when on the 1st date guy wants sex
Posted by Koniucha
I have had sex on the first date and ended up with the guy for 4 years.
So it's not the end of the world.
Its not the end if the world it happens. There is no hard set rule but I feel as if its an either/or situation. Maybe because if what I've seen where a girl will give it up without a date and ends up being his plaything for 3 weeks and then tossed to the side for someone else. SOME women will sleep with the guy hoping to create a relationship or the ain't shit guys who expect sex after buying a girl one drink or talking to her for 5 minutes.
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Posted by Arielle83
Also damnata's dxp user spreadsheet is comparable to your standards checklist.
She's just really organized and aware. How else can she monitor the ppl she interacts with and look for red flags.
Which is what you're doing too.
Wow, I can't even keep a decent spreadsheet on household spending!
Your moon sign explains your instincts and the way you interact with your environment, your upbringing has a lot to do with your moon sign because your living environment determines how you learn to use your instincts I think...
My mum is a Gemini with an Aries moon and I'm an Aquarius with a Scorpio moon, I'm also the middle child so I was a scape goat and I required a lot of attention growing up because I had two older brothers who used to pick on me and when my little brother came into the picture I pretty much raised him and he's a lot like me in so many ways.
My mum is a single mother of 5 and when my older brothers moved out I took up all the chores in the house and I looked after my little brother after school.....my mum was extremely violent, verbally, physically and emotionally, I was always told to eat with my mouth shut even though I did the sound I made when I ate disgusted my mum, she would hit me and put me down and then be nice to me, she would also get her friends to gang up on me constantly, I was at school and being bullied for being gay and dealing with shit teachers and low grades, my little brother was my escapism but I also resented him because I couldn't have my life .
My mum is a Gemini with an Aries moon and I'm an Aquarius with a Scorpio moon, I'm also the middle child so I was a scape goat and I required a lot of attention growing up because I had two older brothers who used to pick on me and when my little brother came into the picture I pretty much raised him and he's a lot like me in so many ways.
My mum is a single mother of 5 and when my older brothers moved out I took up all the chores in the house and I looked after my little brother after school.....my mum was extremely violent, verbally, physically and emotionally, I was always told to eat with my mouth shut even though I did the sound I made when I ate disgusted my mum, she would hit me and put me down and then be nice to me, she would also get her friends to gang up on me constantly, I was at school and being bullied for being gay and dealing with shit teachers and low grades, my little brother was my escapism but I also resented him because I couldn't have my life .
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I can hang out for a whole day and feel fine but once I'm by myself the need to recharge is very strong and I'll not want to get together again for a long time after that.
Posted by WestsidekodakPosted by starwars
hey virgos, do you get tired from socializing?
by socializing, i don't mean meeting people everyday and having 'small talk' I mean being in the same room for 7 hours with the same people.
I love socializing i like to enjoy my time with other people, but if i overdone it (aka three times a week or more) i get really moody and i want my space.
First thought:
Let go hangout at the swings without ever saying a word.
If not. Ill be at the swings by myself watching the sunset over the treetops.click to expand
OMFG
I LOVE SWINGS!!!
if i ever have a house, i will build one in my yard.
i can stay there for hours and hours swinging.
I go swinging before dawn or close to sunset when I go to my dad's place. They have a swing there next to an abandonned school.
Posted by starwars
I mean being in the same room for 7 hours with the same people.
This sounds like a school or a job thing, both of which...have to be done.
I don't think it's socializing as much as it's boredom and generally low energy from spending our time in our heads.
The only time I've been accused of being selfish was when someone was trying to manipulate me (either to give them lots of time or money). But, I have natal 12th house sun and 8th house moon.
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Posted by WestsidekodakPosted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by WestsidekodakPosted by rockyroadicecream
Jesus, people need to fucking read. This isn't the OP's personal story. Fucking illiterates.
Hi rocky. Welcome to the party.
Sorry, been busy with irl.
This story makes me lol.
When I was in middle school, I was snooping around and found the box from condoms in my dad's dresser drawer. No condoms in it, but it was there. I thought it was strange considering my dad had a vasectomy back when we were little, so why the hell would he need a box of condoms at any time after that point with my mom?
Needless to say, it always left me wondering wtf. I didn't pursue it, nor did I tell my mother because it was pure speculation.
However, if this was the situation, I'd say something. But then again, I can't picture this situation much because my dad died when I was 17 and the entire concept is foreign to me and something I could not visualize to begin with.
Jeez thats worst than finding someone in the act. My mind would of been racing for answers foreverclick to expand
*shrugs*
I didn't really think much of it. I'd actually forgotten all about it up until a few years ago.
At that time, my parents were having issues since money was tight. He was a bit of a drinker and he'd go out after work and wouldn't get home until late. Who knows wtf he was up to when he was gone. He no doubt loved my mom, but he was a Leo and kinda selfish, too.
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by Arielle83
Also damnata's dxp user spreadsheet is comparable to your standards checklist.
She's just really organized and aware. How else can she monitor the ppl she interacts with and look for red flags.
Which is what you're doing too.
Wow, I can't even keep a decent spreadsheet on household spending!click to expand
I can't do that either. I long gave up chores lists and stuff.
But people..they are interesting. Curiosity killed me first and then the cat.