How do libras deal with insecurities?
Posted by IrrepressibleLove
Hmm...I'm going to have to disagree about the self conscious and vain aspect. When looking beyond the surface I think what is seen as self conscious and vain is something totally different. I think libras care a lot about people, have a ton of compassion and strive to connect with others mutually and in a way that is understood. I think they can have a hard time putting these emotions and desires into words or in ways to be understood (that's why a lot of them resort to being funny/silly or trying to make people laugh, an easy way to make people happy develop good bonds without the risk/conflict of getting emotionally hurt). When these connections and loving bonds do not form with libras, I think then libras get depressed, sad, insecure, self blaming. Then because of the pain they retreat from certain people. I've seen so many libras that genuinely want others to be happy and okay, like truly happy, but are sometimes not sure how to go about it since they don't want to be intrusive and don't want to be overbearing. This can be seen as cold and vain. I think caring about image and what others think all boils down to wanting to make others happy and/or wanting to develop a good bond with others. Remember, other people don't care how cute you are. You have it in you to completely brighten someones day to truly heal someone with your presence. I try to face my insecurities by finding my humor and silliness, you gotta say "fuck it" really let lose, making people smile and laugh completely melts my insecurities. There's nothing wrong with getting all dolled up or whatever, but don't let that rule you. Let it be something you can be comfortable in as a form of self expression, but don't lose your heart and your sense of humor. There's a huge range of different libra seeds to water: you can be vain and bitchy or you can water that Venus heart and love everyone unconditionally and be fun and goofy. I know some libras that are disgusting totally self absorbed and blind to their surroundings obviously very self conflicted with themselves on all levels which is so sad, then I know most libras who are the most selfless creatures in the world, listen to you for hours, would do anything for you, secure, funny, optimistic, loving...the list goes on.
So true. I see alot of male libras who are goofy and like to make others laugh. I do like to make people happy and uplift their spirits. Sad some people cant return that. One thing i can say about libras is that we are very genuine, we are all or nothing. I myself, am self conscious in ways of what people think not really too much if theyll like me... But then again i guess that goes hand in hand. I can agree with having hard times finding the words fitting my emotions being that i dont really like to be emotional or talk about my emotions. It makes me feel as though i am being weak or too vulnera
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He might be interested but then denied the fact. Here's a full stop for you. Scop won't get along with a Taurus...the approach is way too different and opposite.
Leo or Capricorn
Posted by GreyWiz
sag. he is optimistic and jolly. sag is also associated with religion, higher learning and religious views. Jupiter is known as the guru.
A leo would be king arthur or something to that effect.
Santa Claus has nothing to do with religion
Posted by SamCancerGirlPosted by Andalusia
And he just wished me Merry Christmas..
Oh bother.
Did you reply? They come back around to see how the land lies and if you will reply or notclick to expand
I said "Merry Christmas!" as well, yes.
Posted by frostey91Posted by GreyWiz
sag. he is optimistic and jolly. sag is also associated with religion, higher learning and religious views. Jupiter is known as the guru.
A leo would be king arthur or something to that effect.
Santa Claus has nothing to do with religionclick to expand
The 'alternate' religions... Santa is a pagan figure.
Moon in the 11th house- Another best position for the moon when placed in the 11th house of gains like for Cancer ascendants. In this position the native has lots of female friends, easy gains, easy gains of property and assets. Gives a very religious and spiritual mother, and the mother usually benefits with a baby who has this moon position. 11th house is the house of large network, and large organization, Moon here needs to connect to people in order feel mental balance. These folks love making new friends, and making new connection, because through that they learn, and they grow as a human being, including their mind. They are regular party goers, fund raiser organizers, and in finance. The mother could have been a PR agent herself, or very social house wife who had regular parties at her place. But, if Moon is in the sign of Aquarius, then the native would be more scientific and worldly in their approach and will tend to define everything through modern scientific methods. They are also a bit eccentric as they run by the beat of their own drums. Usually this Moon needs to read a lot and maintain up to date information of their field in order for them to feel balanced. This placement also gives great gains through mother, children and artistic pursuits. Even though 100% of the population has hopes & wishes for themselves, Moon in the 11th house usually gets their wishes and hopes fulfilled due to it being the house of gains and income. 11th house is also the most important upachaya house in terms of wealth and gains.
source: http://www.astrologykrs.com/mooninhouses.html
11th House:
Virgo
The Virgo influence in the eleventh house suggests a readiness to serve close friends. Despite a certain aloofness, you work especially hard for the welfare of companions. You can be content to defer to the will of the majority in groups in which you function. You're never altogether comfortable in a crowd, and you don't crave a wide circle of friends. At times, you can be sharply critical of your associates.
