I'm torn between an Aries and Gemini
Well I think the Aries is done anyways
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Posted by underwaterthing
Hello my lovely Leos. I am coming to you for advice. I, a fellow leo, just got my heart thrashed by a Capricorn. After months of making plans, introducing to family, etc, and a strained road trip. He just left without saying goodbye. And I knew, that was it. Not a word, but I just knew.
That being said, this isn't about my sob story (but hey no leo likes to be left without a word!) but I'm truly wanting to move on and be happy. I don't want to hate, I don't want to pick it apart, I don't want to want him back, and I don't want to be weak. I want to better myself and do EVERYTHING I can to move on and get him out of my head and my heart.
Do you have any tips for getting over a breakup in a healthy accelerated manner?
Thank you
xoxo
First, sorry to hear that this happened to you. Nothing's worse than being in a Leo's headspace after a bad breakup. What you need to do is cut down the amount of time you can spend sulking. Since you have a well of emotion that has been leftover from the relationship, you can drown in it if you choose to do so. So here are some steps that may help.
1. Realize ultimately this person was not worth your time or energy. Leo's may be great at wasting time and energy, but that doesn't mean we don't place importance on it. Your time and energy is one of the greatest strengths you have as it is seemingly limitless. Realize your ex did not deserve this gift and therefore was not meant for you.
2. Don't wait for closure from the other party (as it may never come). Create your own. Think on where the relationship possibly went sour, but don't dwell on it. Try to find the red flags in the other person's demeanor (things that you probably shouldn't tolerate, but did because you are a kind soul). Even if you can't find anything truly upsetting in hindsight, know that by ending things so abruptly, your ex has not shown you the same courtesies you've shown him. This is closure enough and warrants that you move on to something/someone better. Otherwise you are doing yourself a disservice.
3. Put yourself in positive situations. Now is the time to lean on your friends a little. Understand that those closest to you care about you and that your time and energy should truly go to them. Don't overwhelm them, but understand they are there for you. Spend time with them, hang out, try not to spend time alone spiraling in thought.
4. While it may be hard to muster the will, now is the time to immerse yourself into intricate hobbies or projects. Find ways to better yourself and create new experiences. I personally found that anger is best taken out through hitting the gym, engaging in a new activity with other people, or even playing video games with friends. Whatever it is, try to do something where you can focus your energy entirely.
5. Challenge yourself. Make
and your clone is created on exactly 6 months away from your birthday. Does s/he behave like you, or is his/her personality much different because of its 'birthdate'?
Posted by leorisingpiscesmoon
Have you ever heard if indie alternative?
Yes, and there's some good stuff.
5. Challenge yourself. Make a conscious effort to move on and not think about where your ex is and what you're doing. Block him on social media, dont tempt yourself by keeping track of him in any way. If you hear about him or see him, even if he's with someone else, don't assume he's doing great without you. Remove his presence from your sight and mind.
6. Lastly, remember you are a Leo and have no shortage or possible suitors. Finding someone new can be a challenge, and annoying if the prospects seem dull/slim, but life is a game of numbers. If you found someone to love once, you will certainly do it again.
6. Lastly, remember you are a Leo and have no shortage or possible suitors. Finding someone new can be a challenge, and annoying if the prospects seem dull/slim, but life is a game of numbers. If you found someone to love once, you will certainly do it again.
I'm curious as well.. I'm Pisces moon. I definitely want to know which moons I'm most compatible with
Posted by vegansagittarius
Should I say this? "Also, I'm sorry if I came off rude yesterday. I just thought that if I saw you shirtless, it would drive me over the edge. You're already ridiculously handsome, charming, intelligent, kind and so sweet. I find you so irresistible and magnetic. You fit all the criteria that I need (and they are high!) and I find you absolutely perfect. You're the whole package, and with a nice, fit body, I just feel... To be honest, I didn't feel disgusted at all. I really want you. I blushed so hard on the spot and felt so flattered when you asked me, but, I didn't really know what to say."
I was worried because he has grown distant as opposed to the usual showering of attention and affection.
Virtually everything you say is manipulative.
You're talking about other men one minute, and the next
you're saying Oh you'll find someone else soon.
Then you want to gush and overdo it to the point you sound
like you're just fucking with him.
I get it, you're insecure-- but you're a Sagittarius ffs... can't
you just stay in the moment without over-thinking every
little thing and just have an honest convo?
Just be who you are, instead of trying to manipulate
reactions or behaviours.
Where is your moon?
1984-86
But still...
But still...
Parts of it. Nirvana suffered a crib death when Kurt Cobain died.
Pearl Jam and Alice in Chains made some pretty good music.
Pearl Jam and Alice in Chains made some pretty good music.
I'm just curious.. Do other Aquarians find it much easier to make friends than lovers?
If so, what's the deal with this?
If so, what's the deal with this?