Posted by 88akkaPosted by aquarius09Posted by 88akkaPosted by GreyWiz
2 days.
hhahahaha this response would go welll on a thread named, "HOW NEEDY DO YOU HAVE TO BE TO MOVE IN WITH SOMEONE" lulz
For me, like 3 years or more. I want him to piss me off before he moves in so I can dump him lol
Hilarious!
lol, I know right.
I am joking on the dumping part. But he does have to get along with me well and respect my 2 girls and their space.
I dated a guy for 4 months and when I invited him to my place, he felt with rights to give his opinion on a sweater with a goat printed on it and asked me to put it away - ( he was religious btw).
I put away the sweater to keep the peace but I gave him a look he would never forget . I turned around and gave him this intense look and asked him "Is there anything else from my home that bothers you? " He answered quickly "no"
Next day I dumped him. No man comes in my home and tries to change the life I have created for me and my girls. We leave in peace and if he doesn't respect their space and things, he is not worth it. I love my two girls and for them I will never bring a loser in their life.
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Glad u put parenting above your love life! That's fantastic parenting and true motherly love 😃
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Exactly like hidden kiwi said it's ulterior or hidden motives u jut find out about. A majority of Scorp males BC I have more experience with them than females always tend not to say much and listen rather than talk at first. They want to see what you are about. It's always me doing more of the talking. In group settings it is more noticeable.
I'm glad I'm not female BC boy I cannot get along w Scorp males a majority if time over the course of s week or two.
I am taurus and don't like this energy in sun, moon or venus! I try to avoid scorps or just have the males as platonic friend. I have only attracted one scorp whose "charms" I did not fall for.and slotted Him into the eternal friends category never to be promoted!!click to expand
Yes girl I think it is my mars that doesn't get along with Scorp. My mars is in Taurus. The one that is Scorp with Scorp mars awwww no. I just now figured out my brother has Libra cuspy Scorp Mars. Doesn't work long term.
Adaptable. Definitely my ability to chameleon my self into any situation. Some people say it makes me fake...but I kinda like it 
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by BornCapricornPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by BornCapricorn
@SassyKiwi
lol@Edward Cullen So scorpios try to sound all badass and mysterious? Many of you has said that there is gameplaying like that, but he doesn't want gameplaying. I think he has been very direct with me. Do you think he is lying or is it something you think he does without knowing?
He can have ulterior motives. As far as manipulation is concerned, you kind of have to sense it on the spot. But scorpios are known to test people before further opening themselves up. Like that one night stand offer.
Honestly just enjoy everything at the moment while keeping some guards up and try to get to know him for once and seem interested in wanting to.
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LOL that "not fun" comment he left you with reminded me of 50 Shades of Grey, where he's probably itching to reveal and try with you his wild bdsm side. Especially since you're supposedly different to him than the other girls. I'm kidding though, who knows what he's full of, keep us updatedclick to expand
You're trying to make my cry, aren't you? Just kidding. Thank you so much!
Posted by ScenicPosted by PalerioPosted by DamnataPosted by Scenic
@aquasnoz, here's a different picture that is probably less soul-destroying.
I always had a hang up as a kid about people calling my eyes brown. "Hazel!", I would yell at them. My own parents still say I have brown eyes. But, the proof is here.
looks like you and @Palerio are eyes twins.
I had to physically refresh the page for confirmation.
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I did, fourth page.
Sick stuff.
I laugh &roll my eyes at the men who are like that, and the young and dumb that go with them.
I put this question on the Gem forum, but I'd like to get a Scorpio's opinion too if y'all don't mind.
I know it's common for those who are born under the Gemini sign to see every aspect of every single topic, but I'm pretty sure I take it to another level. I've been called 'two faced,' 'fickle,' and 'indecisive' more times than I can count.. I guess it is true from another person's perspective...especially one of my best friends and co-worker who is a Scorpio. And when I say Scorpio, I mean - holy butter I think everyone is out to get me even though I'm always right and unbelievably amazing - kind of Scorpio. I love her, I really do, and she loves me (most of the time), but we drive each other up a freaking wall sometimes. So my point is, I know how Scorpios are and I could never, let me repeat...NEVER, date or marry someone like my friend.
