Another question .. them not having the ability to commit does that mean they just don't love you ?? Or it's because they can't help themselves but have their options open ??? too free spirits to settle? My sag girlfriend never has a boyfriend for a long time since her last and only commited herself to her dogsss lol too funny... well those ladies here that managed to get them to commit, how were u acting? What did you do? What happened? how many days do u go by without talking etc?