How do I get my Capricorn ex back?
I was implying that posting a seemingly heartfelt, personal letter verbatim - inside jokes and all - on a public Internet forum kinda takes the "heartfelt" and "personal" aspect out of it. I have a few Caps as friends and they are pretty private people.. I can only imagine how private they are romantically.
Asking for opinions and advice is why most of us are here. And don't get me wrong, I've posted some somewhat personal anecdotes from my real life on here, so I am in no position to throw stones.
But IMO, the root issue here, which has already been touched on - is attention - your need for a certain level of it and her inability or unwillingness to cater to that in a way or amount that you are comfortable with. That could be me filtering your story thru my own experience, so take it with a grain of salt. But it is what it is.
Posting that letter unprompted just glaringly illustrates that point. You state *what* you are going to do differently, but not *how*. Not to mention the fact that you posted it at all.. attention is obviously a need of yours, not a preference. why on earth would you promise to change your needs?
Asking for opinions and advice is why most of us are here. And don't get me wrong, I've posted some somewhat personal anecdotes from my real life on here, so I am in no position to throw stones.
But IMO, the root issue here, which has already been touched on - is attention - your need for a certain level of it and her inability or unwillingness to cater to that in a way or amount that you are comfortable with. That could be me filtering your story thru my own experience, so take it with a grain of salt. But it is what it is.
Posting that letter unprompted just glaringly illustrates that point. You state *what* you are going to do differently, but not *how*. Not to mention the fact that you posted it at all.. attention is obviously a need of yours, not a preference. why on earth would you promise to change your needs?
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Sag ,Cap, and Virgo--- I want hilarious not just funny. Those three are masters of sarcasm .
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Posted by cornflowerPosted by 9waterlion9
I'm not a cancer either but seriously if he asked you if you were a hooker fuck that guy, he should be dead to you...be strong and don't give him your time of day, he doesn't deserve it
Yeah, this is the advice all my friends gave me. They'd think I've gone crazy, would they know, I'm even thinking of responding.
But maybe his comment with the "hooker" was just his strange way of showing how hurt he was by me breaking up... and he regrets his behaviour. But from what I have learned about cancers is, that they have problems apologizing. So maybe this xmas text is his way of an apology?click to expand
You know, your displaying here the same mentality that victims of spousal abuse use to justify not leaving.
"He only called me a hooker because I broke up with him. He only said those things because I hurt him. He only hits me because I'm too _insert reason here_."
Does the thought that his text is an "apology" excite you that much? It shouldn't. There are so many red flags with this guy. What happens when you have a real fight with him? What kind of abuse will he hurl your way?
He doesn't deserve a response from you. AT. ALL.
If you do respond, the message your sending is that you'd like to start communicating with him again. That, and him calling you a hooker is forgivable.
He doesn't deserve a response or for you to waste anymore brain cells on him. He doesn't deserve a thread dedicated to him in this site.
Delete his text from your phone and spend the remainder of the holiday season with loved ones who deserve your attention.
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as promise to publish this prayer and claiming that my prayer will be granted
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bear Thy heavy cross, which so tore Thy flesh and laid bare Thy
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worship the most sacred wound of Thy shoulder, on which Thou didst
bear Thy heavy cross, which so tore Thy flesh and laid bare Thy
bones as to inflict on Thee an anguish greater than any other wound
of Thy blessed body. I adore Thee, O Jesus most sorrowful. I praise
and glorify Thee, and give Thee thanks for this most sacred and
painful wound, beseeching Thee by that exceeding pain, and by the
crushing burden of Thy heavy cross to be merciful to me a sinner, to
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Posted by flowingwaterPosted by FrostAndBite
I know millennials and those just a squeak out from our generation say dating and love sucks nowadays, but honestly I think it's the way we go about it.
The times I treat people with suspicion, objectify or commodify them or assume who they are before they show me I had god awful experiences. When I let people be themselves and I just show them who I am from the jump it works out alright. I mean yeah sometimes I thought they were weird or they thought I was crazy but either way we never wasted love or time on it.
You can't be solely self serving while seeking to create a paired unit. One negates the other.
Obviously everyone can't be on their p's and q's all the time. But getting fucked over or being blinded by love is a pretty universal experience. Heartbreak is nothing new. I just honestly believe that we create the circumstances around us more oft than not.
And this is directed specifically towards the OP, just the various men/dating/love is shit/dead/hopeless ideology.
Usually my moodiness throws some guys off. At the beginning, I'm great but eventually I start peeling my layers off slowly to see how they handle it. If they freak out, it worries me and I close up again. Usually by months in I show them all of me and many say I'm moody, not all the time just every once in a while.
Your right, I need to just be myself from the beginning but it's hard. The last time I was guard down was with a cancer man and he did not handle it well. He hid in his shell and later said he just didn't know how to handle it.. I was already heart broken by then and didn't care for a second chance. Now it was even more difficult with a Virgo, showing emotions just felt controlled. Couldn't even let my moodiness slip. So I hung out with him less just to be there for the good times.
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No man likes moodiness.
It's hard too because you have a kid. You might be better dating someone mature and established.
Also do you explain your moodiness to them? Is their any logic behind your moodiness?
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do you threaten to cut yourself during arguments?
What?? No lol
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