Trying To Understand This Female Gem...I'm totally lost!
Please help me understand because I'm trying if you don't mind?
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Posted by Bloop
Moon/Ascendant or Mars in Libra I think
My Pisces brother has Libra Moon. His Gemini ex cheated on him, told him and additionally slappen him in the face.
Scorpios also really like being insulted. Look how well this thread did.
Much better than the ones where I was sincerely asking for advice.
Much better than the ones where I was sincerely asking for advice.
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I'm on friendly terms with all of my x's and good friends with a few of them. Then again I've never had a bad break-up so I'm sure that was influence my feelings toward it.
Cancer Rising
Capricorn Venus
Cancer Rising
Capricorn Venus
Posted by tizianiPosted by DamnataPosted by tizianiPosted by littlegigabyte
@tiziani @soul
Wow that's actually kind of messed up and let's me see more into the guys perspective. I can honestly say that most of time, to the best of my ability, I always tried to write back to the ones that sent thought provoking, kind, and long messages. I actually didn't even visit too many profiles/look at photos often off the bat unless we had exchanged a few messages or I was curious for whatever reason. Maybe most women are more ... "visual" than I am, I guess. I don't mind at all going out with a dude who's not particularly attractive if the conversation and connection seems good enough.
I believe you but honestly, would you write back to a profile that had no pictures on it?
Yes, I reply more to those profiles then profiles with pics.
It makes me want to read their profile and that's when I see things we have in common so conversation flows.
It's the exactly opposite way around with men imo.
Ok so you're all in the minority percentages but honestly with men looking for advice on how to just get noticed online on dating sites - stats are telling a different story to real life.click to expand
Oh far be it for me to disagree with stats. It just your question that caught my eye so I had to reply based on my experience.
I met so many cool people I am totally biased favorably.
Pretty much what others have said.
He's affectionate, cuddly, thoughtful, sensitive. He does not appreciate that I like my space. He tries to cling to me and I'm like nope.
He's affectionate, cuddly, thoughtful, sensitive. He does not appreciate that I like my space. He tries to cling to me and I'm like nope.
@alicia Your tone doesn't bother me if you're trying to be a bully. It's my bday and I can cry if I want too. Anyway please go away
Posted by scorpx3
@tcta Tucson, specifically... The more northwest of Arizona you go, the more expensive, and vice versa if you're looking for inexpensive places. The inexpensive areas have more "explorable" land as I like to call it...there are more places to venture, versus the more expensive then it's just as city-like as any other state. I prefer areas closer to nature.
jobs, single older men that have teeth and good housing ... Tucson you say ... sounds great !!! thanks!
Yes why wouldnt u
Speaking on the stigma about online dating...this article touches a point I couldn't sum up that well in my explanations.
http://waitbutwhy.com/2014/02/pick-life-partner.html
"Society places a stigma on intelligently expanding our search for potential partners.
In a study on what governs our dating choices more, our preferences or our current opportunities, opportunities wins hands down—our dating choices are “98% a response…to market conditions and just 2% immutable desires. Proposals to date tall, short, fat, thin, professional, clerical, educated, uneducated people are all more than nine-tenths governed by what’s on offer that night.â€5
In other words, people end up picking from whatever pool of options they have, no matter how poorly matched they might be to those candidates. The obvious conclusion to draw here is that outside of serious socialites, everyone looking for a life partner should be doing a lot of online dating, speed dating, and other systems created to broaden the candidate pool in an intelligent way.
But good old society frowns upon that, and people are often still timid to say they met their spouse on a dating site. The respectable way to meet a life partner is by dumb luck, by bumping into them randomly or being introduced to them from within your little pool. Fortunately, this stigma is diminishing with time, but that it’s there at all is a reflection of how illogical the socially accepted dating rulebook is."
http://waitbutwhy.com/2014/02/pick-life-partner.html
"Society places a stigma on intelligently expanding our search for potential partners.
In a study on what governs our dating choices more, our preferences or our current opportunities, opportunities wins hands down—our dating choices are “98% a response…to market conditions and just 2% immutable desires. Proposals to date tall, short, fat, thin, professional, clerical, educated, uneducated people are all more than nine-tenths governed by what’s on offer that night.â€5
In other words, people end up picking from whatever pool of options they have, no matter how poorly matched they might be to those candidates. The obvious conclusion to draw here is that outside of serious socialites, everyone looking for a life partner should be doing a lot of online dating, speed dating, and other systems created to broaden the candidate pool in an intelligent way.
But good old society frowns upon that, and people are often still timid to say they met their spouse on a dating site. The respectable way to meet a life partner is by dumb luck, by bumping into them randomly or being introduced to them from within your little pool. Fortunately, this stigma is diminishing with time, but that it’s there at all is a reflection of how illogical the socially accepted dating rulebook is."