Because I dont feel like its an equal relationship.
Today I said
"You love me for the security and comfort I bring to the relationship because you know I love you"
And you know what he said?
"What is wrong in that? Usually the guy says I love you, the girl finds security in it and stays in love. Since you said you love me first, I wish to be loved. You send me gifts and I will cook for you and give you kids"