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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 3881 · Topics: 128
I sincerely hope there's gonna be a lot more talent on display when I check on here tomorrow morning.
kris dear now don't be a silly boy, MD needs her beauty and sanity sleep....
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Nov 30, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 180 · Topics: 26
ok update!
girlfriend came round lastnight and i could tell she was reallly tired and drained. She said she feels like a really bad girlfriend because she works so many hours a week and dosen't have much time to see me, she works for a real estate company doing HR and marketing. Seems like i had her completely misunderstood. My mind wonders and draws conclusions when i'm left in the dark, ever get that? She sounded very trusting and genuine because she said that i could get a better girlfriend who would treat me better and this really upsetted me because i love her. She's always worked this hard, she hired me in her last job in January and she worked her absolute ass off, then she left that job and we kind of stuck together because we worked closely together on a magazine publication and the attraction was there.
She said that she loves hanging out with me and has so much fun with me and that i'm the best boyfriend she's ever had. She said that she dosen't want to hurt me and that we would be better off as friends, which i can't do. Too many feelings for her. I told her that if we broke up, i'd never see her again. She said she has very strong feelings for me but feels like she's being unfair on me by not seeing me much. She still wants to be with me but she just thought we would be better as friends because she feels like a bad girlfriend.
She works 5 days a week then overtime of 3 nights a week. When we see eachother she's very tired from working so hard but i still enjoy her company. I see her on the weekends.
Question is that i have to ask myself, can i compromise the time and still make it work? It would be a very platonic relationship.
Anyone has a similar experience? Maybe i should let her go...how sad.
Tauro
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Listen that's just like a blank screen to someone who's not well versed in 0 gravity and nothingness. I need more matter I'm afraid.
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I dont know what it is but i think all leo males love teasing aqua females seriously i can,t resist its a like automatic reaction .
I know (trust me)...we do give a cute reaction, but we know you love it, so we do it whether or not we care.
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Ahh another taurus / aqua match up. Best of luck! I'm in one now, oh boy it's a rollercoaster.
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hey kris think of it like this: you have centre stage to perform and do and say what you want, obviously using the medium of text and images that tripod has not banned you from posting to express yourself. So off you go Leo, be the showman of the zodiac that you are!!!! Nighty night!
T_T umm..ok. well me and my boyfriend(((he's a virgo im a scorpio))) have been going out for 4 months now..and we were very happy...in the past we went out before for 8 months and he cheated on me. we broke up and hated eachother for 3 months and then he came crawling bake to me T_T i took him back becuz i love him so much.
everything was going fine til i found out the girl he cheated on me with was trying to break us up again...so i overeacted and told her to back off.she ran off crying and now he wont talk to my boyfriend ever again my boyfriend was very upset with me becuz i made him lose a friend.
but then a week after that we've been having communicating problems and ect.he feels like he needs to constantly moniter me like if i was a baby and i feel like i need to do everything i can to show him i can be just as good as anygirl his age.((hes three years older then me))
we made it clear that there is no pressure but now!i find out he still feels like he needs to tend to me.i try to asure him im fine.he thinks while hes off playin games or hanging with his friends that im siting around waiting for him, which makes him have a horrible time while hes away then he comes back to me all upset and i dont know what to do.
i asked him how can i show him theres no pressure how can i make him feel better about all of this and how can i help him deal with this problem alls he could tell me is "i dont know" and if he doesnt know neither do i.....he alwys feels like im trying to hurt him like im always trying to start a fight. and thats not the case at all im afriad to talk to him cuz now everytime we talk he gets mad at me too easy and is too qick to say im up to something or want something from him when all i want is for him to feel good about himself and be happy.
i dont know how to talk to him i dont know how to confort him he refuses to see counselling becuz when he would go before they never helped him.i refuse to break up with him and i refuse to give up on the love we have.so thats why im here...
we both have horrible pasts that brought us to have emotional problem i have sepration anxity disorder and i knwo he has lots of emotional probs but i cant figure out what please help T_T