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He is less the controlling part. He always asks for my opinion and never makes a decision without me unless he drives 4 hours and sleeps outside my place. .. I somehow love it. The obsessive part. different strokes for different people but he's perfect for me
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Jun 21, 2015Comments: 3 · Posts: 2104 · Topics: 89
It depends what it is.....
I think what she hid from you is kind of weird...and also somewhat stupid to hide. Actually...it is blatantly stupid to hide, but that's just my opinion.
The only idea that I have is that maybe since you were supposed to be best friends, she may feel as though it is hard to tell you she's moving because she doesn't know how to take that split. Regardless, when I move, my best friends will be the first to know! And I'd be hoping they'd visit. All of my friends are already aware that I want to move within the next year.
As for the career change, maybe if she has some neptune/sun aspects (like I do) she thinks she already told you. I kind of forget who I tell things or just assume they know. Or I just don't tell someone because I don't think about it when I'm around them. Usually I'm always running my mouth about my life though. I only have a few secrets really. My best friends know a lot about me. I even trust a few people who I think it was a mistake to trust.
I am guessing my Libra ascendant plays a role in this...idk. 4 planets in the first house too. Most of my friends are fire and air signs. We are all pretty open. Maybe that's why I don't get along with most water/earth signs. I have felt like certain earth signs and some water you have to pry open. It takes too much work. Not even worth it, because the fight back is kind of strange and doesn't make sense. Especially if you're friends. Not telling your best friend you're moving and considering a career change is illogical to me.
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
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Jun 21, 2015Comments: 3 · Posts: 2104 · Topics: 89
I have forgotten to tell my Aries best friend a few things. She'd ask why I never told her that, and I'd tell her I didn't think about it (because I really didn't) or that I thought I already told her.
Depended on what it was. But moving....idk....that's something you don't really oversee to say....doesn't make sense at all to me. I'm trying to rationalize her logic, and there is none that I can find.
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
Well I'm 9 and possibly more masculine than feminine. Probably both combined though.