Moon in Eleventh house
The Moon in your eleventh house shows a willingness to work in a self-effacing manner within a group, to promote a common good. You have a broad circle of friends, especially women, and you're very popular. You are naturally responsive to the feelings of others and you know how to sway public opinion. Your interests are so wide and varied that you must guard against becoming superficial. Your sense of security is tied to your relationships and to your many friends.
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source: http://www.astrologykrs.com/mooninhouses.html
11th House:
Virgo
The Virgo influence in the eleventh house suggests a readiness to serve close friends. Despite a certain aloofness, you work especially hard for the welfare of companions. You can be content to defer to the will of the majority in groups in which you function. You're never altogether comfortable in a crowd, and you don't crave a wide circle of friends. At times, you can be sharply critical of your associates.
Moon in Eleventh house
The Moon in your eleventh house shows a willingness to work in a self-effacing manner within a group, to promote a common good. You have a broad circle of friends, especially women, and you're very popular. You are naturally responsive to the feelings of others and you know how to sway public opinion. Your interests are so wide and varied that you must guard against becoming superficial. Your sense of security is tied to your relationships and to your many friends.
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Posted by RumiLove
Hi Anna, isn't your cap a Scorpio moon, if I can remember correctly?
I think he must've been too tired or sleepy..definitely felt suffocated (not because of you, but maybe he was talking work with friend and just wanted to get it over with) .
I think, its wrong to expect a person(lover, husband, best friend) to respond to you the same way all the time. Maybe they are just not in a mood or doing some work etc and have naturally do not get a thought to inform or respond to you....these feelings are natural, atleast that's what I believe. And we must respect their actions/moods/space.. It was after all at 1.30 am that this happened.
Now... I may not be the right person to say this, but I believe we must just give space and overlook little things like this..
Dont question your entire relationship lol! (imo)
GOD yes
Hi everyone so I've been dating this guy a couple of months, he's a Cancer and I'm an Aquarius. It's been a whirlwind romance and God we fell in love ridiculously fast. Everything was so effortless and we were inseparable. We never fell out over anything. He told me he loved me first and that I was the one, I can honestly say I feel the same. We became official and I met his family, he showered me with gifts for Christmas and things just couldn't get any better.
Just last week he told his ex a Virgo that he was with me, they still have a car together which he drives but needs to finish paying off before she will give him to documents. Unfortunately she is now threatening him with stuff and things that could potentially land him in a lot of trouble. He went to see her last week and since I've been bombarded with threatening texts off her saying he's with me he doesn't want you rah rah. He called me in a flap saying his head was in bits and that she's threatening him with bad things. He told me from the start that he never really loved her she was just a rebound from his ex, that their relationship was volatile and messy. He says she won't leave him alone.
On Sunday he called me and said his head was a mess and he couldn't see me, that he couldn't continue being with me and that he was so so sorry, that things couldn't get any worse. And that he can't see a way out.
I'm devastated, I poured my heart out to him and said if he really loved me he would find a way.
I've not heard anything since.
Will he come back? And what's the best thing I can do? Please help x
Just last week he told his ex a Virgo that he was with me, they still have a car together which he drives but needs to finish paying off before she will give him to documents. Unfortunately she is now threatening him with stuff and things that could potentially land him in a lot of trouble. He went to see her last week and since I've been bombarded with threatening texts off her saying he's with me he doesn't want you rah rah. He called me in a flap saying his head was in bits and that she's threatening him with bad things. He told me from the start that he never really loved her she was just a rebound from his ex, that their relationship was volatile and messy. He says she won't leave him alone.
On Sunday he called me and said his head was a mess and he couldn't see me, that he couldn't continue being with me and that he was so so sorry, that things couldn't get any worse. And that he can't see a way out.
I'm devastated, I poured my heart out to him and said if he really loved me he would find a way.
I've not heard anything since.
