Selfish sex
But yeah, with a FWB, selfishness is the game. Everyone is out to get the most satisfaction, with or without their partner.
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Dude if she does want to persue anything with you then nothing will happen anyway.
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by CapricornGuy12Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Act the way you want her to consider you and you wont need to wait for anything from her, she will have no option but to follow your lead, but it is YOU that has to bring the lead
Can you please enlighten me
What Im trying to say is; you dont need to wait for "signals" from her to continue your courting, women dont want guys that they can control. You need to follow your own agenda, having faith in your way of doing things and that they eventually will bring you the results you are expecting, enjoy the process, enjoy yourself, make it look like you got your own party going on and youre having a great time at it, so she has no option but to join it.click to expand
Brilliant advice. Virgo women like to be led by alpha or leader types such as yourself.
I guess that the ex want be with them. How she is acting crazy and not being a friend and they so called broke up a year ago...im like really and she still acting like that? I cant day to much because we r not together we r dating but have been dating for a year. So a whole year ive been calm cool collective and we did have heated talks 3 times over the year about this ex. Im at a point where im just like whatever but they bring them up to talk about ehat they doing and im like ok well u want still be friends with this girl so deal with it and it shows me u still care about them. In july the ex hit them because of something my current partner may have done and im like so what if u did xyz...yall not together why is ur ex acting like that and ur just friends. Then she tries to kiss them too....im just sitting back evaluating things my deadline with them is march this is too much lol @gemitati i like to give chances and atleast try. I come here for help to see other ppl thoughts maybe im tripping.
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
propose more exciting plans.
I got us into a sold out show for her favorite new artist that she wanted to go to and we were gonna go out of town and spend the day together... not sure what's more exciting than that lol. Then she got sick and everything went to hell
Posted by PalerioPosted by Damnata
I really don't see hot and cold games at all.
I don't understand where you come to the revelation that you're not on the path you're on. You seem to imply you're not on that path anymore, which I don't get.
It's not a matter of age, he could be 50 years old it'd be the same, problem here is that most people enjoy flirting in person and follow up from where they left through texts, while Virgos can't be bothered.
It's apparently the only way with Virgos but I know you would agree with me if I say that a dynamic in which you go on a date, you text her the specifics of the next date, you go on another date, you set a new date ecc, can be robotic for most.click to expand
Idk, man, depends on the Virgo. I really don't flirt in texts, I flirt in person.
I feel he thinks we're saying he's approaching this wrong. I am just saying he should amp the assertiveness because otherwise, between what they're doing and friends activities...really not a difference.
At least he kissed her.
I don't get the whole texting the specifics of the next date, that sounds like a business meeting to me. In my last relationship, the only text he sent me was prior to meeting me. From then on, he always called and made his interest known in dating me. Told me point blank this isn't going towards friendship, in case I had that theme going in my head.
Posted by Jenna77Posted by LuckyLibra979
Tell her, that's what id do. My friend was getting cheated on so bad in high school. Everybody knew and never told him but I did I couldn't let my boy go out like that
I agree. I know it's complicated but you should tell her. I'd feel awful if I was being cheated on and my friends knew about it and hid it from me.click to expand
Jenna, I'm the same way!
I don't know if she is, so I'm going to test the waters first and then come up with a plan.
Look, Cap, no one is saying you are making huge errors here. We are saying you should just amp it up. I get being sick but you see hot and cold as her not replying for 2 days and in earth sign world, that isn't hot and cold, that is reciprocation.
It's a slow burn with us generally. We're just saying make sure she knows this is dating and not running the risk of a friendzone.
It's a slow burn with us generally. We're just saying make sure she knows this is dating and not running the risk of a friendzone.
I mean I really don't get this whole "everything went to hell".
Nothing went to any hell. You're letting insecurity get the best of you on that timeframe with replies.
Nothing went to any hell. You're letting insecurity get the best of you on that timeframe with replies.
Posted by DamnataPosted by PalerioPosted by Damnata
I really don't see hot and cold games at all.
I don't understand where you come to the revelation that you're not on the path you're on. You seem to imply you're not on that path anymore, which I don't get.
It's not a matter of age, he could be 50 years old it'd be the same, problem here is that most people enjoy flirting in person and follow up from where they left through texts, while Virgos can't be bothered.
It's apparently the only way with Virgos but I know you would agree with me if I say that a dynamic in which you go on a date, you text her the specifics of the next date, you go on another date, you set a new date ecc, can be robotic for most.
Idk, man, depends on the Virgo. I really don't flirt in texts, I flirt in person.
I feel he thinks we're saying he's approaching this wrong. I am just saying he should amp the assertiveness because otherwise, between what they're doing and friends activities...really not a difference.
At least he kissed her.
I don't get the whole texting the specifics of the next date, that sounds like a business meeting to me. In my last relationship, the only text he sent me was prior to meeting me. From then on, he always called and made his interest known in dating me. Told me point blank this isn't going towards friendship, in case I had that theme going in my head.click to expand
Yes, I think amping up the assertiveness sounds right in this case.
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Yes, stop that bullshit aka texting "what are you up to? " and expecting a reply
Or being upset cause she didnt text you back when you wished her a merry Xmas
When you text her, make sure you know what you are texting her for, if you want a proper conversation, ask her to meet up for coffee, but dont expect entire convos from texting, limit them. Make them worth it
Or being upset cause she didnt text you back when you wished her a merry Xmas
When you text her, make sure you know what you are texting her for, if you want a proper conversation, ask her to meet up for coffee, but dont expect entire convos from texting, limit them. Make them worth it