Screwed Royally ..Culprit Cap Man
Posted by wagtailPosted by FitzyBabe
wagtail: U most definitely have "CONTROL" over a Cap when u stop giving a FUCK about them and start taking "CONTROL BACK" of ur own life ......
I applaud you taking back control of your own life...
But I think we have a slightly different definition of the word CONTROL in this particular context.
There is never and will never be control over another human being in this Universe - the laws of Free Will dictate that, regardless of our personal motivations.
I mean, the last time someone tried that shit the Death Star got blown up.
Sorry, controlling a Cap man or any man or woman with sex or deceit, any form of emotional manipulation or passive aggressive behaviour - is all on the individual practising these petty acts and a mere reflection of your own inner being.
And so, by disconnecting from this farcical relationship- yes you have taken back control.
Congratulations.
I still stand by what I said, and good luck going forward in your romantic endeavours, I do indeed hope you find what you deserve...click to expand
Wagtail : Going by your definition of "CONTROL" with sex,deceit or emotional manipulation...Cap men are perpetrators of such "PETTY" acts since they are always in need of control and involve in kiddish push and pull tactics so definitely its a mirror reflection of "Their Inner Selves"
You have every right to your opinion...and Rest Assured I will get what I desire out of life..
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I feel like a bully to say it.. but Sag bubbly optimism is hardly tolerable, at best. I don't hate it exactly.. but the "click" often does not occur for me.
The longer you stay in contact with him, the longer you'll keep hurting.
Just sayin'
Just sayin'
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Posted by RainDancerPosted by rockyroadicecream
Selfish? You sound whorish, tbh.
The very FIRST thing that comes to mind after you say he can stay is "oh man what if I want to bring my hook up of the night over and fuck on the couch? He's cramping my style."
Seriously? This shouldn't be your main concern. It should be "gawd, I hope he's not a slob and overstays his welcome."
Typical Sag, thinking illogically with their nether bits. *sigh*
Thanks roxky. This is what I needed to read. You're right gdamnit.
This is what I want to fix. Why do I feel so selfish?click to expand
Because your vagina is selfish. Crotch vs brain is always a big struggle.
I get you though. I like sex a lot too where I'd think along the same lines, but considering the situation, you'll survive, dear.
He's family and needs a place to stay. You offered, which is what family does and that's great. No, it wasn't cool he's all "btw it's for like a month or two..." ...dafuq is wrong with you? If that's the case, here are the rules. Don't like it, gtfo. Be gone by 2nd month please, kthx. I have a life as well.
But the fact that this JUST occurred and you're already throwing a tizzy fit over your own vaginal needs is just gross dear. Simmer down.
Get pissy when he's been there a month and turns into a troll.
Btw, I can totally relate when my brother invites his girlfriend over. Her coming over usually results in an overnight stay because their time management is fucking retarded, or turns into a weekend stay because they're both inconsiderate assholes. I've made it clear each time he does this he needs to check with me. I'm not anti people staying over, but I am anti violating my space beyond what was originally agreed upon, especially since his gf is a total mooch. But my brother's an inconsiderate, self absorbed person so it's not surprising. ...his gf isn't any better. I cringe when she stays over. She ate all the leftover Halloween candy this weekend and he just let her.
Don't fuck with my candy, dammit, freaking mooch. :/
Hell watch them both at the same time even. Fuck it.
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money can free you to a certain degree. greed however guarantees unhappiness. for me, love is way more important than money.
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Posted by RainDancerPosted by rockyroadicecream
Selfish? You sound whorish, tbh.
The very FIRST thing that comes to mind after you say he can stay is "oh man what if I want to bring my hook up of the night over and fuck on the couch? He's cramping my style."
Seriously? This shouldn't be your main concern. It should be "gawd, I hope he's not a slob and overstays his welcome."
Typical Sag, thinking illogically with their nether bits. *sigh*
Wait.not whorish.
I have a deep bond with aa male whom I want to have over without my older, special forces 6foot 4'' brother watching our every move. Ya know? O want o cuddle and make sweet dinners, it can work with him here but I don't want to put my brother in an akward spot and I don't want to make the guy feel uncomfortable when all along, its me with these subconscious feelings I project on everyone else.
I don't even havesex. But I like intimacy in the raw.click to expand
You clearly do not understand what "Netflix and chill" means then haha.
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First of all stop lying to yourself, you still want him in spite of his "truth", otherwise you wouldn't remain in contact with him.