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Jun 27, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 394 · Topics: 18
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A young, urban, hetersexual male with liberal political views, an interest in fashion, and a refined sense of taste.
My vote - scorpios, scorpios, scorpios, scorpios
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Jul 11, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 801 · Topics: 43
truth is i'm not a hater.. life has changed so much in the past few years .. we used to be able to walk to the park, it's about a quarter mile from here.. but now i won't go to the parks alone, nor will i let my daughter walk to the park alone. why? because there are lots of illegals hanging about.. we've seen an increase in crime, and it's just so different now.. small thing to some, but that's part of the reality here.
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May 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2604 · Topics: 117
Librans love people. but dont "fall in love" so easily. Truth is that we are afraid to pick a wrong person and end up hurting our sensitive emotional balance. We spend days, months sometimes years in weighing up and down and slowly we will be in love. Also we stay kinda detached during the weighing process but still behaves in the same old way. Infact you havent yet met the real libran yet. We talk a lot but wont allow anyone to get the accurate picture of our true self or intentions till we learn that you can be trusted and loved.
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Feb 15, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 9826 · Topics: 354
A man who does his nails and paints is fag for me.
"What you consider a show of strength-a lot of people consider a show of weakness, a weakness they will exploit."
true, yet this is also why i think many are not "evolved enough" to understand this concept. as you put it, it can only be exploited if it is indeed a weakness. but if it truly wasn't, it can't be exploited no matter what, the other person will fail every time they try to exploit you of your supposed weakness. and if it does come off as a weakness on your part at first, eventually the truth will come out, because your strength of character will prevail. do you not agree? scorpios are equipped with an unusual amount of endurance, and no matter how many obstacles they've been through, no matter how weathered and beaten down they become, they are still the last ones standing (or anyone for that matter).
"A lot of times it's more than humiliation, sure maybe it's a humiliation today, tomorrow it'll be a punch, and the day after that it'll be a stab."
as i mentioned already, try as they might, but they will only fail if you are indeed of a stronger nature. and if they forever continue this course of action, then the only thing i have left to say is that the attacker is not too bright, he would have to change his style if he wants to win, and that would mean to become something better and stronger than you.
"Fear is a form of respect, as people respect your ability to cause them harm."
i disagree with you here. i feel that respect and admiration can be intertwined, not fear and respect. having respect for someone means you look up to that person, you admire them and aspire to be like them. fear means that you are afraid of them, you don't look up to them nor do you aspire to be like them in any way. using your sentence above as an example, why would you want to be like someone who is great at causing you harm? even if it isn't physical harm, why would you want to be like someone who is good at ridiculing and degrading you?
now of course, you can also respect someone and hate them, these two verbs are not synonymous. you can hate a person, yet still respect them for a certain trait. what i mean is, have you ever hated someone, but you can still say at least one good thing about them? "i hate him for being such a jerk, but i respect him for his honesty." so you're going to work on being more honest, but in a more tactful way. don't get me wrong, i'm not trying to say that the one good thing you say about your nemesis means that you respect that part of them, like "i hate him but at least he's nice to his family and friends," anyone can be like this, we're nice to those we care for. i'm just trying to explain my view on how i can have respect for someone (as in one of their redeeming traits) yet still despise their other shortcomings.
""...but you have also proven to yourself (and hopefully your opponent) that you are above their level, and this is what makes a person evolved."
If it doesn't have anything to do with morals, than I really don't understand this-the only permanent merit I can see in this course of action is a moral one, to some people at least."
sure, this sentence of mine has to do with morals, if this is what helps you understand what i'm trying to say. but morals are also part of your entire make-up, your character. as i've mentioned before, the story behind your sign has more to it than just depicting the scorpion nature on just morals as you questioned about it earlier.
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Feb 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 200 · Topics: 22
After being here over a year, I just go by topics or who is familiar to me. and when I am reallllly bored..I go to all and read..lol..
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