Selfish sex
Posted by LuckyLibra979
Just be direct, tryna figure out a way will confuse things further. She feels he is being selfish, typical Libra thing to do is go around the issue to solve it which builds up anger and leads to either an unnecessary blow up or distance and lies. Both are unnecessary so she should just be open and direct and if he seems selfish still, then ditch him. There is no in between, she needs to get her needs met or let the bull go.
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Depends on an intensity of the feelings.
And age.
And age.
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Posted by Pandora101
The point of this thread is to share an experience.
We all fear that this could happen to our boyfriends (or something similar happened) hence the strong reactions.....
Yeahhhhh, no! LOL. Speak for yourself. My strong reaction didn't come from there and I'm PRETTY SURE that the 5 likes I got on my Ashley Madison comment wasn't coming from women who feared this happening to them. Just LoL though. Projecting your personal fears onto others is the fallacy you commit in your arguments, which renders you a dull star. Sorry, you're an Aqua.
i'm so attracted to them, they're usually confident, i think that's what makes them attractive.
Posted by CocoKatPosted by Montgomery
Yeesh... normally I'm an advocate of telling-- esp when the
the one being cheated on is financially supporting the cheater.
I'm still not convinced you shouldn't tell her.
Yes, she may see you as the enemy and he may feed her a line
of bullshit that she will choose to believe... but I would be in knots
keeping it a secret.
Ugh... and she's your friend.
Can you just frame it like: You're my friend, and I know you would
do the same for me-- maybe you two have an arrangement, idk.
bleh, I hate situations like this.
His fault for going in public with it.
Montgomery get out of my brain! these are exactly my thoughts...it is his fault, God I wish I didn't see this!!!click to expand
Hmm... what if you don't mention the other woman at all?
What if you just tell her that you missed her the other night up at Le Shitty Bar?
When she gives you the WTF Look... just say something like
Yeah, we saw ______ (her pos bf) up there last Saturday, and we were hoping to
see you too -- I'll call you next time we're going
Her imagination will take care of the rest.
She can ask questions if she wants... if she doesn't, you're off the hook.
has anyone here met with a psychic before
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Posted by aqualady0118Posted by jeane
these guys though, when they truly want you they won't stop. they don't stop talking to you, they don't take no for an answer, it is like they impervious to anything and anyone you put in front of them. i've never experienced anything like it.
typical conversation would go something like this
a: do you want to?
b: no
a: do you want to?
b: no, i don't
a: so do you want to?
b: oh my god, no!
a: do you want to?
b: NO NO NO NO!
a: so you do want to?
b: jesus mary and joseph....ok
there is no way of getting out of it once they have made their mind up. this guy is just messing with you and has been for a year now. (and he is being an absolute arsehole to his girlfriend as well)
Jeane, my excellent advice giver friend...do u have a lot of taurus guy experience? If so, I'd love to hear a few some dayclick to expand
This Taurus dude I've seen a couple of times is exactly as Jeane put it. I'd not experienced it before. It was odd because I'd said no and stated my case but he kept asking me to go round his, every day, for 9 days straight, yet he failed to actually ask me out out. I almost lost it with him and nearly said 'are you a fucking dumb shit or just deaf? I said no!!!!' But in a weird way I kind of like his persistence. Wtf is that all about!!!