Feeling like a doormat
also why do you want everything to be like the beginning???
i'd be weirded out if my man is like that and not comfortable after awhile.
I don't want him to romance me 24/7 ...it' not realistic.
I expect farting around the house, scratching his belly, beer burps, and an occasional smooshy kiss, especially in bed.
i'd be weirded out if my man is like that and not comfortable after awhile.
I don't want him to romance me 24/7 ...it' not realistic.
I expect farting around the house, scratching his belly, beer burps, and an occasional smooshy kiss, especially in bed.
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Posted by ElleDuMonde
@MzMee
@Scruffles
why are you two coming after me?
Because of your last vote. Lol
These fuckboys still trying to hit me up for my bomb sex. Even those who I broke up with like 5 years ago. And a couple of them got girlfriends. lmao. I should post the instant messages these trifflin nukkas send me on my FB wall and tag dey asses on it.
Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by LadyNeptune
My gem seems to cycle through emotions much faster than me.
One minute he'll be annoyed/frustrated and upset with me. The next minute he's back to being upbeat. His dual twins are giving me whiplash. And as a Pisces I absorb his mood. He's upset with me? I become upset in turn. And while he can quickly get over these negative emotions they tend to effect me deeply.
Our biggest problem though is how we communicate these differences. I'm learning to let him know if I'm feeling a certain way as opposed to holding it all inside and stewing in my misery.
In general I think us Pisces and Gemini's struggle in this area, communication.
@boxcarmirnta Would you consider reaching out to him? I know he's hurt your pride, but everyone has an off day. He may not be fully aware of how this has effected you.
Let him know that you care about him and are sorry if you came off as dismissive of how he was feeling. Let him know that the way he lashed out at you upset you enough to make you leave.
Explain where you are coming from and see if he will meet you half way. If not, then you have your answer.
I appreciate your words of wisdom, as always..yes communication is a huge problem. Wish I could pick your brain to figure out how you do it. I might, I dunno....he's already acting like nothing happened.click to expand
"he's already acting like nothing happened".
Isn't it maddening! They bounce back like it's nothing... while we are still licking our wounds and feeling all butt hurt.
I think mine miss my positive attitude mostly 
And maybe my weekend breakfast cooking
But, I'd miss that too lol
And maybe my weekend breakfast cooking
But, I'd miss that too lol
My homemade southern cooking, my fat ass, and the fact that I gave a damn about them more than anyone ever will.
Nah it doesn't matter
Well I've dated online plenty of times
..and they're just like you and me. I know it's hard to hold out hope..but its out there....just decide exactly what you want and then wait for it and accept nothing less..sounds like cuz yr lonely right now yr willing to accept things that aren't good for you, hold out hope, as hard as it is....also lots of women in their 30s dont even have kids yet!!
..and they're just like you and me. I know it's hard to hold out hope..but its out there....just decide exactly what you want and then wait for it and accept nothing less..sounds like cuz yr lonely right now yr willing to accept things that aren't good for you, hold out hope, as hard as it is....also lots of women in their 30s dont even have kids yet!!
Your last vote was Get Misted, right?
Gotta get rid of him, dont you.
Honestly, all yall ass is suspicious to me.
I kinda think you an angle so I can pm you but i dont trust nobody. Gimme a few rounds tho.
Im shooting in the air now.
Gotta get rid of him, dont you.
Honestly, all yall ass is suspicious to me.
I kinda think you an angle so I can pm you but i dont trust nobody. Gimme a few rounds tho.
Im shooting in the air now.
Posted by busyeyes88Posted by M143
Busy,
Yes. The same bull .hahaha. We had lots of laughed looking back.
We are going somewhere..
Blimey!!! How many years ago and how long was your 'separation'?
How on earth did you both 'survive ' without any resentment?!click to expand
None. He said it was his faults. He is hoping I don't hold grudge as well.
I don't hold anything against him. He kept saying we are soulmate.
hahaha.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by LadyNeptune
My gem seems to cycle through emotions much faster than me.
One minute he'll be annoyed/frustrated and upset with me. The next minute he's back to being upbeat. His dual twins are giving me whiplash. And as a Pisces I absorb his mood. He's upset with me? I become upset in turn. And while he can quickly get over these negative emotions they tend to effect me deeply.
Our biggest problem though is how we communicate these differences. I'm learning to let him know if I'm feeling a certain way as opposed to holding it all inside and stewing in my misery.
In general I think us Pisces and Gemini's struggle in this area, communication.
@boxcarmirnta Would you consider reaching out to him? I know he's hurt your pride, but everyone has an off day. He may not be fully aware of how this has effected you.
Let him know that you care about him and are sorry if you came off as dismissive of how he was feeling. Let him know that the way he lashed out at you upset you enough to make you leave.
Explain where you are coming from and see if he will meet you half way. If not, then you have your answer.
I appreciate your words of wisdom, as always..yes communication is a huge problem. Wish I could pick your brain to figure out how you do it. I might, I dunno....he's already acting like nothing happened.
"he's already acting like nothing happened".
Isn't it maddening! They bounce back like it's nothing... while we are still licking our wounds and feeling all butt hurt.
click to expand
yes yes yes!!! This this this...I don't know how to get past it like they do...or if I even should? I guess I could learn something? I dunno...