Will he come back? And what's the best thing I can do? Please help x
My Chiron conjunct is my Moon in the 11th.
CHIRON IN ASPECT TO THE MOON
Chiron aspecting the Moon means that the native will not be able to have any feelings unless the alchemical or spiritualized dimension is part of the feeling process. The Moon is our emotional vehicle which makes it possible to relate to other people, and the Moon is our way to go deep inside to experience the subconscious mind. All feelings are screened through our Moon and deposited into the subconscious mind. The subconscious mind contains all our experiences since the beginning of time, and we cannot know ourselves without journeying deep within by means of dreams, exploring past lives, or relating our present-day emotional experiences to deep feelings inside. Therefore, the Moon is a critical vehicle for Chiron to connect feelings to the deepest subconscious. If we can't feel what our spiritual essence might be, it is hard to get in touch with it. There are other vehicles in the chart for accessing deep feelings, which include the fourth house, Venus and Jupiter, but with aspects between Chiron and the Moon, the native possesses a great vehicle for exploring the subconscious mind and bringing in the Higher Self.
Chiron conjunct the Moon is a difficult position because the natives have such intense emotions that it is difficult for them to understand the effect they have on others. They are extremely sensitive, they are very mystical about emotional bonding, and the day-to-day levels of relationships are almost impossible to bear. The ideal for this native is to master Saturn and to form a solid bond with a mate, because then the power of Uranian transformation can enter his or her life through the relationship. This native will be almost terrified of restrictions because of the Uranian desire for freedom. But if he or she can find the right partner who will help work with Saturn without undue restrictions, then the possibility of kundalini energy will manifest in sexual sharing. This native may be too involved with his or her mother, which can block the opportunity for a relationship. Also, this native will tend to attract intense and transformative partners. The key to actualizing the spiritual beauty of Chiron conjunct the Moon is Saturn grounding and balance, with room for Uranian transformation.
I never realized the pertinence of Uranian and Saturnian energies on this specific aspect. This could explain "how" Aquarius is my second dominant, though Scorpio reigns by a long shot. Interesting twist on my personality I suppose. I love delving in and finding out more about myself. I want to transform and work on myself. My moon placement connected with Chiron is always of interest to me.
CHIRON IN ASPECT TO THE MOON
Chiron aspecting the Moon means that the native will not be able to have any feelings unless the alchemical or spiritualized dimension is part of the feeling process. The Moon is our emotional vehicle which makes it possible to relate to other people, and the Moon is our way to go deep inside to experience the subconscious mind. All feelings are screened through our Moon and deposited into the subconscious mind. The subconscious mind contains all our experiences since the beginning of time, and we cannot know ourselves without journeying deep within by means of dreams, exploring past lives, or relating our present-day emotional experiences to deep feelings inside. Therefore, the Moon is a critical vehicle for Chiron to connect feelings to the deepest subconscious. If we can't feel what our spiritual essence might be, it is hard to get in touch with it. There are other vehicles in the chart for accessing deep feelings, which include the fourth house, Venus and Jupiter, but with aspects between Chiron and the Moon, the native possesses a great vehicle for exploring the subconscious mind and bringing in the Higher Self.
Chiron conjunct the Moon is a difficult position because the natives have such intense emotions that it is difficult for them to understand the effect they have on others. They are extremely sensitive, they are very mystical about emotional bonding, and the day-to-day levels of relationships are almost impossible to bear. The ideal for this native is to master Saturn and to form a solid bond with a mate, because then the power of Uranian transformation can enter his or her life through the relationship. This native will be almost terrified of restrictions because of the Uranian desire for freedom. But if he or she can find the right partner who will help work with Saturn without undue restrictions, then the possibility of kundalini energy will manifest in sexual sharing. This native may be too involved with his or her mother, which can block the opportunity for a relationship. Also, this native will tend to attract intense and transformative partners. The key to actualizing the spiritual beauty of Chiron conjunct the Moon is Saturn grounding and balance, with room for Uranian transformation.
I never realized the pertinence of Uranian and Saturnian energies on this specific aspect. This could explain "how" Aquarius is my second dominant, though Scorpio reigns by a long shot. Interesting twist on my personality I suppose. I love delving in and finding out more about myself. I want to transform and work on myself. My moon placement connected with Chiron is always of interest to me.