Venus is Cancer folks how do you "crab walk' when it comes to love?

Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by aquarius09
You better make sure you are big boned and voluptuous because if there's one thing I have observed with this placement, it's that mommy physique they are attracted to.

I knew 5 Venus in cancer men. Two are still in my life and all of them were/are attracted to big boned women. They aren't into the slim, athletic chick.

I'm slim jim and a long time ago I was attracted to a gem/can dude with Venus in cancer and I used to get this weird vibe that he'd want a big girl and he also hung out with big girls. Years later he married *drum roll* a woman that looks way older than him. She's much bigger than him.



Thnks, very helpful! I do have more of an athletic bod then really curvy, but one of my Cancer Venus guys I knew said I was "very attractive" so maybe he just meant my personality or overall, who knows...? Does the Mars have any say in preference?
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I think anything goes with cancer men because they are soooooo sweet. I don't think they discriminate. They are soft hearted guys that melt away when they find out someone likes them. One of the 5 Venus cancer told me he likes big women but he ended up dating a skinny chick because she picked him up/initiated it. They dated for a year or so. I think what you should look at is whether he's intimidated by you or not. Make the cancer love your personality and you'll win him. Tried and tested. Friendship first is a sure guarantee with him.