanted space from me. Maybe this was because of their heavy water placements.
I am an earthy gem, so I VERY MUCH need space a lot. This doesn't bode well with my water gems. Well... the cancer moon understood, but don't even try to get space with this scorp moon 😩😩😩
Let us know his other placements!
Thank you for your helpful reply - I wasn't referring to 1 specific person in particular but more about many gemini people I've met - all have had this hot-cold trait.. literally go from fire-hot to ice cold, without any apparent reason - no arguments, no problems, nothing... so feel like their words can never be trusted as even if you behave as "perfectly" as possible e.g. listen to what they have to say, ask thought provoking questions, contribute discussion, etc. they can still switch.
Thanks also to everyone else's useful answers - I look forward to more contributions from others too
This happened to me with a Libra I was with. The hot and then the cold. Not being able to express feelings openly. They didn't like confrontation. Coincidentally, they had a Scorpio moon. It's like no matter how much I told them I loved them and was there for them, in the end it was never good enough. People who play these games, regardless of placements, tend to have a hard time in being honest with themselves about what they really want or they make it impossible for you to be "THAT" person.click to expand
WOAHHHH what you said is so true, you just described me to a T.
I'm glad this topic just came about. My cap friend just open up to me about somethings today!!! I was amaze. Lack of communication has been a major problem and today I see I played a major part in why he's been holding things in. I felt very bad because I always thought he was just being mean and distant. I called him out today on why he do some of the things he do and I was shock at his response.
Posted by aj123Posted by littlemegabyte
I'm not a gem male, but I am a gem female with sun, mercury, venus and jupiter gem
I was also in a serious relationship (5 years) with a gem sun/cancer moon and he was loving too.
This is just my own experience with my 2 gems, but neither have needed or wanted space from me. Maybe this was because of their heavy water placements.
I am an earthy gem, so I VERY MUCH need space a lot. This doesn't bode well with my water gems. Well... the cancer moon understood, but don't even try to get space with this scorp moon 😩😩😩
Let us know his other placements!
Thank you for your helpful reply - I wasn't referring to 1 specific person in particular but more about many gemini people I've met - all have had this hot-cold trait.. literally go from fire-hot to ice cold, without any apparent reason - no arguments, no problems, nothing... so feel like their words can never be trusted as even if you behave as "perfectly" as possible e.g. listen to what they have to say, ask thought provoking questions, contribute discussion, etc. they can still switch.
Thanks also to everyone else's useful answers - I look forward to more contributions from others tooclick to expand
We often get swept up in a moment. I can have the most intense connection with someone one night...very involved conversation, sexual tension, intense eye contact, wanting to know everything about them, making them feel like they are the only person in the room...sometimes the planet, and guess what? I MEAN IT. I really, really mean it and feel it and everything I say is true. Unfortunately, the next day, I may just not feel the same way. Run into me again a week later, and I may rejoice and want to pick up right where we left things, I may want to start a steamy affair, I may tell you you're the most interesting person I've ever met and I feel like I've known you for years...and I'll mean that too, and then I wake up the next day...rinse, repeat.
Posted by HeartPosted by busyeyes88
Can you believe it!!
Any guy that is attracted to me turns out to be a damn sag sun!! Jeez!! That's number 6 now!!!
Although the taurus has a sag moon and two other placements in sag, I can cope with that!!!
But sag sun... Jeez! Where is my cross..... Oh here it!!! "Satan be gone"!! Lol lol
Just venting peeps!!
Is your Mars in a Fire sign?
Beyonce is a Virgo Sun and Jay Z a Sagittarius Sun. Usually the Virgo will think the Sagittarius is too unpredictable, while the Sag will find the Virgo, or any Earth sign, boring. However, she has Mars in Leo (Hot) which means she likes firemen very much, while his Venus is in Scorpio, and that meshes well with Beyonce having her Moon (the sign of emotions) in Scorpio.
Usually in compatibility it's great to compare a person's Sun to the other person's Mars, or Mars-to-Venus, or Venus-to-Moon.click to expand
this.
same with my sag sister with her virgo man.
they 'get" eachother and it's harmonious.
Posted by starloverPosted by MindControl
True.. Mars in Libra comes off as passive.
Take forever to make their minds up.....click to expand
Yep, and imagine it on a Scorpio dominant man. I've recently come to find out a very toxic Scorp friend of mine with a Leeb mars has been dating someone for two years and he's constantly messaging me and trying to pursue me. He has this poor girl thinking they're together, and that he's loyal. So messed up. As soon as I found out, I blocked him. Cut all ties.
I wasn't even responding to his advances, but clearly Libra Mars isn't a decisive one, nor a faithful one. It's a shame on such a Plutonian man.
When in doubt: He wants to smex you, at the least.
Posted by hollyhock
OP, why don't you like mars in libra?
I'm not a fan of it on men. The Libra Mars men I've met aren't trustworthy. They lie a lot to get what they want and manipulate women. I just shared an example in my last post.
Sounds like a true gem to me i dated one give them love reassurance b patient they will comr back around. Its that 2 ppl in them jackyl hyde