However, every time I meet a Scorpio man I think...damn, he's like the most intriguing man I've ever met and I want to dig inside his brain and love him FOREVER. I should get to know him and maybe he'll be different. BUT THEY ARE ALL THE SAME! Every time! I'm too fickle and have the emotional depth of a teaspoon (yeah, that's what my coworker said, which is kinda true).
So if I'm light heart-ed and carefree, then why, oh WHY! am I attracted to Scorpios who are so confusing and emotionally complicated it makes me want to throw up? (Don't get me wrong, I love Scorpios...they just confuse me and frustrate the hell out of me.)
I know it's common for those who are born under the Gemini sign to see every aspect of every single topic, but I'm pretty sure I take it to another level. I've been called 'two faced,' 'fickle,' and 'indecisive' more times than I can count.. I guess it is true from another person's perspective...especially one of my best friends and co-worker who is a Scorpio. And when I say Scorpio, I mean - holy butter I think everyone is out to get me even though I'm always right and unbelievably amazing - kind of Scorpio. I love her, I really do, and she loves me (most of the time), but we drive each other up a freaking wall sometimes. So my point is, I know how Scorpios are and I could never, let me repeat...NEVER, date or marry someone like my friend.
However, every time I meet a Scorpio man I think...damn, he's like the most intriguing man I've ever met and I want to dig inside his brain and love him FOREVER. I should get to know him and maybe he'll be different. BUT THEY ARE ALL THE SAME! Every time! I'm too fickle and have the emotional depth of a teaspoon (yeah, that's what my coworker said, which is kinda true).
So if I'm light heart-ed and carefree, then why, oh WHY! am I attracted to Scorpios who are so confusing and emotionally complicated it makes me want to throw up? (Don't get me wrong, I love Scorpios...they just confuse me and frustrate the hell out of me.)
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by BornCapricornPosted by SassyKiwi
Have you googled the basics?
Like moon in cancer, venus in libra, mars in scorpio?
And then you could go in depth by seeing what planets those houses are placed in, for an example, maybe his venus in libra is in the 8th house (you'd see the venus symbol on the 8th portion of the wheel). And yeah have fun exploring the descriptions.
Not yet. I didn't know what planets to google since the sites said different things.
Sun Scorpio 8
Moon Cancer 4
Mercury Scorpio 8
Venus Libra7
Mars Scorpio 8
Jupiter Libra 7
Saturn Aquarius 11
Uranus Capricorn 10
Neptune Capricorn 10
Pluto Scorpio 8
True node Sagittarius 8
Chiron Virgo 5
Eros Aquarius 10
AC Aries
MC Capricorn
I'll google. So it's moon, venus and mars I should go for first? Not sun or eros?
On your other thread I'm pretty sure all those pages of responses covered a scorpio sun description so you can skip that. But yeah to get the general gist of the planets, google something like "moon in cancer" and you'll be fine reading any of the first few links or something. Or google "moon in cancer 4th house." See if any of it is fitting to how he is. And watch videos on how to seduce venus in libras. I'm kidding lol.click to expand
lol Thank you!
I have very similar placements as you (Cap sun in the 4th/Scorpio moon in the 2nd) and MAN do I sympathize. Emotionally, my head in like a landfill. Everything goes in and nothing comes out. Every good emotion is layered on top of a pre-exisitng bad emotion, and despite being not that categorically sensitive, I require SO MUCH intimacy even in platonic relationships that often I think something is wrong with me. It's very hard not to default towards sadness.
Of course I am grateful for being able to read people, but sometimes I get so bored of it. Nobody's ever that mysterious.
I think especially with Cap suns/Scorp moons it can feel as if we're either 0 or 100 because of how cold Cap is and how, well... intense Scorpio is.
Hang in there!
Of course I am grateful for being able to read people, but sometimes I get so bored of it. Nobody's ever that mysterious.
I think especially with Cap suns/Scorp moons it can feel as if we're either 0 or 100 because of how cold Cap is and how, well... intense Scorpio is.
Hang in there!
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Those behaviors are exactly why they're still single at middle age yet still fail to register that in their minds.
And those that leave their wives for 20 year olds always end up getting fucked. As if they'll stick around. They're only be used as funds. And then it becomes a dwindling path of self destruction for the guys until they die. If they had kids, they'll hate them. Their grandkids will hate them. They won't ever be happy again.
so optimistic kiwi!click to expand
Pls it's a threat to all those middle age lurkers trying to figure out if their secretary is a scorpio or a gemini