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Aug 19, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 800 · Topics: 31
I think it's phases we all go through. For a while there I don't think I was ever more stresssssssed out! So much pressure it's sickening! I think the best thing to do is focus on solving your problems and getting past what you can't do anything about... just focus... focus... focus... it's a strictly ME time... you can't worry about others right now...
Money problems are poison to the bull, it's the worse thing that can happen to a bull... the WORST... that will floor you fast so concentrate on ways of budgeting and figuring out how to bring in more income. Give yourself a nice amount of time to get where you want. Baby steps
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Jul 30, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 243 · Topics: 21
shortyrock yes it helps a lot, maybe because that's the answer I'm looking for, thanks eceryone for your input
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Jul 31, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 332 · Topics: 14
I just dont get it, soon as I wrote my last post, he calls and ask if he could stop over for a few minutes, it's like he sensed I'm ready to throw in the towel. Strange very strange..
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Jul 01, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 544 · Topics: 13
thanks, SIL!!!!! and you definitely are right to say 'I told you so' ...
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Jul 19, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 131 · Topics: 13
P-Angel,
How strange....my father and brother are in the same situation, or lack thereof. My brother is very hurt...but also very stubborn, a Virgo. He says he has no father also. And my father has just completely disowned my brother, but...still has a picture up of him and his adopted sons in his house. All for show I am sure. I have often thought of what I could do to help mend fences. But in the end, I think it wouldnt work anyway. Who knows, my brother is gay, and my father always wanted a football player for a son.
If I could change one thing? That question is sooo hard. I think I would change the fact that I didnt push more to go away to college and have that college life. But then again, in order to get that wish, my parents couldnt have divorced, and so on and so forth.....bygones.
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Jul 01, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 544 · Topics: 13
If I could change one thing it would have to be my biological father, who walked out on us when I was 4. Him walking out was a good thing coz he was abusing alcohol and was physically and verbally abusive towards my mom... what i would change is that he would've been a different person altogether. Then maybe my mom would've been happy.
in turn it might be easier for me to find happiness also. i used to call BS whenever someone did the 'blame it on my childhood' thing but as i get older i recognize more and more that it does have an impact on my decision making and thought process.
Thanks for your insight, moonchild. Yeah, all I can do is wait and see. My last relationship was an aqua as well, but closer to Capricorn. We got along well for a long time but always seemed more like friends, and we still are now.