hey.. i've only known three scorp guys(two of them, briefly).. and from wht i've seen all of them seem to have an intense depthness about thm.. but only one of them have managed to take me down to tht level of theirs.. i've met him online.. and we seem to have gotten along pretty well conversational-wise.. and thn after weeks of knowing each other properly.. he started to explain me of his life (in-depth u cud say).. he took me to the point where I couldnt come to understand where he was comin from at all ..
I wish I cud've understood where hes coming from n the pain he has to deal with in life.. he TRIED to make me understand.. like he needed the right answer / advice from me and no matter how much advice i've given him.. hes already dealt with thm.. so its like I cant help him out..
I guess .. if to put it astrologically, scorp guys or maybe even girls, try to in a way, before really wanting to settle down with someone ..or develope a really close bond with someone.. they need to test the person their with and whether or not they can deal with their 'depthness' that was born into thm.. like if the 'other' person cud accept thm 'all' for wht they really are... esp. the ones close to them.. or in my case, we were on tht level of becoming close
'hurting someone u love', and even more '"like" hurting someone u love' cud be a way of saying tht 'im just trying to see how far they can handle me'...
The guy might have enjoyed testing the girl tht he loves n becuz of it loves her more if she was able to keep up with him.. and n still .wants. to be with him.. n its not a bad idea if u want to be all tht u can be with the person u love.. thts wht I really admire about a person, it takes courage i think to do somethn like tht. Not everybody has the guts to go all the way.. It shows tht they are real in doin wht they do.. or wht they want out of a rela. n tht is 'realness'
and i just read 'lisforleo's' comment lol.. I totally agree with tht.. and I guess u can also take my side of the story of dealin with a scorp guy as a compilation tht.. wht their doing isnt really tht hurtful as it seems.. but depending on wht kind of 'hurt' they are imposing on the other person .. it shudnt be too massive to the point where the girl is about to die-out.. if this happens.. thn he shud know .. tht maybe their not 'meant-to-be'.. but unless hes still going on with it while shes dying there.. thn someone shud tell him to stop! lol
Gemini's and scorps have fun with one another, I think making a rivalry of any astrological sign with another is redundant. We all have something to learn from one another, gemini's are the most lightened individuals I know> next to saggi's of course, I love them! They're all kinds of playful and fun!
Ah well, maybe it's the stigma of scorp that people see us as the fighters or whatever... Consult the aries board, they are always up for a fight. We're more the live, and don't annoy me, type. We don't need to go looking for it, we're contriversial enough for it to find us- well that's with the exception of one scorp I know on this board. Other than that, we strive for what we want, we're generally blunt, most often misunderstood- but we won't tell you if you don't know. Oh yeah, and we shouldn't be messed with negatively, we don't like it, and we react in a way that will teach a lesson to those that mess with us. But it's almost always on the defensive, I know I personally don't like negative confrontation. I don't back down from a fight, but I hate to fight, cause I hate to hurt- but if the right buttons are pushed..........
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Jul 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 230 · Topics: 31
She talks to you!!!! Oh wow!!! I'm so jealous. I have no clue, but I think its amazing that she talks to you. I'll have to ask someone I know about dreaming her life, if it has meaning.
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Jul 31, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 332 · Topics: 14
Hey Dyr, congratulations on your new board. I posted this question on one of the other sites. Not sure you'll remember my situation since theres so many of us seeking your great wisdom on Virgoes, but I'm in the Cancer Woman/Virgo Man who seems to be slowly coming around and out of the flip flop, hot/cold stage. I've been getting more text messages and phone calls in the last 2-3 days. How will I know if we go to the next level? Do Virgo men ask? Or is it something thats assumed??
ALLLUV72
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Jul 19, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 232 · Topics: 18
Cap,
I like what you said.
Mystical
It was about 2.5 weeks.
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Jun 27, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 394 · Topics: 18
When a scorp tells you all the lies he has done to other people, is he opening up and being honest and loyal or he is telling you that he is a constant liar and will lie to you too??? Trust is definately an issue!
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Jul 30, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 485 · Topics: 20
So... today I was talking to the Aries gal on the cellular... and she said she had an extra ticket to the race track back home (horses), she asked me to go along with her, except I can't because I have to work that day (Friday).
Then I told her I am having some money issues (because of Vegas and work messed up my paycheck), so I have to see how long it's going to take for work to fix their payroll error and that I might not be able to see her this weekend because of that.
Then, as the conversation ended, I said I had to run off to work and I'd talk to her later... she ends the convo: "Ok, love you, bye" *click*
Those 2 words... were in there... vpm is in analysis mode again.
"...it doesn't hurt our capabilities in the least. For example-getting your hand broken is real damage-because you'll have some trouble moving it."
i had a feeling you would say something like this, lol. but as i said, i think damages that can't be seen are more severe. broken bones will heal, broken souls and spirits may not heal, key word, MAY NOT. this depends on the individual of course. and that's where i see it as real damage. say a friend betrays you. the obvious damage, you will never trust this person again. the not so obvious, you will be more suspicious of people and thus question your ability to place trust in others, seeing as a friend could do such a thing to you. you'll always remember this hurt, and will always guard yourself against such matters. with a broken hand, sure you are handicapped for awhile, but this will heal and you will also avoid what it was that broke your hand...which is external (could've been the result of an argument which sprang into a fight, but even in this case, you will remember this as the event that led a broken hand which should tell you that emotions were at all time high if this was the result.) betrayal from a friend will never heal, which ultimately includes your emotions because you will never feel the same about them again, and proabably in your judgement in reading people. however, this could make you stronger. you could grow a keener sense and not be so naive.