Why isn't this Taurus guy saying anything?

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Posted by EnochtheWise
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I'm starting to think that he actually likes me but doesn't want to tell me since he's in a different place now or he just doesn't know if he likes me or not.

Do Taurus guys act the way I described his behavior when they like a girl? Why isn't he saying anything to me? Is there anything I can say to get him to talk to me about it?

Please Google "the Taurus harem" and do some reading.

Thanks, that actually helped. He isn't romancing any women though so idk but I get the idea.

The harem isn't about romance or sleeping around. Its about a soaking up all that admiration from a group of females who think they have a chance, but either don't, or are not seriously being considered at the moment.

Take you for instance. At best, from what I just read of your situation,if this guy is into you at all, he is not really all that concerned with losing you. If he were, he would never risk it by failing tor respond to some very direct behavior on your part. And you continue to act in a way that reinfoces the belief that he doesn't really have to worry about that. This is Venusian magic. You are under the spell.

What is so great about the guy that you'd put your pride aside like that? Why settle for anything less than someone being crazy about you? If he can put you on hold like this now, he'd be doing the same all throughout your relationship.
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I see your point but it's also why I'm a little confused. He actually was a little concerned about 'losing' me. The physical aspect couldn't be avoided because he's going to grad school in a different state so he has to move for that so in that sense, he was losing me regardless. What I'm confused about is that he did try to talk to me about the move and just telling me the whole plan and when he's leaving and random details. At the time, I didn't know what to make of it because I didn't really know why he was telling me all this out of the blue, especially with the tone he was using, like he was trying to gently explain some bad news or something. Point is, I'm not so sure about him not really being concerned with losing me. I'm actually tied to him for work reasons right now, I've been pestering him to hand over some data and he has yet to do it. After he does that, he knows as well as I that I have no reason to contact him again.

He has a lot of the characteristics that I value, let'

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