Some advice needed...

It's sad when you can't have open and honest conversations with a person you care about.
Yeah, tell me about. I felt the same way about a cancer man. I was sort in the same spot you are in right now because I told him that it was fine to have other female friends around because he told me that he wasn't as serious about them ... he said that he was more serious about me. Now, why did I fall for that bull-shit back then is beyond me LeowithCap, I have no idea why I was such a complete moron.
All that crap didn't last long, I made sure of it after getting some much needed advice off of DXP smile I already made a post about him coming out of no where one day after a couple of months -- asking whatever happen to "us". I told him in April that we are friends and that it will remain like that because we are better off as such.
At this point, I don't know if he understands this but what I say still stands regardless. I'm the one in control of myself ... not him Winking